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In reply to the discussion: As an aside I have three female employees who not only voted for Trump [View all]Hekate
(100,133 posts)I worked for the campus Lothario at a major university. Why he never put the moves on me I will never know, but it may have had something to do with me being practically frozen with anxiety over trying to support two small children alone. When I moved on after 4 years he promptly seduced my replacement and gave her an STD.
I got a promotion and ended up working for a screamer with a volcanic temper. I lasted 9 months, cracked 2 molars, all that. The next two replacements lasted only a month or two with that bastard.
I refuse to look at the whole world through that lens. I worked for some really decent people in my time.
I'm sorry for your lousy experiences, but that is not what the OP was describing. All I can recommend is you try to separate one experience from another.