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luvtheGWN

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29. Jill, so sorry about your sister, and especially sorry
Sat Oct 7, 2017, 03:13 PM
Oct 2017

that she could not afford treatment that would keep her alive.
The story I'm about to tell you is meant to emphasize your last paragraph:
My husband of 47 years died a month ago today. He had been feeling ill for some months and had seen many specialists, the last one being an oncologist who ordered several tests (bone marrow biopsy, scans etc.) to determine lymphoma. Having died very suddenly of a stroke in the middle of the night at home in bed, he was spared the treatment options being suggested -- radiation, chemo, steroids etc.
All of this is to say that all his doctor apps, hospital visits,visiting nurse over 3 months, tests etc. cost him $0, because we are fortunate enough to live in a country that believes healthcare is a right, and not just a privilege. Oh, we were out of pocket $45 for each of 2 ambulance rides. His final one was to the hospital for an official doctor's pronouncement, but there was no charge for that.

Nine years ago, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Besides the diagnostic tests, I underwent 2 surgeries, 6 chemo treatments, 10 shots of neupogen between each treatment (which my darling husband gave me), anti-nausea meds and steroids, visiting nurse once a week for almost 3 months, umpteen doctor visits, blood tests and so on. This also cost me $0.

I have several American pals who were going through the same thing (we met on-line) and, while most of them had great employer-based insurance, a few of them did not. Some are still struggling to pay off their bills because of a horrid disease that doesn't choose you based on your ability to pay.

To all DUers -- do what Jill says: Please, please, please fight for healthcare for all. It's just criminal that the most successful country in the world lets so many of its citizens suffer and die.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2017 #1
I am sorry for your loss. irisblue Oct 2017 #2
So sorry for your loss. ehrnst Oct 2017 #3
I am so sorry for your loss iamateacher Oct 2017 #4
I'm so sorry for your loss. uponit7771 Oct 2017 #5
I'm so sorry. Solly Mack Oct 2017 #6
So sorry for your loss. Downtown Hound Oct 2017 #7
I am so sorry for your loss! ProudLib72 Oct 2017 #8
So sorry to read about your sister...... a kennedy Oct 2017 #9
So sorry... tavernier Oct 2017 #10
So sorry to hear this. DFW Oct 2017 #11
We have never needed single payer more Not Ruth Oct 2017 #12
So sorry for your loss mcar Oct 2017 #13
Hamsterjill, I am so sad that in the richest country in the history of the world Tanuki Oct 2017 #14
So sorry for your loss sharedvalues Oct 2017 #15
Disgraceful! What other developed nation just lets its citizens die? TreasonousBastard Oct 2017 #16
Condolences on the loss of your beloved sister. gademocrat7 Oct 2017 #17
So very sorry Jill. No families should have to go through 7wo7rees Oct 2017 #18
I am so sorry. Ive long held out hope that we are inherently a just and compassionate nation. Bleacher Creature Oct 2017 #19
So very sorry for your loss... Freedomofspeech Oct 2017 #20
... defacto7 Oct 2017 #21
Memory eternal shenmue Oct 2017 #22
I am so sorry, hamsterjill. Squinch Oct 2017 #23
I am so very sorry Skittles Oct 2017 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author hamsterjill Oct 2017 #27
it is a crime Skittles Oct 2017 #32
I unfortunately have information about chemo... freemay20 Oct 2017 #82
.... paleotn Oct 2017 #25
I am so sorry for your loss... lunamagica Oct 2017 #26
Terrible. I am so sorry for your loss. GentryDixon Oct 2017 #28
Jill, so sorry about your sister, and especially sorry luvtheGWN Oct 2017 #29
I'm very sorry for your loss, too Metatron Oct 2017 #38
My son Scarsdale Oct 2017 #39
thanks for writing that post NJCher Oct 2017 #44
Awful Bradical79 Oct 2017 #30
I understand, believe me. So sorry for you and your family BigmanPigman Oct 2017 #31
I will. I am so sorry to read this hamster jill. Thank you for sharing her story with us. mahina Oct 2017 #33
You are right to be furious and sick at heart. Irish_Dem Oct 2017 #34
so sorry. Demsrule86 Oct 2017 #35
I'm so very sorry & so very angry right along with you. Shame on the Republican party. catbyte Oct 2017 #36
My deepest condolences, jill Metatron Oct 2017 #37
so sorry hamsterjill... spanone Oct 2017 #40
I will fight along side you to get universal health care Angry Dragon Oct 2017 #41
My Deepest Condolences. Snackshack Oct 2017 #42
I am so sorry, Jill. Lifelong Protester Oct 2017 #43
that is awful dsc Oct 2017 #45
I am so very sorry for you and your family.... Useless in FL Oct 2017 #46
Colon cancer Mollyann Oct 2017 #47
I am sooo sorry, Hamsterjill LeftInTX Oct 2017 #48
I'm so sorry for your loss Maraya1969 Oct 2017 #49
So sorry, hamsterjill. Granny M Oct 2017 #50
I am so sorry to hear about your sister hamsterjill. smirkymonkey Oct 2017 #51
Peace be with you, Hamsterjill. There's far too many voices never heard. KY_EnviroGuy Oct 2017 #52
A big for you , hamsterjill. m-lekktor Oct 2017 #53
I'm very sorry for your loss, hamsterjill. brer cat Oct 2017 #54
I am so sorry for your loss. Doreen Oct 2017 #55
I'm so sorry janterry Oct 2017 #56
There are no words to make it better Maeve Oct 2017 #57
So sorry for the loss of your sister mercuryblues Oct 2017 #58
I am so very sorry....thank you for sharing your sister with us.. samnsara Oct 2017 #59
my condolences deek Oct 2017 #60
I'm so sorry for your loss. Ilsa Oct 2017 #61
Deepest sympathy malaise Oct 2017 #62
My heart breaks for you. raven mad Oct 2017 #63
I am so very sorry for your loss, hamsterjill. mnhtnbb Oct 2017 #64
I will seethe with you... donotpissoffacow Oct 2017 #65
I'm mad for your loss. sellitman Oct 2017 #66
I am so sorry for your loss mvd Oct 2017 #67
I'm so sorry. RandomAccess Oct 2017 #68
so sorry for ur loss questionseverything Oct 2017 #69
I'm so sorry, Jill catrose Oct 2017 #70
I am so sorry for this, and your loss. 58Sunliner Oct 2017 #71
I hope by the replies that you can feel the love and support of your cyberfamily. Boomerproud Oct 2017 #72
I am so sorry. area51 Oct 2017 #73
Single payer Smitty63nnn Oct 2017 #74
There'a a reason I live in Minnesota. Scruffy1 Oct 2017 #75
The entire healthcare system in the US is a scam, sham and a folly. democratisphere Oct 2017 #76
Words cannot express Bayard Oct 2017 #77
Hamsterjill, I am so sorry, my dear peacebuzzard Oct 2017 #78
Much love to you, hamsterjill, and many hugs. calimary Oct 2017 #79
So sorry for your loss Bettie Oct 2017 #80
Sorry for your loss Cary Oct 2017 #81
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