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In reply to the discussion: When did so many (not all) "christians" become hateful psychopaths? [View all]Tigress DEM
(7,887 posts)I was raised Catholic, but went to public school in WA and CA. In 4th grade I had to fight my way out of a circle of kids in my first week, but after that I got left alone... until 8th grade. Sigh. That time they told me I was "jumped" into the gang. I told them "No thanks. I don't need other people to fight my battles for me."
In high school I had to walk through the hallways with rival gangs on each side. I made friends with both sides. "Hey, neutral party here, just passing through - save your 'A game' for each other". Dunno how I got away with it, but I did.
I hate it when people bully others. I used to walk people home and give the bullies some warnings about messing with my vertically challenged friends.
I knew a wonderful girl who got her head blown off just for flirting with a guy and not being able to duck when they shot at him. Did the guys who killed her go to confession afterward and think that made it ok? I don't know. Can even people like these change their ways? Yes. But someone has to show them a way out.
It IS sad when Christians don't act like Christians. We expect more from people who are supposed to be following the example of Christ.
It's my contention that a Christian's day to day life is the only Bible most people really read, so it's important to treat others with kindness always since you never know who might be watching you and hoping to see some evidence that the message of Christ really was heard and IS practiced by some people.
But you may have been treated well by Christians and just not know that the people who were good to you are Christians. I don't wear a cross - guess I should - or tell anyone I'm nice to, "By the way, I'm a Christian," unless it comes up in conversation otherwise.
So as an experiment, next time someone practices a random act of kindness and you are the beneficiary, ask them if they are a Christian. I'll pray that you get more than your share of kindness soon and that at least some of it comes from a Christian or two. Can't hurt, might help. lol.
Tig