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Maraya1969

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Sat Sep 9, 2017, 09:20 PM Sep 2017

A word about the thousands stuck outside a huge shelter in Fort Myers [View all]

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/hurricane-irma-thousands-stuck-in-lines-outside-crowded-florida-shelters/?ftag=CNM-00-10aab4

I am writing this on my phone so forgive the mistakes. I hope I was able to post the entire url too the CBS.article about how the Germaine Arena shelter made thousands stand outside for hours in the heat waiting to get into the shelter that they could have opened but didn't, When they finally opened they only opened a couple doors up until it started pouring and then, all of a sudden it was possible to let these exhausted, hot people in

I was there this morning. My mom and I got there about. 8pm. She insisted on going too find the end of the line and I followed with the 2 dogs and pillows, suitcase and blankets. I lost her and my back, which has some serious problems caused me to sit and wait until she came up in the line at which point I would join her.

But instead, my mom, who is 85 tripped and fell, I'm sure with a lot of help from the heat and the fact that she had been standing on line for nearly 3 'hours.

So I am now sitting next to her in her ICU bed. Her anti blood clot medicine caused a big bleed between her skull and brain and also a small one in her brain.

The nurse told me that they woke her up and my mom wouldn't follow her finger. The doctor said the surgery was a success but he didn't realize how much more blood was there and that there is now " pressure"

I am besides myself with grief, worry, guilt and anger. I do know one thing. There was no reason too make all those thousands of people stand outside for hours when that stadium was empty. My mother was not the only elderly person there. I am kicking myself for things I could have done or things I wished I hadn't done but let me just finish with a big Fuck You too the planners and their lack of sensitivity to a while lot of desperate people
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Sending vibes to your mum. applegrove Sep 2017 #1
I'm so sorry this happened to you and your Mom. SharonClark Sep 2017 #2
I wish all goes well for you and your mom. I really do. n/t DonaldsRump Sep 2017 #3
Please give yourself a break on the could have dones. mahina Sep 2017 #4
I second that. Scarsdale Sep 2017 #49
Oh no, so sorry. likesmountains 52 Sep 2017 #5
Sending healing, loving energy your way. MLAA Sep 2017 #6
That is absolutely inexcusable. Chemisse Sep 2017 #7
What a nightmare! So very sorry you and your mom are going through this. 50 Shades Of Blue Sep 2017 #8
You reminded me of a friend I know in Fort Meyers... yuiyoshida Sep 2017 #9
How awful! redwitch Sep 2017 #10
Be strong but take care of yourself Maraya, kimbutgar Sep 2017 #11
I am so very sorry for what you are going though and I hope above all hope that all works out for hlthe2b Sep 2017 #12
They should have had people working outside to identify the elderly. cwydro Sep 2017 #13
Lets hope they are helping those w/disabilities too CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #15
Oh Maraya. What cwydro said. They should have treated this like loading an airplane. Ilsa Sep 2017 #17
Yes, they should. I was reading about shelters, and they have to screen up front Hortensis Sep 2017 #39
I was actually watching one of the news channels, msnbc or cnn.... roomtomove Sep 2017 #14
Sad lsewpershad Sep 2017 #16
I am so very sorry, Maraya1969! What they did to you, your mother, and thousands of others pnwmom Sep 2017 #18
you're right, doors should have been open. let people wait/sit inside. I hope your Mom will be ok. Sunlei Sep 2017 #19
That is horrifying. cate94 Sep 2017 #20
I'm so sorry this happened. You are not at fault at all! montana_hazeleyes Sep 2017 #21
That is terrible. CNN was showing that line during the day.. CentralMass Sep 2017 #22
oh, i am so sorry. barbtries Sep 2017 #23
FGCU closed its student residences More_Cowbell Sep 2017 #24
Why didn't they open it earlier? That sucks!!!! BigmanPigman Sep 2017 #25
I agree they should have taken the elderly, disabled, and those with medical... SaveOurDemocracy Sep 2017 #26
I took the dogs back to the house before I drove up to the hospital Maraya1969 Sep 2017 #31
They were giving them background checks and making hem register - THATS why it took so long. kerry-is-my-prez Sep 2017 #27
I'm so sorry. mountain grammy Sep 2017 #28
I am so sorry. Lifelong Protester Sep 2017 #29
...im so sorry about your mother. RestoreAmerica2020 Sep 2017 #30
Oh, Maraya, I am so sorry -- please do not blame yourself for these horrible events... Hekate Sep 2017 #32
Aww, dear Maraya, I am so sorry to hear this. I can't figure out why the shelter wasn't opened calimary Sep 2017 #33
So sorry this happened flamingdem Sep 2017 #34
I'm sorry. Prayers for healing touch, positive vibes you & your mother's way. Eom Lyricalinklines Sep 2017 #35
Sending every ounce of good karma from me and family. raven mad Sep 2017 #36
Prayers! colorado_ufo Sep 2017 #37
How awful for her and for you renate Sep 2017 #38
I am so very sorry, Maraya diva77 Sep 2017 #40
"She insisted on going too find the end of the line ..." nocalflea Sep 2017 #41
What a terrible experience for you and yur mother. Skidmore Sep 2017 #42
Jesus! I'm sorry to hear that happened to your mom. Ken Burch Sep 2017 #43
This is just inexcusable. Granny M Sep 2017 #44
I am so sorry to hear this. Pacifist Patriot Sep 2017 #45
I'm sorry that this happened to your mom and you. I hope she'll be all right. yardwork Sep 2017 #46
Best wishes. There are many ripple effects to disasters. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Sep 2017 #47
Oh, dear God. I'm so very sorry. catbyte Sep 2017 #48
Good vibes sent your way...... Heartstrings Sep 2017 #50
please let us know how your mom is doing...shes my mothers age... samnsara Sep 2017 #51
Sometimes dumb idiots are just that; dumb idiots who case chaos and pain. Fla Dem Sep 2017 #52
I was flipping channels a lot, but that must have been you I saw or OldHippieChick Sep 2017 #53
That might have been me. I told (either CNN or USA Today) that I was looking for my mom Maraya1969 Sep 2017 #58
So hoping to read a "good news" update. My prayers continue for you & your Mother... hlthe2b Sep 2017 #54
Sending the strongest positive thoughts to you and your mom Cadfael Sep 2017 #55
You and your mom are in my prayers. iluvtennis Sep 2017 #56
Good grief malaise Sep 2017 #57
Maraya, please check in when you get a chance. I hope your mother is improving. Tanuki Sep 2017 #59
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