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Mother Of Four

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Fri Jul 6, 2012, 09:16 PM Jul 2012

Thank you Obama. Because of you,my son is being seen for chronic pain. [View all]

My 21 year old son went into the Navy a couple years back, he was sent home near graduation due to stress fractures in his knees that weren't healing. Because he didn't graduate, they aren't providing him with followup care.

Fast forward to now, he works his butt off slinging produce. It's not perfect but he's grateful to have a job. The hard work, lifting and bending has aggravated his knees and the pain has started to affect his hips. At 21, he's having to use a cane when he's not working and eats Ibuprofen like it's candy. His insurance at work is actually a supplement program, (and it's laughable) where he has to pay out 5k before it ever starts paying a portion for his appts. He barely has two nickles to rub together and it would be impossible for him to meet the requirement. He makes, and I kid you not, less than 14k a year before taxes. He lives with us because he can't afford not to.

Because of the Health Care Act, I put my son on our Tricare policy under the young adults program. It costs us about 200 dollars a month, but before he couldn't be on it after age 21 unless he was in school. (It ended on his 21st birthday) He see's his other friends struggling with student debt, and doesn't want to go that route to go to school.

When I told my son we could get him taken care of, he laid back in his bed and sighed. He was white from pain, the previous evening he had been coming down the stairs and his leg gave out. Thankfully some friends could come and help me get him back into bed. He refused to go to the ER that night no matter how much we scolded, because he couldn't pay and he is adamant about not letting us get into medical debt over him.

He has pride, and I'm quoting him when I say "I'm supposed to be a man Mama, I feel like I've been stomped on and castrated. If I can't take care of myself, how will I ever take care of anyone else?"

I cried when the Supreme court upheld it, I hugged my son and I'm starting to think things will begin to turn around for him. I was terrified he would end up in a wheelchair before we could get it taken care of.

I just wanted to say "Thank you." For all the naysayers out there, this Act has changed a life for the better. I waited to post his story, because I couldn't bear it if they had struck it down. Now that it's been upheld, the future is much brighter than it was. No more waiting for the other shoe to drop.

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kick! hedgehog Jul 2012 #1
I hope he gets the relief he needs nobodyspecial Jul 2012 #2
He's considering it, Mother Of Four Jul 2012 #6
Really encourage him nobodyspecial Jul 2012 #15
I will, thank you. Mother Of Four Jul 2012 #24
I was going to mention that ashling Jul 2012 #16
I wish you and your family the best of luck and may your son get some relief from his pain. Auntie Bush Jul 2012 #19
military va claims ammoman357 Jul 2012 #33
Thank you for sharing mzmolly Jul 2012 #3
Thank you for taking the time to read it. nt Mother Of Four Jul 2012 #12
Sounds like you and your son both needed and deserved a break. I'm so glad it's working out for you Booster Jul 2012 #4
Thank you- nt Mother Of Four Jul 2012 #11
This is the true effect of the ACA, Obamacare(s)... Spazito Jul 2012 #5
... Mother Of Four Jul 2012 #10
I know a poor Republican with a special needs kid... upi402 Jul 2012 #7
I blame right wing radio. 24/7 hate, lies and propaganda! Auntie Bush Jul 2012 #20
It's nearly seamless corporatist propaganda upi402 Jul 2012 #25
Sorry, but that poor republican is stupid. Zoeisright Jul 2012 #30
I have a similar story cally Jul 2012 #8
Please give your daughter our love- Mother Of Four Jul 2012 #9
I'm so glad for you! lunatica Jul 2012 #13
Thank Goodness! patrice Jul 2012 #14
I'm so sorry for your loss... Mother Of Four Jul 2012 #21
Thank you. We have been through a few of these, but not one with such a serious patrice Jul 2012 #27
I love how over the past couple of days more and more light is being shed upon these great stories FarLeftFist Jul 2012 #17
I am 27, disabled since 17 with incurable chronic pain issues. Akoto Jul 2012 #18
I was under the impression that when you need the medication no problem developes but, Auntie Bush Jul 2012 #22
The way it was explained to me, and as I have experienced it ... Akoto Jul 2012 #28
I'll pass it along, Mother Of Four Jul 2012 #23
K&R !!! n/t RKP5637 Jul 2012 #26
I have a chronic pain issue nilram Jul 2012 #29
me too. and thank heaven for Medicaid. cali Jul 2012 #31
It is so hard lillypaddle Jul 2012 #32
My doctor tells me to exercise for pain management and offers no help at all. earcandle Jul 2012 #34
Another poster family for this: Grins Jul 2012 #35
UNTIL You are in pain Iggy Jul 2012 #36
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