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Moral Compass

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5. Im Right there with her
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 08:58 PM
Nov 2017

I find myself even more irritable than I am normally. And I’m fairly irritable by nature.

But shortly after the election one of my Republican friends told me that I needed to give trump more time after he pretty much shit all over the country for a couple months and I completely and totally lost it. I don’t do that.

When I have a political discussion with these morons I tend to be very calm and ask them questions until they start stammering because they don’t ever know anything. But in this case what he said was like waving a red flag in front of a board. I came completely unglued.

Well, that was months ago. I just don’t have political discussions with anybody now that I suspect voted for Trump. One of the stupid is a member of my golf group and keeps bringing up NFL players taking a knee during the national anthem.

The last time he brought it up fortunately a Swede was in my group and we both looked him said let’s not talk about it. He started in again and I said “you know what we don’t come here to do is talk politics...how about we just talk something less controversial like anal sex or something like that.”

That shut him right up for some reason. But that is the only way I can cope right now. I’m furious with these morons. Anyone who voted for Trump and is not consumed with remorse is dead to me now.

The sad thing is I know I’m surrounded by complete idiots. That gives me a feeling for my country which I’ve never had.

During the Vietnam war when we were all so angry with one another I never lost hope. I could see that minds were beginning to change. When we did start pulling out of Vietnam even my father (shin served in Vietnam as an advisor) stopped talking about it being a noble and justifiable war.

But now, well, this is different.

We have enough people that are willing to destroy the country because they think they’re losing control.

This grotesque tax bill is going to go through and it is going to create a situation where in about 4-8 years they’ll be able to go after Social security,Medicare—everything they wanted to go after for all these decades.

By that time I will probably be forced to retire because I’ll be in my 70s. I’m now just hoping that by some miracle my wife and I will be able to live out our days with some semblance of dignity but I don’t really think that’s going to happen.

I have never felt so hopeless and so ashamed of my own people. Because these people that are doing this to our country are in every sense of the word my people. They are white, there are educated, and they are generally pretty well off— and they are willing to burn the whole country down to keep the monorities and immigrants from getting into a position of power.

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I would rather be an alert, rational, informed, passionate person BigmanPigman Nov 2017 #1
Lost a lot of friends and neighbors over Trump. VermontKevin Nov 2017 #2
Me too, but they do not realize it. BigmanPigman Nov 2017 #3
I hope you are able to get the medical help you need. VermontKevin Nov 2017 #4
I feel for you, with the complicated health issues, and peacebuzzard Nov 2017 #32
Im Right there with her Moral Compass Nov 2017 #5
At Thanksgiving last year, my son-in-law exhorted us: VermontKevin Nov 2017 #6
It has been a long time since Ive hated my fellow citizens Moral Compass Nov 2017 #7
I hate them. Not ashamed to admit it. They deserve it. VermontKevin Nov 2017 #8
Replace toxic hate with stone cold loathing. Much healthier and more effective. Take care. . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2017 #9
I saw a Trump supporter a few weeks ago bucolic_frolic Nov 2017 #10
She should be embarrassed. Look what they have done. VermontKevin Nov 2017 #11
"We are all living in the minefield you have made." Ilsa Nov 2017 #12
They feel no shame. VermontKevin Nov 2017 #14
I do not know how to let go of fighting bigotry. This is what it is about. I can not put it away. SandyZ Nov 2017 #13
I bet her friend is a "moderate", not a liberal Skittles Nov 2017 #15
I have no doubt her friend self-identifies as a "liberal." VermontKevin Nov 2017 #18
I'm saying what he is, not what he "self-identifies" Skittles Nov 2017 #22
Well, we can play the No True Scotsman game, or just accept that there are VermontKevin Nov 2017 #23
they can call themselves fire hydrants Skittles Nov 2017 #26
The simple fact is that being "liberal" does not grant immunity from "isms." VermontKevin Nov 2017 #28
Dang! I'm feeling that same way. calimary Nov 2017 #16
I love this post and want to buy it a beer. VermontKevin Nov 2017 #19
And I've gotta add - I regret like hell that I feel this way! calimary Nov 2017 #35
,,,they want whites (MEN) to reign supreme again, without question. SharonAnn Nov 2017 #39
I think every king con voter xxqqqzme Nov 2017 #17
I can relate to that feeling. Rorey Nov 2017 #20
Yep. There's no shortage of people to not like, and on the internet is ten times worse. joet67 Nov 2017 #21
I'm pissed off at the evangelicals, too. Girard442 Nov 2017 #24
It's hard not to hate, and carry rage. But it is destructive. 58Sunliner Nov 2017 #25
The Tribe has Spoken Olafjoy Nov 2017 #27
Welcome to DU GrapesOfWrath Nov 2017 #33
In the meantime we got helpful people telling us that people are not happy with the DEM party. Madam45for2923 Nov 2017 #29
I really could give a shit about everyone's fee-fees about the DEM party. VermontKevin Nov 2017 #30
Thank you for this. The Polack MSgt Nov 2017 #36
I could have written this article (not nearly as well but feel every bit the same) Justice Nov 2017 #31
I know exactly what she means. living in fundieville, the area is littered with trumpians. I try niyad Nov 2017 #34
I just had to terminate a 7 year friendship. I told him not to use racial slurs Corvo Bianco Nov 2017 #37
I hate how gullible people are to the self-serving opinions of the rich, too. ancianita Nov 2017 #38
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