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In reply to the discussion: A day in the life of the self made man. [View all]Flatulo
(5,005 posts)from Iraq or Afghanistan missing limbs, or with their psyche damaged, at such a young age and I simply cannot imagine their pain and suffering.
I was lucky that I was good about keeping my medical records. Without them, a claim can take years. Most people are routinely denied benefits and then have to retain a lawyer and begin a lengthy appeal process.
I'm also lucky that I found a good pain management doctor who's been very understanding and compassionate. My daily regimen of meds have helped immensely, as long as I don't push my limits. I tried to pull out just a few weeds last week, and I was on the floor for the next few days.
The toughest part has been the gradual loss of my activities. I used to run, bike, play racquetball and lift weights. Now all I can do is swim a little bit on my back. I can't even carry a few small grocery bags.
Lastly, I was lucky to have a compassionate and loving wife who has taken over all the household activities involving lifting or lugging.
Thanks again for your kind words.