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45. Meh. My suspicion is that she was denied by some kid, enforcing the rules as he was told.

Mon Jul 2, 2018, 07:11 AM

Jul 2018

A young worker would not only be reluctant to make an exception, but he would be somewhat clueless about elderly people and the physical challenges they face.

I don't find this shocking at all. I would be disgusted if it was the owner who did this, but I would hardly find it newsworthy. I would be outraged if the bathroom was generally accessible but denied to this one woman because of her race, but that doesn't seem to be the case.

So yeah, it had to have been unpleasant for her, but I don't see this as a big issue.

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89-year-old denied use of gas station bathroom has to pee in grass instead [View all] Judi Lynn Jul 2018 OP

The correct answer was 'yes ma'am', End of discussion. irisblue Jul 2018 #1

This Pacifist Patriot Jul 2018 #2

Depends on the situation to be honest. cstanleytech Jul 2018 #5

Any smart employee would calculate that the boss wouldn't want the negative publicity pnwmom Jul 2018 #9

I agree. Jedi Guy Jul 2018 #59

followed by the clerks boss saying AZ8theist Jul 2018 #57

I dunno how to break this to you, but... Jedi Guy Jul 2018 #60

you are correct, sir. AZ8theist Jul 2018 #62

Well yeah. Jedi Guy Jul 2018 #63

How could you be so cruel to anyone specially someone 89 years old ... CatMor Jul 2018 #3

First time I have ever heard of a gas station with an employee only cstanleytech Jul 2018 #4

I've worked in such stores crazycatlady Jul 2018 #6

The 89 year old was extremely unlikely to be the fire inspector. nt pnwmom Jul 2018 #10

I was a minimum wage employee then crazycatlady Jul 2018 #11

When it goes against common sense, hygiene, and results in bad publicity pnwmom Jul 2018 #12

We once let an older woman use the employee bathroom crazycatlady Jul 2018 #13

Gas stations are supposed to let people use a restroom -- by strong custom, if not by law. pnwmom Jul 2018 #14

This was not a gas station where I worked crazycatlady Jul 2018 #15

It's not illegal, but what he did was not very neighborly. forgotmylogin Jul 2018 #7

Yeah. forgotmylogin Jul 2018 #8

I find that's common in downtown areas... xor Jul 2018 #54

A gas station w/o a public restroom? Is she Af. American? Honeycombe8 Jul 2018 #16

As a courier I've run into quite a few who either griloco Jul 2018 #23

Bummer. I've never run across that. Honeycombe8 Jul 2018 #28

This was a 7-11 gas station. Under new management now griloco Jul 2018 #29

Oh...it was NOT a gas station. It was a convenience store. No, their bathrooms aren't public. Honeycombe8 Jul 2018 #32

My bad. It is a gas station. Looks like Sunoco got it now griloco Jul 2018 #36

Ohhh. Well, I'm back to being shocked, I guess!!! Lol. nt Honeycombe8 Jul 2018 #37

The funny thing is... griloco Jul 2018 #40

Heh. Good one (or two rather). n/t PoliticAverse Jul 2018 #42

"has been denied use of public facilities" - but this apparently wasn't a "public" bathroom. PoliticAverse Jul 2018 #17

yes to your question. heaven05 Jul 2018 #19

Ok, if you think every retail store must provide a public bathroom make it a law. n/t PoliticAverse Jul 2018 #21

WTF, an 89 year old person heaven05 Jul 2018 #31

At what age do you think it ok to deny someone the use of a restroom? n/t PoliticAverse Jul 2018 #33

anything you say. heaven05 Jul 2018 #35

I'm not surprised you are unable to see more than two viable options LanternWaste Jul 2018 #55

If the bathroom is not public then how is an 89 yo different than a 29 yo or 9 yo? crazycatlady Jul 2018 #64

Well, yes. But were I you I'd never kowtow to people's civility griloco Jul 2018 #25

Personally, I think more retail stores should have public bathrooms... PoliticAverse Jul 2018 #27

is she AA heaven05 Jul 2018 #18

It might not be racial... griloco Jul 2018 #26

might not heaven05 Jul 2018 #34

I got refused at a 7-11 gas station in Reston VA griloco Jul 2018 #38

no excuses necessary heaven05 Jul 2018 #39

You may be right and history would suggest you are, but... griloco Jul 2018 #41

no mention? heaven05 Jul 2018 #46

Same here packman Jul 2018 #52

Yes. pnwmom Jul 2018 #43

If you go back to the original link, it was a Circle K gas station Mountain Mule Jul 2018 #20

A photo of Ms Redic, posted without comment (you do the math): NYC Liberal Jul 2018 #22

OMG!!! tavernier Jul 2018 #24

I don't give a fuck what your policy is. Eighty-nine year old lady gets to use the restroom. (n/t) Iggo Jul 2018 #30

whatever their policy might be exceptions can always be made, usually for kids and elderly people JI7 Jul 2018 #44

Meh. My suspicion is that she was denied by some kid, enforcing the rules as he was told. Chemisse Jul 2018 #45

There is a photo of the woman denied. She's an AA. brush Jul 2018 #47

I've been told the rest room was for employees only lots of times, and I am white, female and oldish Chemisse Jul 2018 #48

You have no idea what micro-aggressions AAs go thru daily. brush Jul 2018 #49

Indeed. I can only imagine. n/t Chemisse Jul 2018 #51

Honestly, even if was employee only most places make exceptions for children and seniors Justice Jul 2018 #50

I was denied use of a restroom once when I was 9 months pregnant Liberty Belle Jul 2018 #53

I had a similar experience. silverweb Jul 2018 #61

That's the way convience stores around here used to be....... Bengus81 Jul 2018 #56

Dear Ms. Reddic Marthe48 Jul 2018 #58