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In reply to the discussion: Lunch with a Trump fan [View all]renate
(13,776 posts)54. this reminds me of the advice I've gotten about trying to reason with people who are delusional:
Don't.
I volunteer in a capacity that occasionally brings me into contact with people who, through no fault of their own, are not grounded in reality. There is simply no point in trying to change their minds. It doesn't help them, it's not productive, and it's a barrier to trust. (So maybe, if there is any hope of gaining a Trump person's trust, the best approach is not to argue with them but to go along with their version of reality, at least in conversation if not in action.)
I'm not equating being a Fox News viewer with actual mental illness, but Fox News viewers simply and literally live in a different world than we do.
So yeah, what you said about not wasting time trying to reach these people (at least, with logic): don't.
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You can't reason with those who believe we are the one who are brainwashed and out of touch with
Glimmer of Hope
Aug 2017
#7
No friend I have ever had would hold those views and still count me as "friend"...
Moostache
Aug 2017
#12
I don't think my stomach could take it. Don't know how you could eat lunch.
sinkingfeeling
Aug 2017
#13
The one Trump supporting friend I had doesn't call me anymore, and I'm fine with that
Downtown Hound
Aug 2017
#14
It takes all types, and America you have a constitutional right to be willfully stupid
MiddleClass
Aug 2017
#17
I put up with eight years worth of derogatory emails and conversation that indubitably
sprinkleeninow
Aug 2017
#64
I couldn't be friends w/someone like that. She's too stupid...or she KNOWS the truth
Honeycombe8
Aug 2017
#20
Reader's Digest Condensed version: "Trump voters are ignorant about everything."
WinkyDink
Aug 2017
#26
Your friend is a puppy, and Trump put him in front of an approaching garbage truck.
C Moon
Aug 2017
#31
I will not have my brain eaten a lunch and few beers ... I cannot stand this guy
MyNameIsKhan
Aug 2017
#48
this reminds me of the advice I've gotten about trying to reason with people who are delusional:
renate
Aug 2017
#54
I, personally, would never spoil a perfectly good lunch by eating in the presence of one of them. nt
Binkie The Clown
Aug 2017
#60