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mnhtnbb

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22. Our youngest just finished a master's degree at an Ivy League school
Tue Sep 12, 2017, 06:06 AM
Sep 2017

and graduated with no debt.

Thank goodness for a merit scholarship as an undergrad used at a public university (UNC Chapel Hill)
that covered most of his tuition; we paid his living expenses, books, etc.

He was accepted at Yale School of Drama for a 3 year master's in 2014 and this time had financial aid that covered
almost all tuition, plus work/study, and we only had to help with living expenses, books, etc.

Fortunately, we were in a position to help.

Our oldest is financially much better off than his brother, though. He didn't want to go to college. He is all self-taught
and working as a software engineer for an IT firm. The money we would have used to help support him in college we
added to money his grandmother left him for college, and he used that for a down payment to buy a townhouse in 2007. So this son
now has some serious equity in his own home and is pulling down salary in the $70-80K range and never spent
a dime on college.

The youngest has a fellowship with one of his Yale professors to TA for a year. He moved into a furnished room to save
money on rent for a studio apartment this year. Don't know what he'll do next year.

Both sons are following their dreams.

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I've seen some families get better aid from private schools than public, making private more WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2017 #1
One of my clients attended USC for less than her sister paid for UC San Diego . . . Journeyman Sep 2017 #11
I'm paying for my daughter's tuition room and board in Prague for half of what Xipe Totec Sep 2017 #2
No, jo. Igel Sep 2017 #15
Ona tam studuje, ne ja. Xipe Totec Sep 2017 #16
It's disgraceful. marybourg Sep 2017 #3
So true! leftofcool Sep 2017 #5
The difference is that students today will be paying far more for college than their elders. pnwmom Sep 2017 #20
Count me among them genxlib Sep 2017 #4
Actually, that's a fairly old scam and is marybourg Sep 2017 #6
Oh my,how times have changed. Wellstone ruled Sep 2017 #7
I had a Michigan Competitive Scholarship. LisaM Sep 2017 #8
The G-Daughter has a full ride as Wellstone ruled Sep 2017 #10
More teens today are considering community college crazycatlady Sep 2017 #9
Unfortunately... Adrahil Sep 2017 #17
I paid off my student loans by the time I was 40. MissB Sep 2017 #12
barebones dorms are now luxury palaces with electronics for the millenials who msongs Sep 2017 #13
Budget cuts and low wages are much more to blame, but millennial-bashing is certainly more fun. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2017 #14
When the title of the thread starts whistler162 Sep 2017 #23
You have no idea. xmas74 Sep 2017 #18
I've seen some of the dining halls. LisaM Sep 2017 #19
So you saw a dining hall? xmas74 Sep 2017 #27
I've been in a couple of them, but here, I looked up the menu at UofM because that's where I went LisaM Sep 2017 #29
What many younger people don't know about salaries then: Starting, 1971, $6,700. WinkyDink Sep 2017 #21
The cost of living has also one up crazycatlady Sep 2017 #25
My daughter has a masters and started at half what you claim they want to start at. Cuthbert Allgood Sep 2017 #28
Our youngest just finished a master's degree at an Ivy League school mnhtnbb Sep 2017 #22
My grandfather worked his way through Harvard as a janitor DFW Sep 2017 #24
Free tuition for all is the future Not Ruth Sep 2017 #26
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