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SharonClark

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11. I had dinner with my neighbor who has always been a bit iffy politically
Mon Jul 10, 2017, 11:43 AM
Jul 2017

but now she is full on willfully ignorant. I suspected she wouldn't vote for Hillary but she told me she voted FOR Trump. From her incoherent blathering, her reasons included 1) both sides are the same, 2) she can't stand Hillary, 3) she had to put up with Obama for 8 years so now we have to put up with Trump for four years, and 4) said she can only control the space around her. When she ranted about a couple of policies the state legislature rammed through this year, she didn't know the GOP had rammed them through and wouldn't believe me when I told her so. I asked her what she meant by 'putting up with Obama" she had no answer. When I asked her what she liked about Trump she had no answer. When I asked why she bothered to vote if she can't impact anything outside her little sphere of influence, she bellowed I couldn't tell her not to vote and she has a right to vote. When I mentioned clean air and clean water issues she accused me of making stuff up because "we have clean air and clean water so why do you care" and scoffed at my true reply that every river and lake in our state is polluted and the gop will make it worse. I ended the conversation saying "I don't know what your values are" and asked 'what do you stand for?" and again she made no reply.

I've known her for 20 years and she is very ignorant about politics and political issues. I'm done being anything but "civil over the fence" with her because I feel she, with one vote, undid so many positive things I've worked on for so many years.

Thanks for listening.

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Revenge. n/t rzemanfl Jul 2017 #1
I stopped talking politics with my a decade ago. Eom pirateshipdude Jul 2017 #2
Maybe they actually think this election bullshit doesn't matter. yallerdawg Jul 2017 #3
I agree with your thinking yallerdawg Hokie Jul 2017 #5
I've decided jehop61 Jul 2017 #4
I accepted W even though I still think he didn't really win Hokie Jul 2017 #7
I had gone that way for many years. Girard442 Jul 2017 #8
I don't know. Whole family is anti trump lovemydogs Jul 2017 #6
Blew off a couple of relatives... Xolodno Jul 2017 #9
And that's it. It never is politics alone. It is what makes people vote that way. Please don't lunamagica Jul 2017 #31
They aren't. Xolodno Jul 2017 #33
friends/family trump supporters SWBTATTReg Jul 2017 #10
I had dinner with my neighbor who has always been a bit iffy politically SharonClark Jul 2017 #11
I have cousins who voted for the Con. All older white men, incidentally. I ignore them. CrispyQ Jul 2017 #12
I had lunch with some Trump supporters a few weeks ago. hamsterjill Jul 2017 #13
I'm the one who has clammed up. pnwest Jul 2017 #14
Both my parents voted trump. I cut them off too GhostofJFK Jul 2017 #15
Recently spoke to one. Cracklin Charlie Jul 2017 #16
Be very careful, when the election euphoria wears off, she will never forgive herself for her choice MiddleClass Jul 2017 #24
I don't think she will turn her anger on me. Cracklin Charlie Jul 2017 #25
That's good, just be cautious not to leave something out there that someone can latch on to MiddleClass Jul 2017 #27
Luckily, I can't answer this PasadenaTrudy Jul 2017 #17
I try not to push the issue but most of them are ok with it still Amishman Jul 2017 #18
Not good...a lot of yelling and screaming on their part HipChick Jul 2017 #19
They rarely talk about Trump so it's not an isse Kaleva Jul 2017 #20
Here's the thing... sagetea Jul 2017 #21
I like to take a different road, MiddleClass Jul 2017 #22
I open with "Only an idiot racist fuckhead would vote for that idiot racist fuckhead." Orrex Jul 2017 #23
My hair cutter was the only person I know who supported WhiteTara Jul 2017 #26
Yup mercuryblues Jul 2017 #30
We need to take steps to secure ourselves -- sad to say. Freelancer Jul 2017 #28
I've had civil discussions with family and friends that voted for Trump. lib-ruhl Jul 2017 #29
Such encounters rarely happen Zing Zing Zingbah Jul 2017 #32
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