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In reply to the discussion: The last time "you people" was deployed in a presidential campaign: contempt and class and race [View all]hunter
(40,667 posts)... bring your husband along, free lunch, we really want you here, etc...
The invitation was pretty.
We got there at ten. Not five minutes after welcoming us the HR person looks at my wife and says "We don't get many of your people here."
Things went rapidly downhill after that. We didn't even stick around for the free lunch, we canceled our motel reservation and hit the road.
If this place was trying to increase the cultural diversity of their staff they hadn't a clue. It was like traveling back in time to my grandparent's generation. My grandfather thought maybe it was okay to date Mexican women, but you didn't marry them. His views were progressive for his time too. To make lie of the cliche, he honestly had friends who were black, and gay, and Jewish, he'd speak highly of them, defend them, treat them no differently than his white friends, but he still couldn't see outside the box. They were still other.
I try to see everyone as us, as "we the people," as my brothers and sisters, but damn, sometimes these people, these wealthy white elitists, they don't make it easy...