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sfwriter

(3,032 posts)
57. I "unfriended" someone I've known for 25 years...
Wed Sep 20, 2017, 07:59 AM
Sep 2017

...for similar reasons.

But "unfriend" is a loaded term facebook uses to coerce you into maintaining a large network, thus increasing the network effect.

I told him I was simply returning our friendship to its pre-facebook status.

He hasn't spoke to me since.

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Millennials are boycotting it. Have been for years. Warren DeMontague Sep 2017 #1
Yeah? No. Not really. Control-Z Sep 2017 #4
Yeah, really. Warren DeMontague Sep 2017 #5
I don't even know wtf Control-Z Sep 2017 #9
I kniow what the first paragraph means and Skywalker OG rules! TeamPooka Sep 2017 #10
My kids and their friends really aren't like that. Control-Z Sep 2017 #22
Sure, I mean, dont shoot the messenger. Warren DeMontague Sep 2017 #25
Oh please. cwydro Sep 2017 #75
yes, of course, you're right. Warren DeMontague Sep 2017 #77
My youngest daughter does this greymattermom Sep 2017 #65
This baby boomer has boycotted all those anti-social media sites. TexasProgresive Sep 2017 #2
Actually, I get a lot of information out to folks that the media doesn't. haveahart Sep 2017 #3
Use Snapchat? eom Control-Z Sep 2017 #12
Do you know what snapchat is? oberliner Sep 2017 #40
I was sure I saw a 10/19/17 date for a group closing of accounts More_Cowbell Sep 2017 #6
That's good to know. Control-Z Sep 2017 #11
I deleted my account last week. teezy Sep 2017 #7
This. Control-Z Sep 2017 #13
Ooooh! A "scathing letter." cwydro Sep 2017 #66
sure LOL snooper2 Sep 2017 #71
I posted the same request a week ago and got some nasty feedback BigmanPigman Sep 2017 #8
It won't. Control-Z Sep 2017 #15
Click on the DU address...that is what I am referring to. BigmanPigman Sep 2017 #20
DU has maybe several hundred to a thousand active users snooper2 Sep 2017 #73
i ignore mine. pansypoo53219 Sep 2017 #14
I was wondering if only active accounts would Control-Z Sep 2017 #18
Same... I'm thinking there will be a good time California_Republic Sep 2017 #24
Never been on it Generic Brad Sep 2017 #16
The Chief Operating Officer of Facebook is a personal friend of Clinton's... PoliticAverse Sep 2017 #17
And? Control-Z Sep 2017 #19
Facebook has brainwashed over 2 billion users worldwide bathroommonkey76 Sep 2017 #21
It's the only way I get to see pix of my grandkids and get some scant news of their lives, so no. Hekate Sep 2017 #23
I do understand that. Control-Z Sep 2017 #29
Thank you for getting it Hekate Sep 2017 #32
Hekate, I'm very glad you're there. pnwmom Sep 2017 #37
This message was self-deleted by its author Control-Z Sep 2017 #30
My oldest and I don't have a happy relationship either...first marriage...young Mom...bitter divorce Demsrule86 Sep 2017 #39
I can't boycott it because I don't use it. milestogo Sep 2017 #26
Maybe she doesn't want to boycott it... I am willing to bet the Russian infiltrated this site too... Demsrule86 Sep 2017 #41
Who did I castigate? milestogo Sep 2017 #49
Same here. n/t demmiblue Sep 2017 #64
because they would have to put some EFFORT keeping up with friends and family Skittles Sep 2017 #27
I've been boycotting it since.. defacto7 Sep 2017 #28
Personally, were it not for Facebook, PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2017 #31
I am so sorry...condolences. Demsrule86 Sep 2017 #42
Because despite the assholes who own it and the ones who abuse it, gtar100 Sep 2017 #33
I rarely go there customerserviceguy Sep 2017 #34
That is your choice. Demsrule86 Sep 2017 #43
I know, but in the middle of all these disasters, it's how I'm keeping track of Ninsianna Sep 2017 #35
I don't boycott it. I fill it with progressive posts and news articles. pnwmom Sep 2017 #36
I do too. And when we did the Woman's march it was invaluable. Demsrule86 Sep 2017 #44
I am more concerned with the ACA...and I don't wish to attack any freemedia...let's see what comes Demsrule86 Sep 2017 #38
Because it wouldn't make a difference? Orrex Sep 2017 #45
Interesting to see the usual crew show up to defend FB. nt RandiFan1290 Sep 2017 #46
OFFS. this place is getting ridiculous m-lekktor Sep 2017 #48
There's a reason a lot of people are spending less and less time here Blue_Adept Sep 2017 #58
I stayed away the whole day yesterday intentionally then looked in this morning. m-lekktor Sep 2017 #59
It's always been hit or miss but the diversity of this place has dropped significantly Blue_Adept Sep 2017 #68
Looking for ways to pressure Facebook into revealing Control-Z Sep 2017 #78
Lots of political organizing goes on there along with my best political discussions. 2 billion users m-lekktor Sep 2017 #47
Whoa. This says a lot about you. Control-Z Sep 2017 #79
No thanks. FLPanhandle Sep 2017 #50
I started boycotting it years ago, though I check in occasionally Not Ruth Sep 2017 #51
Since the election... Trueblue Texan Sep 2017 #52
I "unfriended" someone I've known for 25 years... sfwriter Sep 2017 #57
Only old people use FB...kids don't ileus Sep 2017 #53
That's not true. bearsfootball516 Sep 2017 #56
Yeah my kids....13&15. They laugh at Us and say FB is for old people. ileus Sep 2017 #61
That's true, actually Orrex Sep 2017 #69
But what about the vacation pictures from people I went to high school with??? underpants Sep 2017 #54
I've been boycotting for Corvo Bianco Sep 2017 #55
Hurricane Irma GusBob Sep 2017 #60
I can have text conversations with a colleague in India greymattermom Sep 2017 #67
I guess I'll carry on as usual then. nt Guy Whitey Corngood Sep 2017 #62
Havent used it since 2010. Its awful. The new MySpace. bluepen Sep 2017 #63
Refuse to use it. Never have, never will. JDC Sep 2017 #70
Never used it. Never will. reflection Sep 2017 #72
Let us know when a good alternative is available. L. Coyote Sep 2017 #74
Recently , mostly checked it awesomerwb1 Sep 2017 #76
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