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cynzke

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39. A PICTURE IS EMERGING FROM PEOPLE IN HIS LIFE....MATEEN WAS DISPLAYING PROBLEMS EARLY IN LIFE.
Sun Jun 19, 2016, 04:18 AM
Jun 2016

Last edited Sun Jun 19, 2016, 05:08 AM - Edit history (1)

His Imam relayed that as a boy, Mateen was highly unruly and aggressive towards others. A large bully who couldn't control himself, constantly running around harassing other kids, disrupting the mosque during religious meetings. His co-workers describe Mateen as a very angry man, who would burst out in anger any given moment, cursing at people and things, swearing, punching and throwing things around. Co-workers claimed Mateen was always in a state of anger and frustration over the slightest things. Mateen lost one of his jobs due to his behavior and comments. Ultimately he was turned in to the FBI prompting investigation. He constantly beat up his ex-wife. This was an individual that displayed from early childhood that he had emotional problems. His family failed to recognize or help Mateen. His emotional problems festered unabated, ultimately reaching a breaking point. Mateen reached out for what seemed to be a solution in his sick mind....get a gun and shoot people. A solution that is constantly displayed in our culture and entertainment....have a problem with others, a gun is a tool/remedy. Sane, well adjusted people understand that the violence portrayed in media, entertainment, etc. is purely entertainment, but ill people like Mateen pick up a very different message. It looks like Mateen manifested mental problems early on. He was unable to control or cope with them. They affected every aspect of his life. He was never able to achieve success both in employment or personal relationships. These failures and frustrations in life further angered Mateen. Add possibly being gay in a culture that abhors homosexuality. Mateen was alone with no support or means to cope. He reached the end of his emotional rope, lashing out. We have a hard time understanding or accepting mental illness. Our rational minds find it difficult to understand or accept the irrational. We can not begin to understand how deeply another human being can get so lost, out of control. Experts point out that radical terrorist groups (foreign and domestic) reach out/target these lost souls who feel lost and isolated from society. They seek out these loners who find comfort and support when they join up. Then the leaders manipulate these emotionally vulnerable loners, convincing them that the outside world is responsible for the pain, humiliation and self-loathing they feel.

Bit sill gun dealer decided to sell to him. scscholar Jun 2016 #1
The murderer is at fault. nt ZombieHorde Jun 2016 #2
Someone in the ATF decided he was worthy of a firearms licence. christx30 Jun 2016 #5
Maybe because he wasn't a Muslim radical but instead a hate filled homophobic? Hate crime, terrorism uppityperson Jun 2016 #3
It appears to be turning out that way. pnwmom Jun 2016 #4
How did he become homophobic? oberliner Jun 2016 #6
How does anyone become hateful since they aren't born hating? uppityperson Jun 2016 #7
Often they are influenced by important figures in their life oberliner Jun 2016 #12
He was living in a homophobic family in a larger homophobic culture. nt pnwmom Jun 2016 #9
He was living in a homophobic family? oberliner Jun 2016 #13
The descriptions by his ex-wife. nt pnwmom Jun 2016 #16
Also things his father said about himself. uppityperson Jun 2016 #18
Exactly. No evidence of being radicalized because he wasn't. AllyCat Jun 2016 #10
He was a mentally ill man afraid of himself? oberliner Jun 2016 #14
Shooting a hundred people is the act of a mentally ill person AllyCat Jun 2016 #19
So why do people go to jail for murder? oberliner Jun 2016 #25
A PICTURE IS EMERGING FROM PEOPLE IN HIS LIFE....MATEEN WAS DISPLAYING PROBLEMS EARLY IN LIFE. cynzke Jun 2016 #39
Holy wall o' text! brett_jv Jun 2016 #43
Horseshit. They're TRYING every way possible to dismiss it. 7962 Jun 2016 #8
Because some Islamic countries will imprison you or kill you for being gay does not mean every uppityperson Jun 2016 #11
Muslims overwhelmingly say that homosexual behavior is morally wrong oberliner Jun 2016 #15
And so do most of the fundamentalist Christians in Florida. So do fundamentalists pnwmom Jun 2016 #17
Yes, if a person said they killed gays in the name of fundamental Christianity I would believe them oberliner Jun 2016 #21
Did you read the OP? It answers some of your questions. uppityperson Jun 2016 #22
Have you read any other news items on this subject? oberliner Jun 2016 #26
Yes, I have. The FBI investigated him after he claimed he knew the Boston bombing brothers, and uppityperson Jun 2016 #29
Maybe it's worth doing more than a quick search? oberliner Jun 2016 #31
Here's the point ... if he was NOT IN CONTACT with anyone from these groups ... brett_jv Jun 2016 #45
It seems to be clear that he was not coordinating with any international terrorist organizations oberliner Jun 2016 #47
"Most Muslims surveyed say that drinking alcohol is morally wrong." Yet the shooter drank to excess uppityperson Jun 2016 #20
What is your evidence for your assertion that the shooter drank to excess? oberliner Jun 2016 #23
There are many stories of him being drunk in the Pulse when he visited there prior to the shooting uppityperson Jun 2016 #24
Can you provide a link to one? oberliner Jun 2016 #27
Less than 5 seconds to write pulse shooting drunk and this pops up top uppityperson Jun 2016 #28
Interesting oberliner Jun 2016 #30
So did the 9/11 Highjackers forthemiddle Jun 2016 #42
I think you have to twist yourself into knots at this point to prove this attack had anything to do brett_jv Jun 2016 #46
Thank you for putting it so well. uppityperson Jun 2016 #48
Rubbish King_David Jun 2016 #54
He claimed it was for, or he was a member of ISIS, al-Qaeda and Hezbollah which is very off uppityperson Jun 2016 #55
So whatever, they all radical Islamic terrorist groups King_David Jun 2016 #56
Morally wrong except when it's "bacha bazi" ("boy play") which, though illegal, is . . . Petrushka Jun 2016 #36
All points lead to him being emotionally unstable from an early age, unfortunately he never received slipslidingaway Jun 2016 #32
There are millions of emotionally unstable people in this country oberliner Jun 2016 #33
Sadly there are too many reasons to hate and many crimes have a combination of reasons ... slipslidingaway Jun 2016 #37
Agreed oberliner Jun 2016 #41
And 99.9% of Muslims don't either. Thanks to the lax regulation of assault-type weapons, pnwmom Jun 2016 #40
Exactly oberliner Jun 2016 #44
I just want gun control. rusty quoin Jun 2016 #34
This is not about Islam mwrguy Jun 2016 #35
Thank you, do the people who blame Islam not listen to the Christian people ... slipslidingaway Jun 2016 #38
Investigators, whose job it is to locate violent radicals, tabasco Jun 2016 #49
That's it right there. Throd Jun 2016 #50
Yeah, there is conflict of interest in the investigation. goldent Jun 2016 #57
Can it be both terror and hate, as the President said? BlackLivesMatter Jun 2016 #51
Yes, it was both -- as Hillary said in her speech. n/t pnwmom Jun 2016 #52
Bullshit King_David Jun 2016 #53
Just your average, every day mass killer, well armed and with a grievance. Darb Jun 2016 #58
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