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Nonhlanhla

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65. Who leaves small children alone and go out?
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 07:51 AM
Nov 2015

I cannot even fathom that level of irresponsibility. She clearly is an irresponsible mother, and the fathers and boyfriends involved sketch a pretty bleak picture of general irresponsibility in all the "adults" involved here. Yes, I'm being judgmental. But a baby is dead, and 3 other children are scarred for life, because the people who were supposed to protect them had left them alone in the apartment.

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The oven had toppled over with the door face down on the floor. Kalidurga Nov 2015 #1
That jumped out to me, too. Fantastic Anarchist Nov 2015 #4
They put a kid inside an oven and turned it on. LisaL Nov 2015 #7
Some Republican candidates... Helen Borg Nov 2015 #63
Notice they said a five year old was present too. Chemisse Nov 2015 #68
My assumption.. cannabis_flower Nov 2015 #94
I don't hink the kids ... NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #9
Hmmm, very interesting. Something was amiss, but never thought about an intentional murder angle. Fantastic Anarchist Nov 2015 #12
I'm not going to "intentional murder" ... NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #18
I guess we'd have to know more about the oven to know jberryhill Nov 2015 #21
You're right. NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #24
Just by googling I found a number of stories of children being killed when LisaL Nov 2015 #29
The dynamic forces a child on top could generate jberryhill Nov 2015 #30
so terrible. those kids ... everyone of them. ARRRGGGGGGGGGGGGH! roguevalley Nov 2015 #39
Perhaps it was a small stove? Reter Nov 2015 #72
If an adult wanted to bake the kid, they wouldn't need to topple the stove. LisaL Nov 2015 #14
What anyone "wanted" ... NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #19
Are you a physics expert? LisaL Nov 2015 #20
Did they climb onto it to reach the knobs jberryhill Nov 2015 #22
I used to stand ... NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #27
It is puzzling jberryhill Nov 2015 #31
It happens. LisaL Nov 2015 #33
Well, there you go jberryhill Nov 2015 #79
Here's another report cannabis_flower Nov 2015 #96
Apparently not. This book says a toddler could do it. pnwmom Nov 2015 #44
Honestly ... NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #50
We don't know whether any if the others were hurt. The coverage was pretty minimal. pnwmom Nov 2015 #55
Most new ranges do not weight hardly anything and come with the anti-tip bracket that really must LiberalArkie Nov 2015 #62
Every 'normal' stove should have one Travis_0004 Nov 2015 #76
The oven door was probably open... forgotmylogin Nov 2015 #49
From what police report says (in the OP), they admitted one of them LisaL Nov 2015 #66
This really makes much more sense, given that the stove was knocked over. Chemisse Nov 2015 #69
According to the police report, one child LisaL Nov 2015 #73
But imagine how they were questioned. Chemisse Nov 2015 #78
You do realize that this is a complete and baseless speculation on your part? LisaL Nov 2015 #82
Yes it is. So what? Chemisse Nov 2015 #86
Kids can do all kind of things when left unattended. LisaL Nov 2015 #87
Their story fits. Igel Nov 2015 #97
They absolutely could Travis_0004 Nov 2015 #74
I don't think so Kalidurga Nov 2015 #36
Part of baby-proofing is securing stoves to walls with anti-tip brackets. pnwmom Nov 2015 #47
Okay thanks Kalidurga Nov 2015 #52
I didn't know, either. But I knew a lot of things are supposed to be fixed to walls pnwmom Nov 2015 #53
Yep I heard about tv screens Kalidurga Nov 2015 #56
When my son was five pnwmom Nov 2015 #57
My first thought, too. NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #5
The child inside the oven was kicking the oven door. LisaL Nov 2015 #6
Which would have opened the door ... NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #10
Well, it did topple the stove. LisaL Nov 2015 #15
Maybe they were desperately trying to get the door open and pulled it down instead. pnwmom Nov 2015 #25
They could have had a small stove/oven that small apartments have. cui bono Nov 2015 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author AtomicKitten Nov 2015 #2
Words fail me. BlueJazz Nov 2015 #3
Me too. rusty quoin Nov 2015 #8
me three n/t jaysunb Nov 2015 #11
From the article posted ... NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #13
Sounds like mother was in a habit of leaving kids unattended. LisaL Nov 2015 #16
My sister used to leave my nieces unattended all the time. Fantastic Anarchist Nov 2015 #17
Forget the grandmother. There were two of them. One should have stayed home. n/t pnwmom Nov 2015 #26
No, exactly. NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #32
If a couple of three year olds were pulling downwards on a door, from that low height, pnwmom Nov 2015 #43
Me neither. NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #46
It turns out it's not so hard to tip an oven over -- even for a young toddler. pnwmom Nov 2015 #48
Yeah, the door is very heavy. joshcryer Nov 2015 #58
It will probably be a lawsuit if the parents aren't put in jail for neglect. pnwmom Nov 2015 #61
Lawsuit? LisaL Nov 2015 #64
I used to work at Lowes and would sometime deliver and install stoves. Quackers Nov 2015 #77
I do, too. None of the three kids is at fault, but they'll have to live with this forever. nt pnwmom Nov 2015 #85
That is not what they were doing. From a Daily Mail story: tblue37 Nov 2015 #60
i know, right? restorefreedom Nov 2015 #89
Wow. You're right. Chemisse Nov 2015 #70
It says "a" grandmother, which doesn't necessarily mean "their" grandmother jmowreader Nov 2015 #34
Odds are there is more than ... NanceGreggs Nov 2015 #38
Never worked in the media, I see... jmowreader Nov 2015 #51
Even without grandma, does it take two adults to pick up pizza and medicine? cui bono Nov 2015 #42
Horrifying jberryhill Nov 2015 #23
Another piece from a British tabloid. pnwmom Nov 2015 #28
Precious baby. Parents with no sense. 840high Nov 2015 #35
I don't know about this story. LuvNewcastle Nov 2015 #37
The father of the 3 year olds supposedly wants them. And he says pnwmom Nov 2015 #40
They make "anti-tip brackets" for stoves to prevent this from happening. pnwmom Nov 2015 #45
Fact #1 The parent is the responsible party! bob4460 Nov 2015 #54
Well, whatever happened, the adults in this are pieces of shit no matter what. PersonNumber503602 Nov 2015 #59
Who leaves small children alone and go out? Nonhlanhla Nov 2015 #65
And she is pregnant again. LisaL Nov 2015 #67
Shocking stuff Blandocyte Nov 2015 #71
This is so awful I can't even think about it. leftyladyfrommo Nov 2015 #75
This story is more than a week old and doesn't belong in LBN n/t LiberalEsto Nov 2015 #80
You know what the most fantastic thing about this story is? valerief Nov 2015 #81
Effect of a hot car would be pretty much the same as that of a hot oven. LisaL Nov 2015 #83
You're right! But it seems parents leave their kids in cars more than valerief Nov 2015 #84
How awful! prouddemfromaustin44 Nov 2015 #88
y'all can call me a republican if you want restorefreedom Nov 2015 #90
No flames here XemaSab Nov 2015 #93
can't even imagine restorefreedom Nov 2015 #95
So, there were two adults and one couldn't stay home with the kids? passiveporcupine Nov 2015 #91
yes, becsuse it often takes two grown ups restorefreedom Nov 2015 #92
This story begs for more details.  Snobblevitch Nov 2015 #98
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