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deutsey

(20,166 posts)
103. I agree
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 06:23 AM
Dec 2015

I don't own a gun, but I know gun owners who are very responsible and level-headed people. It's hard for me to imagine them doing something so tragically stupid as happened in this incident. Same goes for those reports of someone accidentally shooting a loved one because they thought the gun was empty. As I say, I don't own a gun but I've shot guns and was trained beforehand to always assume a gun is loaded and to treat it accordingly. One moment of carelessness can lead to a lifetime of remorse and regret.

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hmmmm: niyad Dec 2015 #1
I wonder if it's the mother who's LE. (nt) Ino Dec 2015 #7
no matter what is thought about guns roguevalley Dec 2015 #24
It's all about guns. And I can still feel horrible for the daughter losing her life. trillion Dec 2015 #83
Wow... deathrind Dec 2015 #2
we had the same thought, same moment niyad Dec 2015 #10
Someone in the house is in law enforcement? The shooter maybe? Wow. n/t pnwmom Dec 2015 #3
It says "is" in law enforcement, not "was" in law enforcement. JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2015 #21
Thank Jeebus for Mom's gawd-given right to a firearm! Praise bullets! valerief Dec 2015 #4
Amen.... daleanime Dec 2015 #26
yeah, she must be so proud of herself and thilled that guns make her family "safe" trillion Dec 2015 #84
Good shot! JustADumbFireman Dec 2015 #5
Ready, fire, aim...if only the daughter had been armed... Human101948 Dec 2015 #6
Makes me nearly reach for my gun just thinking of someone walking off with a flat screen. n/t Judi Lynn Dec 2015 #57
When you talk like that... Human101948 Dec 2015 #62
Hopefully it won't actually be your kids who just forgot their keys. trillion Dec 2015 #85
This message was self-deleted by its author truebluegreen Dec 2015 #105
What is to say??? Stuart G Dec 2015 #8
Thank goodness she saved the TV! trillion Dec 2015 #90
Mom'll get over it. Plucketeer Dec 2015 #9
Home defense. The number one reason people give for buying a gun. nt TeamPooka Dec 2015 #11
Making our home safe is why we got rid of that one gun a family member wanted. trillion Dec 2015 #86
My husband always kept the first chamber empty for this very reason mountain grammy Dec 2015 #12
That is not why you would keep the first chamber of a revolver empty. ManiacJoe Dec 2015 #47
and I feel safer with all chambers empty. mountain grammy Dec 2015 #51
I believe you. ManiacJoe Dec 2015 #54
you got to feel for the woman in this story. It could have been your house and your kid. trillion Dec 2015 #87
I do feel sorry for her. ManiacJoe Dec 2015 #100
Not "accidentally". The death was negligence if not worse skepticscott Dec 2015 #111
Too bad the daughter wasn't armed to protect herself world wide wally Dec 2015 #13
The only thing to stop a mom with a gun is a daughter LastLiberal in PalmSprings Dec 2015 #35
Guess the nutters are still awaiting their NRA-approved talking points shawn703 Dec 2015 #14
Leads me to believe that a firearm in the house increases the likelihood LanternWaste Dec 2015 #15
Guns always make you less safe Major Nikon Dec 2015 #32
Curious why... AtheistCrusader Dec 2015 #16
What state is this? Fantasy land? Cops shoot 12 year olds in this country MillennialDem Dec 2015 #49
Washington State has two separate statutes for Justifiable and Excusable homicide. AtheistCrusader Dec 2015 #52
I'm sure the mother is having a little-too-late epiphany. byronius Dec 2015 #17
Shoot first, ask questions later. - oh wait... vkkv Dec 2015 #18
She won't be. She stood her ground in a way that would have made Charlton Heston proud. Hoppy Dec 2015 #20
I hope she's charged with murder too, since she just murdered someone. trillion Dec 2015 #89
She hears a sound, then shoots? Fantastic Anarchist Dec 2015 #19
That's what baffles me deutsey Dec 2015 #55
I don't own a gun ... and may or may not choose to do so in the future ... Fantastic Anarchist Dec 2015 #95
I agree deutsey Dec 2015 #103
Yes, and I don't understand why people seem to treat things lightly. Fantastic Anarchist Dec 2015 #109
Shooting someone with a gun you "thought" was empty skepticscott Dec 2015 #110
And even if it was someone inside the house johnnypanic42 Dec 2015 #112
That's what gets me... Phentex Jan 2016 #118
"mistaken for intruder" google search. The list goes on and on. mainer Dec 2015 #22
Funny how the only person summarily charged with murder in any of these cases was a black woman. Chakab Dec 2015 #44
Yes. The prospect of the latter bvf Dec 2015 #46
This can't begin to touch on the literally thousands of peole who accidentally shoot and kill their trillion Dec 2015 #94
None of what you describe is accidental. ManiacJoe Dec 2015 #101
I wonder if they had a little argument around the holidays, and mom just murdered her? jtuck004 Dec 2015 #23
Apparently, she never watched the "Family Ties" episode where the parents almost off Alex Coventina Dec 2015 #25
Another successful use JackInGreen Dec 2015 #27
How horrible. No words for this riversedge Dec 2015 #28
People with that much paranoia womanofthehills Dec 2015 #29
The Police RobinA Dec 2015 #69
Sadly I have to agree with you. My familiy members who are cops aren't but there are way too many trillion Dec 2015 #88
Guns in the home are the biggest danger to families. nt onehandle Dec 2015 #30
It could have been worse..... Liberalagogo Dec 2015 #31
Who were the people on here last week saying gun accidents are so very rare? lark Dec 2015 #33
In a way, they were right, since this was not an accident skepticscott Dec 2015 #39
Yes it was negligence to keep a loaded gun by her bed. lark Dec 2015 #106
Have to disagree skepticscott Dec 2015 #108
That's what they're telling us Demobrat Dec 2015 #40
What are the absolute numbers and per capita rates? hack89 Dec 2015 #59
Actual gun accidents are indeed rare SwankyXomb Dec 2015 #61
"Rampant"? TeddyR Dec 2015 #65
How would you know since the gun(nut) lobby has outlawed collecting statistics? trillion Dec 2015 #91
Potato potatoe lark Dec 2015 #107
Best reason for a weapon mounted light. ileus Dec 2015 #34
The light illuminates two targets JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2015 #37
yes, the mother would have clearly been at a disadvantage here with a light. Cassiopeia Dec 2015 #41
"Shooting the wrong person never" - yep, that's the problem with pro 2A folks. Accident will MillennialDem Dec 2015 #50
Let's not forget your protective vest, etc., to go with your cherished "self-defense" pistol, rifle, Hoyt Dec 2015 #58
beans and bicycle wheels rounds rounds out the list... ileus Dec 2015 #67
You should try it. And I don't have to pack a gun when I bike. Hoyt Dec 2015 #68
I've lost track of how many times I've read stories like this! LongTomH Dec 2015 #36
... SunSeeker Dec 2015 #38
just sayin'... NoMoreRepugs Dec 2015 #42
Our nation is drowning in guns. liberalnarb Dec 2015 #43
+10000 trillion Dec 2015 #99
She was just being the 'Good guys with a gun' LynneSin Dec 2015 #45
Gun Safety Rule #4 ManiacJoe Dec 2015 #48
Yeah, I'll try to keep that one in mind..... Paladin Dec 2015 #53
For various definitions of "sight deprived". ManiacJoe Dec 2015 #56
In Kansas some years ago our RW legislature removed blindness as a disqualifier tblue37 Dec 2015 #63
Was that legal blindness or physical blindness? ManiacJoe Dec 2015 #73
Any blind at all. Here is an article from the UPI shortly tblue37 Dec 2015 #75
That's pretty low on the list. JackRiddler Dec 2015 #71
The four rules: ManiacJoe Dec 2015 #72
Sounds nice, but when adrenalin or paranoia is pumping, it's forgotten, as mom in this tragedy. Hoyt Dec 2015 #78
That is where your training kicks in. ManiacJoe Dec 2015 #80
You'd be better off spending your time meditating or something. Screwing around with gunz is Hoyt Dec 2015 #81
Meditating would certainly be cheaper given ammo prices. ManiacJoe Dec 2015 #102
Or when your lizard brain reacts in panic when you have been suddenly wakened from tblue37 Jan 2016 #116
Exactly, but gunners think they don't make mistakes -- they are so well trained and all. They have Hoyt Jan 2016 #119
I Think It's To Her Benefit To Be Identified SoCalMusicLover Dec 2015 #60
this is some fucked-up reasoning Skittles Dec 2015 #77
I don't think it's f'd up reasoning at all. The woman should have her name out there regardless of trillion Dec 2015 #93
she is a dispatcher, not a cop Skittles Dec 2015 #97
At least she got to live out her lifelong dream of taking out an intruder with her precious gun. Aristus Dec 2015 #64
While I am sorry the daughter is dead, SheilaT Dec 2015 #66
What story would you hear if she intended to shoot her daughter? JackRiddler Dec 2015 #70
Police: Daughter Shot by Mother Was Visiting for Holidays Judi Lynn Dec 2015 #74
This is why a loaded gun by the bedside is a bad idea indeed. tblue37 Dec 2015 #79
If only the daughter had had a gun!!! tabasco Dec 2015 #76
I see a lot more of this type of story Nye Bevan Dec 2015 #82
Me to. trillion Dec 2015 #92
I wish former gun lovers who learned the hard way that guns in the home are tblue37 Dec 2015 #96
A good idea right there Blandocyte Jan 2016 #115
A break down in communication Kaleva Dec 2015 #98
The mother was a dispatcher, hubby an undercover police officer.. I wonder if she was laying in jtuck004 Dec 2015 #104
Why would anyone shoot at anything before identifying it somehow? PersonNumber503602 Dec 2015 #113
Mom's husband is a cop Blandocyte Jan 2016 #114
Another "good guy with a gun" story... workinclasszero Jan 2016 #117
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