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BlancheSplanchnik

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Sat Sep 23, 2017, 03:03 PM

Sep 2017

How many men also know what your husband knows, but remain unaffected?

How many join in?

How many say nothing but don't consider how they behave with women?

How many do anything other than speak out?

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What Were You Wearing?' exhibit takes aim at age-old sexual violence myth [View all] sheshe2 Sep 2017 OP

I love this! I attended IU when Bobby Knight VigilantG Sep 2017 #1

You are welcome, VigilantG. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #4

Dear God! get the red out Sep 2017 #30

He was disgusting. He's probably Trump's friend. VigilantG Sep 2017 #37

From a small child to a tall man. No, it doesn't matter. Warpy Sep 2017 #2

Hi, Warpy...thanks for your post. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #5

That sundress made me cry. Such a pretty,happy dress, and a little child would have been so anneboleyn Sep 2017 #24

It is about power but don't forget about female-on-male rape... masmdu Sep 2017 #60

Having to deal with a sexually aggressive woman is not rape. Warpy Sep 2017 #69

So, you're saying a woman can't rape a man? I beg to differ. "Compelled to penetrate" masmdu Sep 2017 #83

I'm speaking to the examples in the article you posted, not the straw man in your title Warpy Sep 2017 #84

Sorry, you lost me there...what? masmdu Sep 2017 #88

It's sad this is still necessary mythology Sep 2017 #3

Yes it is sad but unfortunately our country seems to be regressing. VigilantG Sep 2017 #6

That whole Christian Patriarchy movement enshrines victim blaming Ligyron Sep 2017 #8

You're right that the patriarchal myth hurts both men and women. yardwork Sep 2017 #13

This message is drilled into boys and girls at an early age brer cat Sep 2017 #28

"don't ask for it" sheshe2 Sep 2017 #31

I've read it on DU wryter2000 Sep 2017 #65

Dear Goddess... sheshe2 Sep 2017 #66

Yup wryter2000 Sep 2017 #67

Like Eve was blamed for Adam eating the apple. BarbD Sep 2017 #68

I never had this "drilled into" me or my brother as kids... LakeArenal Sep 2017 #70

I read a column by a man once wryter2000 Sep 2017 #16

He could've also said, "Don't rape" and "Stop men who are raping". SharonAnn Sep 2017 #58

I imagine he did wryter2000 Sep 2017 #63

k+r Blue_Tires Sep 2017 #7

The child's dress mcar Sep 2017 #9

Yes, sheshe2 Sep 2017 #11

I know. Heartbreaking. yardwork Sep 2017 #14

K&R Solly Mack Sep 2017 #10

Banks thbobby Sep 2017 #12

Men do get raped (it's an epidemic in prisons) and all forms of sexual violence are monstrous anneboleyn Sep 2017 #25

I agree with you thbobby Sep 2017 #38

Thank you for speaking out on the behalf of male survivors, such as myself. Behind the Aegis Sep 2017 #39

Happened to my favorite cousin back in 1985 ChubbyStar Sep 2017 #62

I am sorry that you went through that, BtA. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #74

One of the sets of clothes... sheshe2 Sep 2017 #48

+1 nt Gore1FL Sep 2017 #49

This is a topic deserves it's own discussion thread. And here's why: lambchopp59 Sep 2017 #51

Heartbreaking. mountain grammy Sep 2017 #78

You post good threads, sheshe! yardwork Sep 2017 #15

Thanks, yardwork. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #17

Great post and if I may comment Fatemah2774 Sep 2017 #56

I can't... NurseJackie Sep 2017 #18

Hey Jackie... sheshe2 Sep 2017 #20

Haunted. Yes... that's a perfect description. NurseJackie Sep 2017 #23

Are Diapers and Depends HockeyMom Sep 2017 #19

The very old and the very young... sheshe2 Sep 2017 #21

Extremely good point as they have had elderly people Doreen Sep 2017 #36

The child's dress is zentrum Sep 2017 #22

Yes, a variation on the "you made me do it" defense. guillaumeb Sep 2017 #26

Than you. nt sheshe2 Sep 2017 #27

It's all wrong, brer cat Sep 2017 #29

Which means that 6 year old suffered the trauma on her own. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #33

You'd be surprised Lotusflower70 Sep 2017 #54

The tiny pink sundress... MontanaMama Sep 2017 #32

Hug... sheshe2 Sep 2017 #34

Thank you she. MontanaMama Sep 2017 #43

Yes it does, MM. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #44

K&R LeftInTX Sep 2017 #35

I'll never forget this saying, mountain grammy Sep 2017 #40

That is chilling. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #41

That saying is terrifyingly true for too many women. herding cats Sep 2017 #46

I think it's terrifyingly true for all women. mountain grammy Sep 2017 #47

.... this... BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2017 #71

Good questions, every one. mountain grammy Sep 2017 #77

That is very powerful. R B Garr Sep 2017 #42

It is, RB. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #45

Thank you for posting GeoWilliam750 Sep 2017 #50

I thank you for commenting, Geo. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #75

K & R JHan Sep 2017 #52

The other horrible thing that is sometimes said Sucha NastyWoman Sep 2017 #53

tRump said that about one of his accusers... sheshe2 Sep 2017 #73

I wonder if he owns a mirror? Sucha NastyWoman Sep 2017 #85

Rape myths suck Lotusflower70 Sep 2017 #55

I am so sorry for what you went through, Lotusflower. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #61

Thank you Lotusflower70 Sep 2017 #64

Kick. NurseJackie Sep 2017 #57

Any nuns' habits or combat gear? n/t sarge43 Sep 2017 #59

Hi, sarge. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #79

If not in fact, then in spirit. sarge43 Sep 2017 #81

They are there in spirit. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #82

You are a voice for Women, sheshe. BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2017 #72

Not going to happen, Blanche. sheshe2 Sep 2017 #80

that's TRUE!!!! BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2017 #86

Yes!!!! sheshe2 Sep 2017 #87

So glad you shared this. MLAA Sep 2017 #76

have it half way together heaven05 Sep 2017 #89

Thanks, heaven... full equality for all sheshe2 Sep 2017 #91

+1 Man_Bear_Pig Sep 2017 #90