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StarryNight

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14. yes, it's a figure of speech, but then so is "mighty white of you."

Sat Jul 14, 2012, 10:55 PM

Jul 2012

the problem is the origin of both expressions, which is rooted in the belief that one is better than the other; i.e., having balls is better than not having balls, and having white skin is better than the alternative. i certainly disagree with both and i cringe whenever i hear the "balls" reference, especially when it comes from women. way i see it; they're laughing at you, not with you.

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what's the difference between "you've got balls" and "that's mighty white of you?" [View all] StarryNight Jul 2012 OP

Oh good. The Oppression Olympics. Robb Jul 2012 #1

certainly; i'm simply saying they're both wrong. nt StarryNight Jul 2012 #9

"Admitted repeat zombie, multiple posts gender and race bating." buh-bye Electric Monk Jul 2012 #39

What is it, goddamn Asshole Homecoming Week? Robb Jul 2012 #65

Schwetty Balls? Arctic Dave Jul 2012 #2

Well I'm ball-less nc4bo Jul 2012 #3

I'm female, elleng Jul 2012 #6

yes, it's a figure of speech, but then so is "mighty white of you." StarryNight Jul 2012 #14

You're probably correct about the origins, elleng Jul 2012 #22

and i suppose all those other folks ought to get past the insults against them StarryNight Jul 2012 #30

I said nothing about others, elleng Jul 2012 #36

I'm pretty sure they don't rhyme... cherokeeprogressive Jul 2012 #4

Plus Duer 157099 Jul 2012 #24

ballsy post. mighty white of you to post that. dionysus Jul 2012 #5

heh heh. at least that was funny. nt StarryNight Jul 2012 #23

Worlds of difference the other one Jul 2012 #7

wow. just wow. and who says that somebody might not genuinely, but ignorantly, StarryNight Jul 2012 #17

That's not what was said. The post said CONDESCENDING, not COMPLIMENTARY. MADem Jul 2012 #34

Um. What? the other one Jul 2012 #64

You've got major nipples to bring that up. n/t Ian David Jul 2012 #8

One's a compliment and the other's an insult. nolabear Jul 2012 #10

True, Sir The Magistrate Jul 2012 #19

which is why I like "that takes the balls of a brass monkey." It's got balls and monkey in the same CTyankee Jul 2012 #69

so it's a "compliment" to say that a woman is like a man? ok. nuff said. nt StarryNight Jul 2012 #20

Sometimes it is, but that's a twisted reading of it. Liking one thing nolabear Jul 2012 #35

Origin of the Word "Virtue" SoDesuKa Jul 2012 #63

is aggression, violence, and impulsive behavior really a good thing? maybe in some StarryNight Jul 2012 #26

Exactly, calling someone white... gregoire Jul 2012 #31

Excuse me? "White" people responsible for institution of slavery? cherokeeprogressive Jul 2012 #54

NO ONE says "that's mighty white of ya" to a black person. cherokeeprogressive Jul 2012 #52

Hmmm, I never heard it that way. It seems a sarcastic reference to me. txwhitedove Jul 2012 #66

i have never heard it as a compliment arely staircase Jul 2012 #67

Ovaries are balls, too. Odin2005 Jul 2012 #11

i suppose you could say that, but it's a stretch. nt StarryNight Jul 2012 #21

"i've been on DU since the beginning" Ruby the Liberal Jul 2012 #12

oh, i've been here since the very beginning, but i have this way of getting banned... StarryNight Jul 2012 #18

And doggone it--looks like it happened to you AGAIN! nt MADem Jul 2012 #37

With the moon in your eye like a big pizza pie Ruby the Liberal Jul 2012 #41

Good grief, will she never give up? nt MADem Jul 2012 #46

Seriously? Ruby the Liberal Jul 2012 #47

I guess not! nt MADem Jul 2012 #48

i feel dumb arely staircase Jul 2012 #72

Iverglas, izzat you? Odin2005 Jul 2012 #50

DU search is your friend........... Historic NY Jul 2012 #13

Why? Does that discussion preclude for all time any others? pnwmom Jul 2012 #29

Selective chronological outrage. flvegan Jul 2012 #15

That took some mighty white balls for you to post. Dr. Strange Jul 2012 #38

You are a hateful individual. flvegan Jul 2012 #44

THAT, is sarcastic comedy gold. N/T cherokeeprogressive Jul 2012 #55

As Professor Auguste Balls would say, Turbineguy Jul 2012 #16

Another thread about balls... Just start leaving them hanging. nt Comrade_McKenzie Jul 2012 #25

what, off the back of your pick-up truck? ha ha. nt StarryNight Jul 2012 #27

+1. n/t pnwmom Jul 2012 #28

Societal context is what matters. "you've got balls" is never implied to be derogatory of women. phleshdef Jul 2012 #32

Looks like May 2012..you've been TS'd before, eh? pipoman Jul 2012 #33

..... and again tonight. Hassin Bin Sober Jul 2012 #40

~snick~ pipoman Jul 2012 #51

one is sexism and the other is racism Skittles Jul 2012 #42

S'long, Kid. You had balls, I'll give you that. nolabear Jul 2012 #43

sleep well, sweet, sweet prince... dionysus Jul 2012 #45

Pretty impressive shitstirring for such a one as yourself......... kestrel91316 Jul 2012 #49

I'm guessing that's why the aforementioned shitstirrer was PPR'd Major Nikon Jul 2012 #61

Since you asked, "You've got balls" is more intrinsically offensive cthulu2016 Jul 2012 #53

"mighty white of you" cwydro Jul 2012 #56

It's NOT an insult because it's normally spoken by a white person to a white person. cherokeeprogressive Jul 2012 #57

We're going to have to disagree. cwydro Jul 2012 #59

It's a distinction without a difference. NO white person says to a black person... cherokeeprogressive Jul 2012 #60

I've heard it used both ways gollygee Jul 2012 #71

Yup, everytime I've heard "that's mighty white of you" it's intended as an insult Raine Jul 2012 #62

"You've got balls" is more often used not as a trope, but "that's mighty..." is often used trackfan Jul 2012 #58

balls arely staircase Jul 2012 #68

Similarly, calling someone a "dick" is considered a rather mild insult, while c*** is nuclear... Romulox Jul 2012 #70

cute? nt arely staircase Jul 2012 #73

That's the one! nt Romulox Jul 2012 #74