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23. How awful

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Mon Nov 13, 2017, 08:07 AM

Nov 2017

for you, him, your family. Sounds as though you have been through hell. Sincere condolences, Nancy.

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I don't know why, but I have this yearning to tell you here: My husband died Friday night [View all] OKNancy Nov 2017 OP

I'm so very sorry for your loss. femmedem Nov 2017 #1

So very sorry for your loss... Dorian Gray Nov 2017 #2

what a kind-looking man... I'm so sorry OKNancy hlthe2b Nov 2017 #3

I'm so sorry for your loss janterry Nov 2017 #4

My heart goes out to you, Nancy TexasProgresive Nov 2017 #5

My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Metatron Nov 2017 #6

Yes, cancer does that. hamsterjill Nov 2017 #7

I know how you feel, Nancy. zanana1 Nov 2017 #8

Sorry to hear about your loss too! Like you, ill have to RestoreAmerica2020 Nov 2017 #19

Zanana and Nancy.... luvtheGWN Nov 2017 #72

... progressoid Nov 2017 #123

So sorry for your loss. Kentonio Nov 2017 #9

Oh no... So sorry to see this. BumRushDaShow Nov 2017 #10

My sincere condolences, Nancy. Dennis Donovan Nov 2017 #11

Im so sorry for your loss. My sympathy to you, your family livetohike Nov 2017 #12

I'm sorry for your loss. Solly Mack Nov 2017 #13

So sorry to hear this. Callalily Nov 2017 #14

Sorry about the loss of your husband..please take care RestoreAmerica2020 Nov 2017 #15

I'm so sorry for your loss and for the suffering of both of you. no_hypocrisy Nov 2017 #16

My condolences TxDemChem Nov 2017 #17

Condolences. n/t FSogol Nov 2017 #18

No one should go through what you guys did. Hortensis Nov 2017 #20

Deepest sympathy malaise Nov 2017 #21

My sincerest condolences to you, babylonsister Nov 2017 #22

How awful lillypaddle Nov 2017 #23

I'm so sorry, Nancy. yardwork Nov 2017 #24

Im so sorry for your loss. cate94 Nov 2017 #25

i'm sorry to hear this JI7 Nov 2017 #26

Love and peace to you... Freedomofspeech Nov 2017 #27

i'm so sorry for your loss. barbtries Nov 2017 #28

... shenmue Nov 2017 #29

I am so sorry to hear of this very great loss and that Robert had to go through Tanuki Nov 2017 #30

My deepest sympathies,Nancy mascarax Nov 2017 #31

Nancy, I am sorry to read this sad news. May you hold your family close in this japple Nov 2017 #32

Deepest sympathy Laf.La.Dem. Nov 2017 #33

Sorry for your loss Cary Nov 2017 #34

Lost my dad to cancer nearly 18 years ago now... Adrahil Nov 2017 #35

Oh my what sweet words you all have written OKNancy Nov 2017 #36

oh my gosh! I am so sorry!!!..what a heartbreaking experience for you. samnsara Nov 2017 #37

so sorry for your loss. sarah FAILIN Nov 2017 #38

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine what you're going through. Vinca Nov 2017 #39

Deepest sympathy orangecrush Nov 2017 #40

My condolences for your loss. TexasTowelie Nov 2017 #41

I'm so sorry, Nancy. GoCubsGo Nov 2017 #42

You have my deepest sympathy, OKNancy. brer cat Nov 2017 #43

So very sorry for your loss. 7wo7rees Nov 2017 #44

I am so sorry for your loss... Tom_Foolery Nov 2017 #45

... spanone Nov 2017 #46

My condolences rock Nov 2017 #47

Condolences to you and your family. mamas Nov 2017 #48

A burden shared is an easier burden to bear. Ligyron Nov 2017 #49

Prayers are with you JackInGreen Nov 2017 #50

A terrible loss The Blue Flower Nov 2017 #51

Very sorry for your loss flakey_foont Nov 2017 #52

So sorry for your loss. mfcorey1 Nov 2017 #53

So sorry. democrank Nov 2017 #54

I am so so sorry. Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #55

He looks like he was good company for the years you had DFW Nov 2017 #56

Again... you Democrats are the best people in the world. OKNancy Nov 2017 #57

So sorry for your loss, Nancy Maeve Nov 2017 #58

I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. Arkansas Granny Nov 2017 #59

Set of three, not a big deal. xmas74 Nov 2017 #230

So sorry for your loss, Nancy mcar Nov 2017 #60

Im so sorry for your loss. He was a handsome man spooky3 Nov 2017 #61

My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm so very sorry to hear the sad news. NurseJackie Nov 2017 #62

Condolences, Nancy. IUPACify Nov 2017 #63

So sorry... tavernier Nov 2017 #64

That is a great description Freddie Nov 2017 #107

Im so sorry for your loss. octoberlib Nov 2017 #65

Deepest sympathy. Have long followed your comments here bobbieinok Nov 2017 #66

My condolences to you and your family OK Nancy Achilleaze Nov 2017 #67

That smile in the face of what he was going through then speaks so loudly of his grace Tom Rinaldo Nov 2017 #68

Very sorry for your loss JPPaverage Nov 2017 #69

My deepest condolences to you and yours. longship Nov 2017 #70

My condolences on your loss. sl8 Nov 2017 #71

I am so sorry......... a kennedy Nov 2017 #73

Rest in peace, Robert. yallerdawg Nov 2017 #74

I am sorry to hear about your loss. muntrv Nov 2017 #75

Deepest sympathy. Scarsdale Nov 2017 #76

Very sorry for your loss Nancy. boston bean Nov 2017 #77

Such a nice looking and pleasant man. RKP5637 Nov 2017 #78

My same thoughts. A handsome dude. efhmc Nov 2017 #132

My deepest condolences to you and your family, Nancy. greatauntoftriplets Nov 2017 #79

I'm so sorry for your loss. n/t AirmensMom Nov 2017 #80

So sorry Nancy. panader0 Nov 2017 #81

So sorry, Nancy. GallopingGhost Nov 2017 #82

Oh Nancy MuseRider Nov 2017 #83

I am so sorry for you Nancy. bronxiteforever Nov 2017 #84

So sorry for your loss... VaBchTgerLily Nov 2017 #85

I'm very sorry for your loss DesertRat Nov 2017 #86

Just saw this. How terrible a loss in your life. CTyankee Nov 2017 #87

I am so sorry to read this. MineralMan Nov 2017 #88

No Words DownriverDem Nov 2017 #89

((OKNancy)) salin Nov 2017 #90

My sympathy DonCoquixote Nov 2017 #91

Ohmigod! He looks like a great guy and you must be devastated... TreasonousBastard Nov 2017 #92

Nancy, I'm so very sorry for your family's loss. KatyaR Nov 2017 #93

Of course you can come here. annabanana Nov 2017 #94

And so, now you know.. Permanut Nov 2017 #95

My deepest condolences Sanity Claws Nov 2017 #96

how awful, OKNancy bigtree Nov 2017 #97

Peace be with you, Nancy. KY_EnviroGuy Nov 2017 #98

I am sorry ismnotwasm Nov 2017 #99

I am so very sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolence. jrthin Nov 2017 #100

OKNancy -- I hope you will be "OK" CountAllVotes Nov 2017 #101

I'm so sorry OKNancy Starry Messenger Nov 2017 #102

My condolences Denis 11 Nov 2017 #103

Condolences to you and your family in the loss of your husband. Frustratedlady Nov 2017 #104

You and your children have my condolences. So sorry for your loss. SummerSnow Nov 2017 #105

I'm so sorry. CaptainTruth Nov 2017 #106

I am so sorry, Nancy NRaleighLiberal Nov 2017 #108

I'm very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. PatrickforO Nov 2017 #109

I send sympathy TEB Nov 2017 #110

I am so plcdude Nov 2017 #111

I'm so sorry for your loss. yellerpup Nov 2017 #112

I'm so sorry. I had a fried in California who died of the same thing 2 weeks ago. You hear about it OregonBlue Nov 2017 #113

I'm so sorry... Phentex Nov 2017 #114

Im so sorry... onecaliberal Nov 2017 #115

oh, Nancy, I'm so sorry for your loss fishwax Nov 2017 #116

I am deeply sorry for your loss. irisblue Nov 2017 #117

So sorry Omaha Steve Nov 2017 #118

Terribly sorry. cilla4progress Nov 2017 #119

I am really sorry for your loss. KitSileya Nov 2017 #120

I am sorry for your loss. Lifelong Protester Nov 2017 #121

My deepest sympathy Marthe48 Nov 2017 #122

I'm so sorry! The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2017 #124

Im sorry for your loss, Nancy. BainsBane Nov 2017 #125

I am so sorry, Nancy. murielm99 Nov 2017 #126

Please accept my condolences MontanaMama Nov 2017 #127

Not one damn person in this great Country should work all their lives to end up BROKE over medical.. Bengus81 Nov 2017 #128

So sorry, OKNancy. Greybnk48 Nov 2017 #129

So sorry for the loss Skidmore Nov 2017 #130

You have my very deepest sympathy, OKNancy The_jackalope Nov 2017 #131

Thank you for posting this. So sorry for the loss of someone you so obviously love GoneOffShore Nov 2017 #133

I am so sorry for your loss, Nancy. sheshe2 Nov 2017 #134

I'm so sorry. kcr Nov 2017 #135

My heart goes out to you gopiscrap Nov 2017 #136

So sorry for your loss Nancy! denvine Nov 2017 #137

Thank you for sharing your story, OKNancy. Hugin Nov 2017 #138

Condolences to you and your family Fla Dem Nov 2017 #139

Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss. I know that you and Robert fought as hard you could. Tess49 Nov 2017 #140

May he snowybirdie Nov 2017 #141

Sincere condolences pandr32 Nov 2017 #142

I am so very sorry, and I hope you find comfort and peace in the coming days. VermontKevin Nov 2017 #143

What a distinguished-looking gentleman. Aristus Nov 2017 #144

:( Heartstrings Nov 2017 #145

I'm am so sorry for your loss. CrispyQ Nov 2017 #146

My deepest condolences, dear Nancy ailsagirl Nov 2017 #147

Terrible News carburyme Nov 2017 #148

I'm so sorry, Nancy. blogslut Nov 2017 #149

Nancy I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find some solace at this hard time Maraya1969 Nov 2017 #150

Very sorry for your loss. awesomerwb1 Nov 2017 #151

I'm so sorry to hear this OKNancy. smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #152

Condolences. wildeyed Nov 2017 #153

So sorry for your loss, hoping memories intheozone Nov 2017 #154

No, dear OKNancy... we aren't your 'best friends' but we ARE your community here... TygrBright Nov 2017 #155

Nancy Dear librechik Nov 2017 #156

Very sorry for your loss dbackjon Nov 2017 #157

I am so sorry for your loss nini Nov 2017 #158

So sorry, nt trocar Nov 2017 #159

This is terribly sad... I'm so so sorry, OKNancy BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2017 #160

So very sorry for your loss. cyberswede Nov 2017 #161

I am so sorry, Nancy uppityperson Nov 2017 #162

... Skittles Nov 2017 #163

Old timer, kahuna here. We are and have been your friends for a long time now. Kahuna7 Nov 2017 #164

I am sorry. My deepest sympathies to you. davsand Nov 2017 #165

Oh Nancy...I am so very sad for you The empressof all Nov 2017 #166

Sorry for your loss Nancy! BadGimp Nov 2017 #167

My deepest condolences to you and family. oasis Nov 2017 #168

Nancy, very sorry to hear this mvd Nov 2017 #169

I'm very sorry for your loss and everything you and your family have undergone during his illness. Texin Nov 2017 #170

So sorry for your loss, sending my condolences Tumbulu Nov 2017 #171

OMG I'm so sorry for your loss of life and life funds CousinIT Nov 2017 #172

You did the right thing by letting us know. We are a community, friends who have gone through lunamagica Nov 2017 #173

Deepest Condolences Nancy! ProfessorGAC Nov 2017 #174

My deepest condolences question everything Nov 2017 #175

I am deeply sorry for your loss. dewsgirl Nov 2017 #176

I'm so sorry for your loss, Nancy. MelissaB Nov 2017 #177

"A problem shared is a problem halved (divided)." sprinkleeninow Nov 2017 #178

Sorry for your tremendous loss. Your husband was so handsome. flying_wahini Nov 2017 #179

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss, Nancy. herding cats Nov 2017 #180

I am so sorry, oknancy peacebuzzard Nov 2017 #181

Very sorry for your loss. Vibes to your family. applegrove Nov 2017 #182

I am very sorry for your loss. dae Nov 2017 #183

So very very sorry ... diva77 Nov 2017 #184

I am so sorry for your loss, and glad you shared with us SoCalDem Nov 2017 #185

I'm overwhelmed. Thanks to all for the words of comfort OKNancy Nov 2017 #186

I am so very sorry for your loss... Hekate Nov 2017 #187

Very sorry n/t lordsummerisle Nov 2017 #188

That is a horrible thing to go through. Ken Burch Nov 2017 #189

So sorry for your loss Luneybin3804 Nov 2017 #190

I'm sorry for your suffering and loss....just donated a small amount adigal Nov 2017 #191

I am in tears reading this. BigmanPigman Nov 2017 #192

(((hugs))) Nancy. I am so, so sorry. sueh Nov 2017 #193

A kindred spirit RoadRunner Nov 2017 #194

We're family, Nancy. WinstonSmith4740 Nov 2017 #195

So very sorry for your loss Stinky The Clown Nov 2017 #196

For what little they're worth, Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2017 #197

Sorry for your loss Stuart G Nov 2017 #198

Lots of love here for you Nancy. Brentar Nov 2017 #199

Fair winds and following seas for him, Nancy obamanut2012 Nov 2017 #200

I so very sorry. My heart goes out to you & all who love him. nt WePurrsevere Nov 2017 #201

So sorry for you. Du is a family of sorts so it is right for you to reach out to us. The Wielding Truth Nov 2017 #202

. . . GaryCnf Nov 2017 #203

I am so terribly sorry. Lefta Dissenter Nov 2017 #204

My sincere condolence, Nancy. aikoaiko Nov 2017 #205

I'm so very sorry for your loss. emmadoggy Nov 2017 #206

So sorry Nancy! stevenleser Nov 2017 #207

Sorry For Your Loss Corey_Baker08 Nov 2017 #208

So sorry to hear this, Nancy ucrdem Nov 2017 #209

Aw, I'm so sorry to hear this, OKNancy. calimary Nov 2017 #210

I am so very sorry, Nancy Rhiannon12866 Nov 2017 #211

I'm so sorry Raine Nov 2017 #212

heartfelt condolences my fellow DUer orleans Nov 2017 #213

Thank you for sharing your sorrow. SergeStorms Nov 2017 #214

I'm sorry for your loss, Nancy. Chemisse Nov 2017 #215

I am so sorry for your loss, OKNancy. mnhtnbb Nov 2017 #216

Sending you all loving thoughts and peace. VOX Nov 2017 #217

So sorry TuxedoKat Nov 2017 #218

Our sympathies and thoughts to you, Nancy. kentuck Nov 2017 #219

I'm so sorry.... LeftInTX Nov 2017 #220

I'm so sorry for your loss. Lisa0825 Nov 2017 #221

Kick. They are half way there (nt) question everything Nov 2017 #222

I know. I'm shocked. OKNancy Nov 2017 #225

So sorry for your loss mokawanis Nov 2017 #223

Sorry for your loss marlakay Nov 2017 #224

So very sorry to hear this cpamomfromtexas Nov 2017 #226

Im so sorry for your loss. LiberalLoner Nov 2017 #227

Have been thinking about you since this post. salin Nov 2017 #228

A friend had cervical cancer. xmas74 Nov 2017 #229

I am so sorry for your family's loss. phylny Nov 2017 #231

I'm going through the donation page and trying to thank everyone OKNancy Nov 2017 #232