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Orrex

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4. "Odd" is in the eye of the beholder, I suppose
Sun Apr 23, 2017, 12:28 PM
Apr 2017

I mean, it seems odd to me that someone would take pride in someone else's accomplishments, especially (as in the current example) when those accomplishments include secession and slavery.

If you're part of a civic group that does good work for the community, then I can see taking pride in your part in that effort. If you participate in a family tradition, business or activity, then I can see taking pride in that.

But if my cousin wins the state tiddly-wink championship with no help from me, what business do I have being proud of her? I can commend her effort and applaud her success, but for me to take pride in it feels like trying to take vicarious credit for her accomplishment.

Or if my illiterate uncle learns to read with substantial help from me, then I can take pride in that achievement. But if he builds an amazing sculpture of the Statue of Liberty out of toothpicks, then why should I be proud of him? Proud for him, maybe, but of him? I just don't get it.

Locally, "Pittsburgh Pride" is a big thing, in no small part due to the town's sports legacy. I'm an import to the area, and I'm not a sports guy in any case, so this kind of pride is utterly baffling to me.



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