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gollygee

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22. You really need to think about the history of this word
Mon Nov 13, 2017, 02:12 PM
Nov 2017

It is a word of oppression, of slavery, of human beings being bought and sold and mistreated as property. And continued oppression in the many years since then.

When black people use that word with each other, they are saying that they share that history and oppression. "We are in this together. We share this horrible history." It's about solidarity.

White people don't share that history. We can't use it to say "I've gone through this too. My ancestors were also enslaved. I am also a victim of systemic oppression." When we say it, it means something different. Think about what it means when white people use that word.

This is not that complicated. If you open your mind and your heart, I believe you will be able to see the difference.

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Chris Rock did a good routine on this nycbos Nov 2017 #1
Coates' illustration makes good sense. oasis Nov 2017 #2
Reminds me of the bit from The Big Chill Billy Jingo Nov 2017 #3
It's a shame anyone has to explain it to white wingers nowadays. Hoyt Nov 2017 #4
Either it's wrong or it isn't. Billy Jingo Nov 2017 #6
Absolutism, lacking context, is also wrong... LanternWaste Nov 2017 #17
He is rationalizing. And context isn't the determining factor according to the OP. Billy Jingo Nov 2017 #21
Perhaps he should try explaining to whistler162 Nov 2017 #5
That was not the point he is trying to make. The colorblind theory is bullshit... bettyellen Nov 2017 #7
FACE PALM AND SHAKES HEAD whistler162 Nov 2017 #13
You really need to think about the history of this word gollygee Nov 2017 #22
More eveidence of social communications issues. You are not an anime character, and neither am I. bettyellen Nov 2017 #23
Calling someone from a racial or ethnic group a slur is not the same as a Blue_true Nov 2017 #8
FACE PALM AND SHAKES HEAD whistler162 Nov 2017 #14
I said it once. I was in pre-school, about 4 or 5. raven mad Nov 2017 #9
Good on mom... sheshe2 Nov 2017 #10
Mom was a stickler! raven mad Nov 2017 #11
I'm an old white guy MurrayDelph Nov 2017 #12
Or Is Referring To The Richard Pryor Album ProfessorGAC Nov 2017 #18
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2017 #15
It was the way white people talked when I grew up, Ron Green Nov 2017 #16
I've never heard it explained like that before. Very insightful. Orrex Nov 2017 #19
Someone posted this yesterday on another thread. cwydro Nov 2017 #20
kicked Blue_Tires Nov 2017 #24
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