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d_r

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47. I don't think that is the first rule at all.
Wed Apr 18, 2012, 08:25 PM
Apr 2012

Perhaps it is the rule of the location in which your wife is. Some school districts do have no-touch rules. And certainly some organizations/institutions that serve children and youths do.

It isn't a rule where I live. Or anywhere that I have taught. Or the districts in which my students have typically taught. I have often used a "letter writing" assignment concerning no touch policies as an exercise in child guidance courses - I write that to only say I am familiar with the concept.

It isn't a law in the state of Georgia by any means. As I also said before, corporal punishment is perfectly legal in Georgia.

There are also good samaritan laws that protect one from lawsuits when one is trying to protect someone else from being harmed. Which would be the actions in this case - as I said, I would intervene if there was a need to protect the child from harming themselves.

Also professional training and judgement are buffers against such litigation, and as I mentioned I have had training in this area.

I have had to restrain children before, in a variety of settings.

You asked me to be specific in what I would do, and I took the time to write that up for you. But then your replies just seemed sort of short and sniping.

As I mentioned above, I have had specific training in this sort of area.

I'm going to put a link to my vita here, the only reason is to say I do know something about the subject -
http://www.utc.edu/Faculty/Darrell-Meece/MeeceVita2008.pdf

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Reminds me of another little girl from the South (minus the handcuffs) FailureToCommunicate Apr 2012 #1
typical... Sancho Apr 2012 #2
Wasn't there any pepper spray? JackintheGreen Apr 2012 #3
Pepper Spray is for peaceful protesters....tasers are for old people.... Evasporque Apr 2012 #30
I just restrained the arms of a man 2x my size having a seizure, the police couldn't restrain a 6yr? DRoseDARs Apr 2012 #4
Of course they could -- and they did. Massacure Apr 2012 #10
So a 6-yr-old is the same size and strength as a gym patron over 6ft 200lbs? nt DRoseDARs Apr 2012 #21
You would have sent her back to class to be around the other children? nt Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #32
These GA cops seem to be suffering from Napoleon Complex. Dont call me Shirley Apr 2012 #5
Unfortunately the authoritarians won the top-liked comments. alp227 Apr 2012 #6
Oh yes they can and do. Child should have been safely restrained, calmed down, call parents. MichiganVote Apr 2012 #7
Could have been a "stand your ground" law Iliyah Apr 2012 #8
I've seen a little boy about that age out of control. Archae Apr 2012 #9
Sorry but Taureanblack Apr 2012 #23
So you would have choked her out? nt Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #33
What civilized country are you talking about, in severe cases all you can do is use restraints happyslug Apr 2012 #39
Parents are going to ask Al Sharpton to get involved, says the story. dixiegrrrrl Apr 2012 #11
UGH, the parents are pulling the race card to deflect from their shitty parenting? Odin2005 Apr 2012 #13
No, the parents are going to ask if the criminal justice system discriminates against Black kids. McCamy Taylor Apr 2012 #16
She was charged as a criminal? nt Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #44
The child is very pretty and black. I do not know what the race of the police or principal are. MADem Apr 2012 #18
How is it that this child's picture and a video, no less, can be shown and publicized??? nanabugg Apr 2012 #49
The family contacted Al Sharpton to amplify their grievance riderinthestorm Apr 2012 #50
I think the mother might have given permisssion. I can't see any other way they would have gotten MADem Apr 2012 #53
Actually I think this was totally appropriate groundloop Apr 2012 #12
My son (age 5) is autistic and goes into christx30 Apr 2012 #25
This is what happens when teachers are not allowed to restrain misbehaving kids. Odin2005 Apr 2012 #14
You make a very good point Mz Pip Apr 2012 #27
This is what people quickly forget... Phentex Apr 2012 #36
I vote for not appropriate. She is six. Did she act violent towards the police officer? McCamy Taylor Apr 2012 #15
I don't know about "trying" to hurt herself or others, but there was that danger groundloop Apr 2012 #17
I think she pulled a shelf down on top of a school employee. She is black. MADem Apr 2012 #19
Definitely! colorado_ufo Apr 2012 #20
What you are forgetting is Taureanblack Apr 2012 #24
I'm sure her mom will have her checked out. Seems on top of things. nt Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #34
Ok exactly what is wrong here with this? cstanleytech Apr 2012 #22
what's wrong with this = to me d_r Apr 2012 #26
A voice of reason! Wind Dancer Apr 2012 #28
I don't know all the specifics here Mz Pip Apr 2012 #29
In Georgia you can paddle a kid d_r Apr 2012 #31
What would you have done? Be specific. nt Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #35
Assuming that I can't prevent it before it got to that point d_r Apr 2012 #37
ROFL. Mark Wahlberg, is that you? Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #38
I'm sorry but that is a little over reaching d_r Apr 2012 #41
Got it. "Not on my watch". Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #42
are you an attourny or are you an expert in education? d_r Apr 2012 #43
My wife is an expert on children and she knows the first rule is to not touch the kids. Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #45
I don't think that is the first rule at all. d_r Apr 2012 #47
First rule of us not getting sued into bankruptcy and beyond. Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #48
I'm using the legality of corporal punishment as an example d_r Apr 2012 #51
However were the handcuffs cstanleytech Apr 2012 #40
New Sesame Street skit: "Elmo does not consent to a search." KurtNYC Apr 2012 #46
The girl's tantrum went beyond normal acting up. Beacool Apr 2012 #52
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