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LeftyMom

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19. I've been through live donor screening. They go through your history with a fine toothed comb.
Tue Oct 17, 2017, 12:24 AM
Oct 2017

Not just your health but they make sure you're not being economically coerced, that you have your own support system and coping skills etc. Since you're having major surgery with no benefit to yourself they want to make absolutely sure you're going to be okay, and the bias is to fail you out as a donor if they're not dead certain that you're an excellent candidate.

I was rejected due to a fairly minor health problem found in the screening process, even though my specialist insisted I'd be fine for surgery with only minor changes in medication. At the time this decision was made it looked likely my family member would die without my liver donation (turns out he survived to get a deceased donor and he's doing great.) *Most* potential live donors are rejected.

I don't know this gentleman's circumstances, but there may have been concerns that he didn't have help or resources for the postsurgical period (ie could he take time off work, would taking time off work further interfere with his probation, could he support himself and his family while recovering from surgery) or if his legal troubles involved a drug problem there might be concerns that postsurgical pain killers would put him at high risk of relapse, or that his lifestyle would put him at unusual risk with only one kidney. And of course incarceration itself is a risk: you can't even donate blood for a good long time after being locked up because the risk of disease in prison is so high.

I can't say. But I'm not surprised somebody whose life was that unstable was rejected as a donor. They fail people out for a lot less. Rather than going to the media to rail at the injustice of it all and rattle the gofundme cup I wish this family was going to the media to find their kid a live donor kidney, the article doesn't even say what blood type he is let alone who to contact at Emory if one wishes to be evaluated as a potential live donor.

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WTF? malaise Oct 2017 #1
+1000 WTF??? Alice11111 Oct 2017 #3
stupid father, stupid hospital...perfect match for death Demonaut Oct 2017 #2
I try to have compassion but if I am reading this correctly Drahthaardogs Oct 2017 #4
Stupid, sure. But to donate a kidney to his child? unblock Oct 2017 #6
Because you don't ask the hospital staff to have to deal with Drahthaardogs Oct 2017 #9
Please. Him not getting arrested for 3 or 4 months isn't going to prove anything. unblock Oct 2017 #11
What are you talking about? Drahthaardogs Oct 2017 #12
Lol i'm saying if he agrees to whatever security measures they want unblock Oct 2017 #18
Seriously? Tribalceltic Oct 2017 #16
It says he bought them with intent to commit a felony Drahthaardogs Oct 2017 #23
Glad to see everyone involved has the child's best interests at heart.... unblock Oct 2017 #5
i thought in this country we did not give 2 year olds the death penalty due to "sins of the father" Takket Oct 2017 #7
Yeah - They Keep Telling Us How Bad North Korea Is Because Leith Oct 2017 #17
Evil motherfuckrs gonna evil motherfuck localroger Oct 2017 #8
Cause he bought a gun and knife for his collection? Drahthaardogs Oct 2017 #10
I agree with your take on this, marybourg Oct 2017 #13
Wow. You obviously have NO connection with the reality of transplants. Ms. Toad Oct 2017 #22
WTF - How damn cruel is this? packman Oct 2017 #14
there is no such thing as a 110% match, Ms. Toad Oct 2017 #15
I've been through live donor screening. They go through your history with a fine toothed comb. LeftyMom Oct 2017 #19
Talk about making a child pay for his father's sins. Doreen Oct 2017 #20
He can still get a kidney from another family member, deceased donor, donor chain, LeftyMom Oct 2017 #21
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