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The Velveteen Ocelot

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4. Exactly. In the past, women's complaints of sexual harassment
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 07:06 PM
Nov 2017

were too often dismissed or not taken very seriously. We know now that false complaints are actually quite rare because women would get so much shit for even real complaints that there was seldom an up-side for making a false one. Nevertheless, there's a big difference between taking a complaint seriously, which should always happen, and believing without question every single word and every single detail. I am afraid that we are reaching a point where we are so invested in believing and supporting women (which is a good thing) that no complaint will ever be questioned for fear of being accused of sexism and/or not supporting women.

Just today a fake twitter account accused Sen. Blumenthal of rape, and of course the Trumpites picked it up and ran with it. https://www.thedailybeast.com/a-twitter-account-with-two-fake-ids-accused-a-democrat-of-assault-then-pro-trump-sites-ran-with-it Men are being justifiably outed now for past bad behavior, but will we see more of this that doesn't pass the smell test? Will the Trumpites take advantage of the new ethos of believing women to plant false stories of assaults by prominent Democrats, and if they do, will we be obligated by the new ethos to assume without question that the complaints are true? Shouldn't we treat them like any other evidence - don't dismiss it out of hand, but before piling on somebody, try to get some verification?

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I agree comradebillyboy Nov 2017 #1
I agree; there's a pack mentality going on. LisaM Nov 2017 #2
I agree.... marble falls Nov 2017 #3
Exactly. In the past, women's complaints of sexual harassment The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2017 #4
Agreed nini Nov 2017 #5
I don't either, despite all the recent proclamations that we have to believe everybody LisaL Nov 2017 #6
YES! Thank you. K&R trof Nov 2017 #7
Thank you, very short and to the point PatSeg Nov 2017 #8
So many of these incidents boil down to "he said, she said" Mr. Ected Nov 2017 #9
Yes. "the jury is still out on Franken for a breach that pales in comparison to the others." pnwmom Nov 2017 #11
+1, in all that you named there are multiple people coming forward with the same MO on the accused uponit7771 Nov 2017 #14
BAM!. Thank you. bullimiami Nov 2017 #10
Thank you lame54 Nov 2017 #12
Ive told my story here a few years ago..... madamvlb Nov 2017 #13
So sorry for this, my goodness ... good on you for saying something cause it might be uponit7771 Nov 2017 #15
madamvlb, pnwmom Nov 2017 #18
To not believe them is one thing loyalsister Nov 2017 #16
Agreed on not lowering ourselves to their level just because they do it to us. Nt moriah Nov 2017 #19
As I said, "I take serious allegations seriously." That doesn't mean pnwmom Nov 2017 #20
Yep. Even when it's something we don't want to believe. moriah Nov 2017 #21
We just have to be willing to have an open mind and *listen* to any alleged victim. moriah Nov 2017 #17
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