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MissB

(16,344 posts)
9. I am thrilled to send both of my kids to college.
Wed Apr 5, 2017, 03:18 PM
Apr 2017

College has been a topic of conversation in our household since the kids were born. Our expectation has been that they will go off to college and get a degree or two.

I'm well aware that not every kid is cut out for college, or community college, or a trade school or an internship. Why force the issue? I think you can encourage the planning part beginning their freshman year without tying it to a silly requirement that simply doesn't fit everyone.

Our kids attended a college prep high school. (Well, one still has two more months but really it's all but over.) Last year in my oldest son's graduation class of 60 kids, there were a few kids that opted for a non traditional route. One kid went to France to explore film making. One kid went to Israel for a gap year. There was a third kid that went into the fashion modeling world. A couple of kids went into military service (mostly service academies but one kid was enlisting.) This district is full of $$$. The kids could go to college if they wanted to but some have made the decision to do something else.

They had a plan. That's the important part. But they'd earned their high school diplomas just as much as my kid did.

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Am I being too cynical? Odoreida Apr 2017 #1
I love it. underthematrix Apr 2017 #2
This is pretty damn stupid snooper2 Apr 2017 #3
Don't you need the HS diploma JustAnotherGen Apr 2017 #4
you can sign up before you are ready to go, so mopinko Apr 2017 #5
Yep. One kid that I didn't include in my post below MissB Apr 2017 #12
That or a GED will work which if they can take the test for easily enough if they want to really cstanleytech Apr 2017 #7
This is terrible. RedWedge Apr 2017 #6
Dumb, dumb, dumb. n/t pnwmom Apr 2017 #8
I am thrilled to send both of my kids to college. MissB Apr 2017 #9
This is a plain GWC58 Apr 2017 #10
I think its a silly idea to deny them the HS diploma for the lack of a plan. cstanleytech Apr 2017 #11
I've seen kids wait until the last second to declare a major because they had no fucking clue Solly Mack Apr 2017 #13
Sounds vaguely like blackmail. Demit Apr 2017 #14
The socio-economic elitism has always oozed off this man... DRoseDARs Apr 2017 #15
That's ridiculous. Vinca Apr 2017 #16
I am a special education teacher in PA wcast Apr 2017 #17
I agree with much of what you say. cab67 Apr 2017 #25
I agrwe with your last paragraph. wcast Apr 2017 #34
My daughter is a Special Education teacher radical noodle Apr 2017 #30
I agree. I think it's worth a try to try to get them thinking about it early on. Honeycombe8 Apr 2017 #40
This is discriminatory and insane HoneyBadger Apr 2017 #18
And he's a democrat.. Sad... LakeArenal Apr 2017 #19
What if they just want to work after high school? muntrv Apr 2017 #20
Your comment is spot-on. 7962 Apr 2017 #21
speaking as a college professor - cab67 Apr 2017 #22
It sounds more like a challenge to parents FakeNoose Apr 2017 #23
This is absolutely ridiculous. LisaM Apr 2017 #24
Truly dumb idea. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2017 #26
laughable. GeorgeGist Apr 2017 #27
You know, it also seems to me that this will foster a higher dropout rate. LisaM Apr 2017 #28
My thought exactly. Also would foster lying and cheating. ColemanMaskell Apr 2017 #35
So a commenter on Daily Kos figured out what this really is. LisaM Apr 2017 #41
I like it Demonaut Apr 2017 #29
Ridiculous exboyfil Apr 2017 #31
I think it's a good idea. It may not work in the end.... Honeycombe8 Apr 2017 #32
Seriously? ColemanMaskell Apr 2017 #36
Yeah, I think it's worth a try. Honeycombe8 Apr 2017 #39
it's start, if it helps the students Demonaut Apr 2017 #43
I taught school for more than a few years...haven't taught in Ohio...it won't work. Demsrule86 Apr 2017 #47
I had zero idea what I wanted to do when I was 14 and in 9th grade, and why should I have known? Turn CO Blue Apr 2017 #33
LOL. What a fool. But, hey! "You earn what you learn" kind of rhymes, so it must be right!!11!1! PSPS Apr 2017 #37
Preparing kids for real life is so fucking dumb! MyNameGoesHere Apr 2017 #38
I wonder who empties the wastebasket in Rahm's office each night. Jim Lane Apr 2017 #42
What if your plan is to learn to run the family business? milestogo Apr 2017 #44
"earn what you learn?" WTF is that supposed to mean? malthaussen Apr 2017 #45
Don't put obstacles in the way of graduation...it is a bad idea. Demsrule86 Apr 2017 #46
Rahm has zero credibility on education issues because of his support for privatization yurbud Apr 2017 #48
he is a cancer on the Democratic Party yurbud Apr 2017 #49
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