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MichiganVote

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49. To my knowledge all women in the role of first lady
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 06:43 PM
Dec 2011

have attempted to aid soldiers and their families. Different times for different women. I only raise two as possibilities but there are certainly more. But for the two I mention,

The role of first lady as hostess largely began with Dolley Madison. It was in her role as first lady that the Congress in the WH space began to take shape and become civilized. Dolley Madison invented the role of first lady as a hostess, establishing certain ceremonies, just as she had created public spaces. She did this during a time of extreme partisanship, much like today. She was elegant (like Mrs. Obama and others). Her supporters called her "queenly" but her enemies smeared her. She was derided as an innkeeper's daughter. Nevertheless she reached out to people and made them feel comfortable. In later life, poor and in ill health, she was supported economically by republicans and democrats until her death.

Dolly Madison faced the British invasion of Washington, D.C. in the summer of 1814 with bravery and dignity. By the third week of August invasion was imminent and the city was in a state of chaos as the British approached. Mrs. Madison remained in the city. As the British troops moved forward on August 23 Mrs. Madison packed government papers into trunks. The next day, with James Madison still off with the army, Dolley Madison found herself guarding the gates of the executive mansion. And so we know of her determination to save the painting of George Washington as the WH would burn.

During WWII, Eleanor Roosevelt ER worked refugees from Hitler's Germany to enter the country, despite stiff resistance to changing America's strict immigration laws. She served as in both an official and unofficial role to groups trying to aid refugees from the Spanish Civil War. She worked with the Emergency Rescue Committee, the U.S. Committee for the Care of European Children, and the Children's Crusade for Children. She also offered key support to Varian Fry's rescue operations. She lobbied for the Child Refugee Bill which would have allowed 10,000 Jewish children a year for two years to enter the United States above the usual German quota, but Congress refused to pass the bill.

When the United States entered the war in December 1941, she continued to advocate a more open policy and to assist individual refugees to gain admittance to the country. She spoke out forcefully against the restrictive visa policies.

ER strongly supported women working outside the home. She urged their employment in defense industries during WWII. When women workers had trouble finding child care and adequate pay, ER lobbied to have day care centers and take-out kitchens within various factories, and spoke out strongly in favor of equal pay for equal work. She convinced FDR to establish the Fair Employment Practices Commission, which outlawed racial discrimination in industries that received federal contracts, urged equal treatment for blacks in the military, and helped to ensure that black units, such as the Tuskegee Airmen, had the opportunity to engage in combat. She also urged citizens to accept volunteer assignments and tried to make those assignments useful.

ER used the radio to boost American morale and to urge her listeners to remember that Americans must take strength from each other and rededicate themselves to democracy. In fact, ER addressed the nation the day Pearl Harbor was attacked. While the nations often refers to the speech of FDR, many women listened to ER address them.

ER interceded on behalf of many soldiers, their families. She traveled worldwide to military bases at home, in England, and in the South Pacific. She often aided the Red Cross, evaluating all the facilities she visited.

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I like Michelle, but for best ever I vote for Eleanor Roosevelt. n/t totodeinhere Dec 2011 #1
Sorry mine will always be Eleanor Roosevelt William769 Dec 2011 #2
You can see anytime the Obamas are around military families they are happy to have them. As a southernyankeebelle Dec 2011 #3
Exactly. Wait Wut Dec 2011 #7
Your son is right. Is your son a democrat? Is he enlisted? I just want to see if my observation southernyankeebelle Dec 2011 #30
"Independent" Wait Wut Dec 2011 #43
My heart goes out to you. I know it isn't easy for our soldiers today. I thought your son was southernyankeebelle Dec 2011 #44
Thank you for the advice. Wait Wut Jan 2012 #50
Don't worry about your daughter-in-law. My mother came from another country she had southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #52
Oh I forgot to wish you a Happy New Year. southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #53
Ah. The pics put tears in my eyes. Wait Wut Dec 2011 #4
Absolutely spectacular Stratetalker Dec 2011 #5
I looked. Great photos. She IS so very awesome. I love her too. lamp_shade Dec 2011 #6
She is a magnificent first lady etherealtruth Dec 2011 #8
Really? Garden work as opposed to E. Roosevelt lifting up the poor? MichiganVote Dec 2011 #9
You may not agree, but why dismissively belittle what Michelle Obama has done? nobodyspecial Dec 2011 #33
I disagree that I "slammed" her. She wants to role model organic gardening. Good. Great. MichiganVote Dec 2011 #38
as an organic gardener, I admire Michelle Obama's 'garden work' magical thyme Jan 2012 #51
Well I tell you as a wife of a retired soldier Mrs Obama and Mrs Biden have brought issues of southernyankeebelle Dec 2011 #45
To my knowledge all women in the role of first lady MichiganVote Dec 2011 #49
Best First Lady.... ThatsMyBarack Dec 2011 #10
Michelle is certainly the most authentic first lady I can think of. applegrove Dec 2011 #11
K & R n/t Tx4obama Dec 2011 #12
She's definately up there with Eleanor Roosevelt, but it's a tough call. HopeHoops Dec 2011 #13
Eleanor Roosevelt, Dolly Madison, Abigail Adams. Tierra_y_Libertad Dec 2011 #14
Your batting a thousand. William769 Dec 2011 #16
Three excellent choices. Beacool Dec 2011 #42
She is performing the role and responsiblilies of First Lady enough Dec 2011 #15
Best first lady: Hillary! Skinner Dec 2011 #17
Eleanor Roosevelt Bluenorthwest Dec 2011 #18
Who sets that standard? Mrs Reagan when her little thing was trying to be Mrs JFK, and southernyankeebelle Dec 2011 #46
No point assessing this until Obama's no longer in office RZM Dec 2011 #19
She has already done alot of good. Healthy eating. Growning gardens, supporting military families. southernyankeebelle Dec 2011 #47
She is the best wonderful. I love her. Whisp Dec 2011 #20
Rosalynn Carter & Betty Ford BOHICA12 Dec 2011 #21
She's great. Really, really like Michelle. I've posted before that BlueIris Dec 2011 #22
Eleanor Roosevelt by far. emilyg Dec 2011 #23
Isn't she just? cherokeeprogressive Dec 2011 #24
Nope. That would be Eleanor Roosevelt. n/t MoonRiver Dec 2011 #25
Nice. Scurrilous Dec 2011 #26
Love her BUT "best ever" ... absolutely NO Raine Dec 2011 #27
Agreed there. Lyric Dec 2011 #36
One of the best. I wouldn't be surprised if she was the best mother to live in the WH. grantcart Dec 2011 #28
Rosalyn Carter DeathToTheOil Dec 2011 #29
Definitely Eleanor Roosevelt - but I do like Michelle Obama as well. nt TBF Dec 2011 #31
She's very good but Gman Dec 2011 #32
Read this about Abigail Adams: Nye Bevan Dec 2011 #34
maybe in the end. hard to top Eleanor. dionysus Dec 2011 #35
I'd say best first lady of the past decade. OneTenthofOnePercent Dec 2011 #37
My favorite has always been Eleanor Roosevelt. City Lights Dec 2011 #39
Eleanor Roosevelt dflprincess Dec 2011 #40
She's doing a fine job, but for me the best first ladies are Eleanor Roosevelt and Hillary Clinton. Beacool Dec 2011 #41
No, but only because of the fierce competition! kiva Dec 2011 #48
Eleanor Roosevelt Carolina Jan 2012 #54
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