I was working an a very old building with lots of empty rooms. So they asked the teacher to stay a little after they were supposed to leave,,and inspect some of the empty rooms, to see if any of the kids were hiding in a corner of an empty room, or an empty remote stairwell smoking dope. ok...So I go into this large room with maybe a hundred desks. It was being used as a study hall, but..late in the day it was known to be empty.
On the side of the room was a teachers desk..
So I go into the room looking for the pot smokers and on that side desk a female student in lying on her back, and a male student has his hand in her pants, obviously playing with her vagina. So, I walk up to them, and as I do, he pulls his hand out of her pants and well, they both look "embarrassed". So, what do I do??
Obviously, this wasn't exactly "legal" but also, it was obviously it was something both wanted to do. ..
...Here is what I did. Instead of reporting them and getting them into all kinds of trouble. I told the two to get out of that room, and go home. And that is what they did. I had not seen either of them before, and did not know them. But...........the next school year, the young man was in my history class. You had better believe that I remembered him...
....Guess what?...that fellow did not cause one discipline problem for the entire 10 months he was in my class, he was perfectly respectful, and also..guess what? I never mentioned seeing him the year before..but he knew damn well who I was, and I knew who he was..