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maddiemom

(5,173 posts)
37. Agree completely.
Thu Dec 7, 2017, 01:29 PM
Dec 2017

I don't know from what generation the women who are feeling "assaulted, diminished as humans," even "scarred for life" because some asshole man made an off-color remark, or touched them in an inappropriate way.. As an early baby boomer, I know the difference between serious sexual assault (unwanted mauling or rape, pedophilia or statutory rape) and the kind of disgusting and inappropriate remarks or touching we learned to avoid from some men over the years. I well remember my then husband asking why I always refused a "good friend" of his when he asked me to dance. Inappropriate touching was the reason, of course. The thing is, I haven't thought of this guy, nor of any other guys who were similar jerks, for years until recently. I certainly wasn't scarred for life or tried to get the man fired from his job. I'm certainly glad my own daughter doesn't have to deal as much with this kind of behavior, but knows how to handle it if it occurs. OTOH, it seems we are either forgetting the degree of intent in any unwanted "pass." Again, as long as Trump is allowed to hold office, at least, we need to get a grip (no pun intended).

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Well said SHRED Dec 2017 #1
Senator Al Franken... Zoonart Dec 2017 #2
Absolutely! hurple Dec 2017 #6
Agreed. Volaris Dec 2017 #17
Well Said! ollie10 Dec 2017 #3
well stated dsc Dec 2017 #4
The behavior of the Democratic Party leadership in this matter is mind boggling. mn9driver Dec 2017 #5
👆🏾This. BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2017 #15
THIS! calimary Dec 2017 #27
I'm in total agreement with you. Texin Dec 2017 #31
Exactly. The Democrats have just created a blueprint for the GOP Demit Dec 2017 #7
Well, not anybody. Dave Starsky Dec 2017 #19
It's a classic play. Texin Dec 2017 #32
The term originated earlier than that. Demit Dec 2017 #42
Bernie Sanders: Al Franken Resigning Is The Right Thing To Do oberliner Dec 2017 #8
That puts him among the overwhelming majority of the Democratic caucus, and the DNC leadership Tom Rinaldo Dec 2017 #10
It occurs to me that if all we need in this world is to act with decisiveness, we wouldn't Demit Dec 2017 #22
Your point is taken and agreed with Tom Rinaldo Dec 2017 #23
Bernie gets a High Road refrigerator magnet. mn9driver Dec 2017 #11
Bernie is in a lose - lose position Locrian Dec 2017 #30
Thank you for sagesnow Dec 2017 #9
You are welcome Tom Rinaldo Dec 2017 #12
Even the two who were not anonymous were very fishy. ananda Dec 2017 #13
thoughtful scipan Dec 2017 #14
Agree completely. maddiemom Dec 2017 #37
Is there something we're not being told? MissKat Dec 2017 #16
YES! I've thought the same. Is there something MORE that we don't know? (n/t) maddiemom Dec 2017 #38
"made allegations against Frankel" geardaddy Dec 2017 #18
It's a typo. Correct in other places... Tom Rinaldo Dec 2017 #20
No problem. geardaddy Dec 2017 #24
I dont think so. wisteria Dec 2017 #21
And I'm not. Iggo Dec 2017 #25
I said "might". I haven't seen the evidence either. n/t Tom Rinaldo Dec 2017 #26
Thank you for calling it inappropriate behavior... I really don't see this rising to the word secondwind Dec 2017 #28
You have all failed, Senators. Guilded Lilly Dec 2017 #29
Al Franken's forced resignation pazzyanne Dec 2017 #40
we eat our own orleans Dec 2017 #33
I agree. A sad day. nt Honeycombe8 Dec 2017 #34
Thanks for your wise statement, Tom, elleng Dec 2017 #35
The charges brought forward aren't serious (or credible) enough to earn Franken . . . MrModerate Dec 2017 #36
This is my first post and I feel like the mainstream media outlets has not reported this... Jan Levinson Dec 2017 #39
An excellent post. Thank you Tom Rinaldo Dec 2017 #41
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