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Blue_Adept

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28. Not every PG-13 movie is the same
Sun Nov 5, 2017, 09:56 PM
Nov 2017

At that age I had taken her to the first reboot Star Trek movie and the first Iron Man movie.

And then built up a good slate of films after that, mixing in lots of classics, modern biopics like 42 and 12 Years a Slave, and so forth as time went on.

Where she is now is in a place where she'll watch a whole range of films as opposed to a particular genre, has a deep love of WWII movies across a surprising range of areas, is very keen into international film, but will roll with all kinds of raunchy comedies as well.

It's not going to work for a lot of parents or kids. But it worked for me, especially since I always had things on and always with subtitles (so she was reading things at an early age; her teachers criticized her for reading Harry Potter books when she thought she was too young, one actually accusing her of not actually reading it but just trying to look smart). But with subtitles on her vocabulary picked up big time because I watched a lot of foreign TV for work and she wanted to know what it was, but could only know if she could read the subtitles, so her reading skills picked up a lot.

I'd rather her be like this than her friend that was sheltered from everything and is so tightly wound that when she ends up in college she's going to snap in a very bad way because of it.

Just remember, the key to everything I did was regular engagement and talking. Not a hands off latch key kid like I was that discovered all of it on my own.

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PG-13 ain't what it used to be. [View all] underpants Nov 2017 OP
Going to see it tomorrow....Please mark Spoilers please.. HipChick Nov 2017 #1
Yes we're all a bit older these days. Next time make sure there's an adult with you. unblock Nov 2017 #2
My wife was there underpants Nov 2017 #4
There was a surprising amount of good guy with a gun in Thor Not Ruth Nov 2017 #3
Lots of butt jokes. Aurora Colorado underpants Nov 2017 #5
It was a PG-13 m ovie and you took your pre-teen daughter. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2017 #6
We've seen many PG-13's that had almost nothing in them. underpants Nov 2017 #7
PG-13. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2017 #9
Our decision rested on descriptions of content Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #10
That's how the ratings should be used. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2017 #11
I had the same frustration with our daughter's cousins, though Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #12
I would not let my kids watch R-rated movies PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2017 #13
I started taking my kids to PG-13 movies when they hit 8 Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #16
You took your 8 year old kids to PG-13 movies? PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2017 #27
Not every PG-13 movie is the same Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #28
No I agree with you. 10 or 11 is not the same as over 13 and that's when they could go to see PG-13 lunasun Nov 2017 #26
Seems pretty standard PG-13 fare. Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #8
The times we live in? C'mon Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #14
My times comment was about guns. underpants Nov 2017 #18
Don't forget the orgy joke Egnever Nov 2017 #15
Yeah. There was no reason for that. underpants Nov 2017 #17
Seriously, a 13 year old doesn't know the word 'orgy'? muriel_volestrangler Nov 2017 #20
Yeah, that cracked me up to. Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #22
peddlers in the music industry profit by selling worse to children nt msongs Nov 2017 #19
If you are evaluating a movie for your kids, Sailor65x1 Nov 2017 #21
Drinking copious amounts of alcohol has always been part of Thors character phleshdef Nov 2017 #23
The first film had quite the scene with them engaging in lots of drinking and food Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #25
So you've never read a Thor comic. Cuthbert Allgood Nov 2017 #24
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