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Lint Head

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Fri Apr 21, 2017, 09:48 PM Apr 2017

Had one if "those" experiences today. I was in line at the [View all]

grocery store.
Moving at a good pace. Not a lot of items in the basket but just enough for the young lady cashier to scan and carry on a short conversation. After the standard 'How you doing today' I made the mistake of saying, "Doing well. How are you?"

She then said the following. "Just unhappy with all the people taking advantage of the government."
She continued, "It's been a long day and there has been more of them than usual. There are just too many Mexicans taking advantage. There are veterans out there that don't get the respect they deserve. My dad is a retired military and it just gets all over him. He's not in good health and me and my mom have to constantly calm him down. He gets so upset."
She finished by saying, "I get so upset and don't even like to talk about it."
I just took my bags and walked on saying to myself, "If you didn't want to talk about it then why did you bring it up?"
I am the type that would usually make a scene and call her out and her family's bigotry. But I knew it would proffer nothing and would be an exercise in futility.

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"Does it make you feel better to get your inner racism off your chest?" Skittles Apr 2017 #1
I should have said that. Just wanted to get away from the stink. Lint Head Apr 2017 #2
Excellent response!!! spooky3 Apr 2017 #7
I absolutely DETEST someone assuming I am racist too Skittles Apr 2017 #15
You are more considerate than I am. I wouldn't have created a big scene, but I would have Had to napi21 Apr 2017 #3
"Herd whining"! LOL! I know it is either a typo or an autocorrect snafu, but it really tblue37 Apr 2017 #20
Ha! I thought "herd whining" was brilliantly intentional, but I think you're right. PdxSean Apr 2017 #21
with my big mouth i probably would have DesertFlower Apr 2017 #4
It's a weird form of white (or maybe a combo) privilege spooky3 Apr 2017 #5
That's a common trait with them Freddie Apr 2017 #11
i would have dumped my groceries right there and drray23 Apr 2017 #6
So they're blaming non-whites for all the health issues caused by their own racism dalton99a Apr 2017 #8
I was thinking the same thing. yardwork Apr 2017 #33
i'd have said just keep away from foxnews. it's toxic and soul-crushing. unblock Apr 2017 #9
Tell her greymattermom Apr 2017 #10
Ha! Lint Head Apr 2017 #12
call the store crazycatlady Apr 2017 #13
++++++++ It's very unprofessional to talk politics with costumers in most uppityperson Apr 2017 #14
Yep, I NEVER do it. Manly_Scream Apr 2017 #18
This is true. cwydro Apr 2017 #35
There are all kinds of deserving veterans some veterans are not citizens. gordianot Apr 2017 #16
She must give zero fucks about her job... Manly_Scream Apr 2017 #17
There was no one behind or around us and I was having Lint Head Apr 2017 #19
I certainly wish you would. Manly_Scream Apr 2017 #29
I think you hit that nail right on the head. n/t susanna Apr 2017 #23
I have something similar happen before. susanna Apr 2017 #22
Totally agree with you Lint, Canoe52 Apr 2017 #24
it's hard for some to admit but this is why Trump got most of the support he did JI7 Apr 2017 #25
I'll check the JC Penny's clip out. Now THAT would set me off. Lint Head Apr 2017 #31
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2017 #26
Another example of people thinking it's okay to spout their racism publicly now because Trump says TeamPooka Apr 2017 #27
Sadly, she gets all her views kacekwl Apr 2017 #28
"Your Mom should get your Dad to stop watching FOX and the other phoney news" . . .n/t annabanana Apr 2017 #30
I admire your restraint. I would have been CUSSING. LaydeeBug Apr 2017 #32
I might have left the damned groceries right there and walked out without paying. hunter Apr 2017 #34
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