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luvMIdog

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69. My daughter was bitten in the face as a child
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 09:19 PM
Sep 2017

Many years ago we were friends with what we thought were nice people who had kids the same ages as our kids. We were all invited over to their house one Saturday. They had a German shepherd in the back yard. The lady kept trying to send my kids out into the back yard where the dog was. I told her I did not feel safe sending my kids out in the yard with that big dog. She said " Oh don't be silly he's harmless the neighborhood kids are all over here playing with him all the time!" Then she sent my kids out into the yard. My beautiful daughter had not been out there more than 5 minutes before she came running in. The dog had just walked up to her without barking or growling and bit her in the face. The next door lady saw it happen and came over to see if my daughter was okay. I can't tell you how shocking it was to hear my 'friend' say to her neighbor lady " Well, we told them not to let their kids out into our yard because the dog was out there." She had immediately begun to lie and cover her ass. My beautiful daughter had a permanent scar upon her lovely face that would remain because it was deep. Thank goodness he didn't get an eye. When a pet does do something many pet owners like the above mentioned have no honor, conscience, or sense of accountability.
Yes everything is all hunky dory much of the time between people and pets. There are however pets with mental issues just like there are people with mental issues. Feral dogs also pack up and get pack mentality which can be dangerous. I would not as a business owner allow pets into my place because of the responsibility that carries if something does happen.
I also went to school with a girl who had a dog bite her and he drug his tooth from her forehead to her chin. She had a deep zig zag scar going down and across the entire length of her face. Getting dog bit in the face is not a small matter to the person that was bitten. One must simply ask themselves how much cash do they think would be a fair recompense for their own scarred face? And just know much of the time the bitten person gets zilch, nada, nothing for their bite and medical bills.
I adore my dog. I love her to death. Do I expect everyone else to want to dine with my pooch? No. People have allergies, people have animal phobias. etc etc

Big mistake is to leave your dog with strangers in a strange place. uppityperson Sep 2017 #1
The risk of getting bitten by a dog is actually pretty low milestogo Sep 2017 #2
I'm not sure they belong in a city either scarytomcat Sep 2017 #21
Your view is pretty distorted and extreme. milestogo Sep 2017 #38
sounds like you are responsible but many are not scarytomcat Sep 2017 #54
I live in the country and cyclists often take rides out here Drahthaardogs Sep 2017 #78
You prove your own point and seem ti be the exception. elehhhhna Sep 2017 #55
You need to call Animal Control, your City Council, and local news SharonClark Sep 2017 #67
I have called animal control many times scarytomcat Sep 2017 #83
I never allow kids faces anywhere near my dog's face. Hassin Bin Sober Sep 2017 #3
I find it annoying and frustrating that most dog owners PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2017 #4
I find the same thing to be true about other people's kids mythology Sep 2017 #20
That. The_jackalope Sep 2017 #22
and off your yard . . . blasted kids DrDan Sep 2017 #25
No, but you can keep them off your lawn. n/t PoliticAverse Sep 2017 #30
I'd have to agree. hamsterjill Sep 2017 #34
Nope. Because kids are legal persons Loki Liesmith Sep 2017 #35
Zing! + 1,0000! BannonsLiver Sep 2017 #37
In Germany also. cwydro Sep 2017 #68
Yeah, because the kids bark and bite. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2017 #44
It's never been more true BannonsLiver Sep 2017 #46
⭐️👍🏾⭐️ BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2017 #66
No. America needs more kids, not fewer. sharedvalues Sep 2017 #80
Overpopulation is global. BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2017 #82
Probably yes, if they bite you in the face elehhhhna Sep 2017 #56
Post removed Post removed Sep 2017 #74
In this case it wasn't the dog owners Major Nikon Sep 2017 #39
Was the breed of the dog mentioned ? CentralMass Sep 2017 #5
Why does that matter? Doreen Sep 2017 #6
Not that it matters, but yes. Collie-Shepherd mix uppityperson Sep 2017 #7
Collie-shepherd mix. nt Codeine Sep 2017 #8
Thankfully, it wasn't a Pit bull. Owners like this (of the dog, not the child) anger the hell out of grossproffit Sep 2017 #48
Collies and Shepard s aren't easily managed dogs, either. elehhhhna Sep 2017 #57
German shepards can be hard to predict. I've known a few gentle giants but CentralMass Sep 2017 #71
When I was about three, we went to a party at the home of my parent's friends Docreed2003 Sep 2017 #79
I'll bet you are probably right. We had friens who owned a large femake German Shepard.. CentralMass Sep 2017 #81
The other day, my wife and I were walking our dogs ProudLib72 Sep 2017 #9
Regardless of how smart they are, some dogs just don't like kids Major Nikon Sep 2017 #43
The other thing about my dog is that she bounces ProudLib72 Sep 2017 #50
I've had border collies for decades Major Nikon Sep 2017 #53
Thanks for reminding me of a Collie I once had who delighted in "herding" kids. Impeach Trump Sep 2017 #60
My dog is better behaved in the restaurants we eat at than most children there. TeamPooka Sep 2017 #10
I think most dogs are not a problem SHRED Sep 2017 #13
NO!! DONT SAY CAR!! plzzzzzzz samnsara Sep 2017 #32
Really? SHRED Sep 2017 #42
This message was self-deleted by its author BannonsLiver Sep 2017 #40
She'd a wise mature ladydog. Of course she behaves. elehhhhna Sep 2017 #58
Sounds like a fear bite Bayard Sep 2017 #11
Per the story, owner of the dog encouraged the kid to pet the dog. LisaL Sep 2017 #52
I wonder if it was related to a food trigger.Dogs can get territorial around food. CentralMass Sep 2017 #72
I was eating outside at a restaraunt once nini Sep 2017 #12
Ugh SHRED Sep 2017 #14
Sorry- dogs do not belong in restaurants or grocery stores, no matter how special their owners are. NBachers Sep 2017 #15
The Brits don't have much of a problem with it. BannonsLiver Sep 2017 #41
I know, we really need to get over our hang up about children getting bit in the face elehhhhna Sep 2017 #59
It's so interesting the difference in cultures. BannonsLiver Sep 2017 #65
absolutely agree - it's really pretty sad to see folks who have to take their dogs to DrDan Sep 2017 #16
the line has been blurred with respect to service dogs scarytomcat Sep 2017 #23
you got that right . . . DrDan Sep 2017 #24
I thought there was a registration process? SHRED Sep 2017 #28
In my city, the emotionally ill owner doesn't have to have any ID for the dog in public places. CottonBear Sep 2017 #31
Nope. There are a bunch of scam on-line websites that will "register" dogs and then send out... Expecting Rain Sep 2017 #45
poor little girl. Warren DeMontague Sep 2017 #17
Nobody wants your smelly-ass, hair-shedding, Codeine Sep 2017 #18
Plus, there are people allergic to dogs. Does that cross their minds? doodsaq Sep 2017 #19
Ut oh JustAnotherGen Sep 2017 #26
I love my Uncle Ruckus JustAnotherGen Sep 2017 #27
if a dog bites its the owners fault not the dogs...jmtcw.. samnsara Sep 2017 #29
Thank you. Skidmore Sep 2017 #33
The owner should never have walked away. hamsterjill Sep 2017 #36
My dog lillypaddle Sep 2017 #47
So your dog is basically me? elehhhhna Sep 2017 #61
Who's a good dog? lillypaddle Sep 2017 #75
My vet come to our house for a house call with her 2yo boy. ileus Sep 2017 #49
My elk hound/Akita mix went with me everywhere WhiteTara Sep 2017 #51
Jake Two Times was as our elkhound elehhhhna Sep 2017 #62
Sounds like a lively household! WhiteTara Sep 2017 #63
Our white Siamese cat sat three steps down to the basement and taunted him elehhhhna Sep 2017 #64
My daughter was bitten in the face as a child luvMIdog Sep 2017 #69
Wow SHRED Sep 2017 #70
I had an ex boyfriend JustAnotherGen Sep 2017 #76
Food aggression ? CentralMass Sep 2017 #73
My nephew just got bitten by a dog for the 3rd time in his short life Not Ruth Sep 2017 #77
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