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Catmusicfan

(816 posts)
Tue Jun 20, 2017, 11:08 PM Jun 2017

May I make a suggestion? [View all]

Yes, I know I am new to the board and I probably have no right to do this but I am. The reason why I am saying this is not only because of the races tonight BUT because of a post earlier today asking if Megan Kelly's looks was the reason why people on this board felt the way they did about her.


Here is the thing we have got to realize: We are all citizens of this country. We are not each other's enemy. National politics have helped to make us so polarized. Once upon a time (with the events of certain times in our history) we were groups of people that worked toward a compromise for the common good of the country and our fellow citizens. Yes, at times we fell sort but at times our compromise did so much good.

Here is the thing we need to stop looking at our neighbors and family as the enemy ruining the country. We need to start dialogging about each other. We need to see the human in each of us. Maybe if republican and democratic neighbors start compromising on small things when faux news start spewing and those terrifying political ads do start playing we can have dialogs about the real issues and maybe change some minds.

Yes those races had been closer than they might have been. Maybe I am speaking out of fear. In my mind I am seeing one political party taking over this country in almost a coup like strategy with help from one of America's greatest advisory.

Maybe it is the helpless feeling I have because I read too much and this whole Trump RUssia thing is unfolding so slowly. I am just thinking if we humanize each other not lecture but conversations and humanizing events it might make things better the next election.

I'm tired of looking at enemies every time I go to the store and I'm sorry if I offended. Maybe I just needed to vent. I understand if I am kicked off.

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May I make a suggestion? [View all] Catmusicfan Jun 2017 OP
Yes, you may make a suggestion left-of-center2012 Jun 2017 #1
Thanks. I understand your fears. I am just thinking Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #4
Thank you. TomSlick Jun 2017 #2
That is what I see as well. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #5
The problem is that most of these people don't want to hear it. They don't Luciferous Jun 2017 #7
I found that talking to some of them and presenting the facts as how it will effect them works. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #9
People are fearful of what's to come. It's hard to have ecstatic Jun 2017 #3
I couldn't disagree more. TomSlick Jun 2017 #6
I can understand you metaphor but to me Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #8
I think that has been attempted for many years Meowmee Jun 2017 #10
I can't cozy up to them. They are busy painting targets on my loved ones and friends. luvMIdog Jun 2017 #11
You said it! n/t MLAA Jun 2017 #13
I had a Muslim uncle and I do have friends and relatives who are part of the LGBT Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #15
That "path" is being blacktopped with darkened hate courtesy of Republicans. HughBeaumont Jun 2017 #16
they are bound and determined to turn this country into a totalitarian pseudo Christian regime.. luvMIdog Jun 2017 #24
One should never MLAA Jun 2017 #12
Those racists you mentioned cannot be reason with Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #19
Hello, my banana split is melting, but I'll respond as quickly sprinkleeninow Jun 2017 #14
Half a kitten isn't half as cute - HughBeaumont Jun 2017 #17
welcome to DU BainsBane Jun 2017 #18
republican politicians, some 98% of them, are a clear danger to humanity bigtree Jun 2017 #20
I'm not really sure how to compromise on my relative's healthcare ck4829 Jun 2017 #21
Oh, please, I am the enemy of the 1%. Are you a 1%-er? - nt KingCharlemagne Jun 2017 #22
Best to avoid Trump Davidians and all zealots. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2017 #23
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