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Blue_Adept

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22. Yeah, that cracked me up to.
Sun Nov 5, 2017, 08:23 PM
Nov 2017

I was just talking about this with my mother (78) and my eldest daughter (17) about how I did my film education for her starting at eight by making it clear she was seeing "grown up" movies now, and had to behave properly. And that going to these required talking about certain subjects beforehand and afterward.

We've done that for years (oh man, the talk we had after mother! came out this year) and in the course of talking about it tonight it made me a proud parent because I got that rare "thank you" for what I did. She said it put her ahead of the curve with her classmates who were kept from knowing so many things (some of which she's sure are gonna really have a hard time in college when away from helicopter parents) and it gave her some strong critical thinking skills because I would play devil's advocate to story/character points in the film and how she interpreted it. They do a lot of critical thinking criticism things in her classes in high school and that made her a lot more competitive with an edge.

Now, granted, her dry sarcastic humor that came from some of these films made for some amusing problems in middle school, but thankfully the majority of the teachers were just amused because the things she said went over the other kids heads so they didn't get it.

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PG-13 ain't what it used to be. [View all] underpants Nov 2017 OP
Going to see it tomorrow....Please mark Spoilers please.. HipChick Nov 2017 #1
Yes we're all a bit older these days. Next time make sure there's an adult with you. unblock Nov 2017 #2
My wife was there underpants Nov 2017 #4
There was a surprising amount of good guy with a gun in Thor Not Ruth Nov 2017 #3
Lots of butt jokes. Aurora Colorado underpants Nov 2017 #5
It was a PG-13 m ovie and you took your pre-teen daughter. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2017 #6
We've seen many PG-13's that had almost nothing in them. underpants Nov 2017 #7
PG-13. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2017 #9
Our decision rested on descriptions of content Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #10
That's how the ratings should be used. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2017 #11
I had the same frustration with our daughter's cousins, though Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #12
I would not let my kids watch R-rated movies PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2017 #13
I started taking my kids to PG-13 movies when they hit 8 Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #16
You took your 8 year old kids to PG-13 movies? PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2017 #27
Not every PG-13 movie is the same Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #28
No I agree with you. 10 or 11 is not the same as over 13 and that's when they could go to see PG-13 lunasun Nov 2017 #26
Seems pretty standard PG-13 fare. Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #8
The times we live in? C'mon Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #14
My times comment was about guns. underpants Nov 2017 #18
Don't forget the orgy joke Egnever Nov 2017 #15
Yeah. There was no reason for that. underpants Nov 2017 #17
Seriously, a 13 year old doesn't know the word 'orgy'? muriel_volestrangler Nov 2017 #20
Yeah, that cracked me up to. Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #22
peddlers in the music industry profit by selling worse to children nt msongs Nov 2017 #19
If you are evaluating a movie for your kids, Sailor65x1 Nov 2017 #21
Drinking copious amounts of alcohol has always been part of Thors character phleshdef Nov 2017 #23
The first film had quite the scene with them engaging in lots of drinking and food Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #25
So you've never read a Thor comic. Cuthbert Allgood Nov 2017 #24
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