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Jake Stern

(3,146 posts)
19. Cousin is a nurse
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 03:49 PM
Aug 2018

Highly qualified - graduated 3rd in his class.

Is occasionally removed from care teams because the patient wants a female nurse. Most of the time the requesting patient is a female or people from more "traditional" cultures. The request is always granted.

Should he have sued based on gender discrimination?

Once a Muslim family demanded he stop working with their child after the father noticed his wedding ring which is engraved with Stars of David. The hospital granted the request.

Should he have sued for religious discrimination?

Patient care comes first, even when the patient is a bigot.

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Nurses don't "service" patients. They serve patients. Patients are not machines needing servicing. Bernardo de La Paz Aug 2018 #1
The word is accurate within the parameters of both formal and informal language. LanternWaste Aug 2018 #3
I'm a nurse and have never serviced a patient in over 40 yrs beyond my spouse uppityperson Aug 2018 #30
Right near me DownriverDem Aug 2018 #2
++++ agree on the emboldening of racists. Need to be a sign on hospital doors that they iluvtennis Aug 2018 #20
My guess is she wins. Big time. nt LanternWaste Aug 2018 #4
As someone who has been married to nurse with 37 years in before she retired Rural_Progressive Aug 2018 #14
Rural, this nurse says you are correct! Cousin Dupree Aug 2018 #24
A retired nurse agrees Runningdawg Aug 2018 #29
it sucks but I agree with yor assessment and sentiment Demonaut Aug 2018 #37
Just Until nykym Aug 2018 #5
Ugly incident. But the article isn't clear on what the nurse's damages are. Captain Stern Aug 2018 #6
I guess blatant racism is cool with you. denbot Aug 2018 #8
No RobinA Aug 2018 #10
Yeah. That's exactly what I said. Captain Stern Aug 2018 #12
So unless there are monetary damages, there can be no redress? denbot Aug 2018 #15
You tell me. How much money have Black People been awarded because of those wrongs? Captain Stern Aug 2018 #17
They did not say nor imply that rather they simply pointed out the hurdles cstanleytech Aug 2018 #16
Cousin is a nurse Jake Stern Aug 2018 #19
My mom was first an emergency, then later a scrub nurse. denbot Aug 2018 #27
lovely, attacking someone on this forum without asking for an explanation of his/her opinion Demonaut Aug 2018 #38
From the article.. Permanut Aug 2018 #11
I get the Punitive part. Captain Stern Aug 2018 #13
I guess this patient sdfernando Aug 2018 #7
not using "black" blood would be ironic flyingfysh Aug 2018 #9
Consequences of Agreeing to Medically Racist Request Thumbs Aug 2018 #18
It's Probably Not Common RobinA Aug 2018 #39
#Civility Initech Aug 2018 #21
The patient is clearly a racist asshole. Jedi Guy Aug 2018 #22
This is becoming a real issue in the OB/GYN speciality Sgent Aug 2018 #46
She won't win....patient requests are pretty much bullet proof. AncientGeezer Aug 2018 #23
I think these type of things are honored on occasion if there is dementia alphafemale Aug 2018 #25
If the administrators were smart, Glamrock Aug 2018 #26
Author, Jody Picoult... llmart Aug 2018 #28
Certainly wouldn't want you treating anyone in my family. Jake Stern Aug 2018 #31
After third time offer that the nurse they rejected over skin color is really good. alphafemale Aug 2018 #32
If you think being spiteful or vengeful is a positive quality in a medical professional Jake Stern Aug 2018 #33
How is it spiteful to ask do you want this incompetent white person.... alphafemale Aug 2018 #34
The post I replied to never posed the scenario as a choice - they would do it for spite Jake Stern Aug 2018 #35
I'm not a nurse, let alone a head nurse, but... moriah Aug 2018 #40
You phrased it much more diplomatically than me. alphafemale Aug 2018 #43
You may not have been diplomatic, but I can tell you're actually a nurse. ;) moriah Aug 2018 #44
Not a nurse myself but some in the family and I've heard the stories. nt alphafemale Aug 2018 #45
And that would end the Hospital....we don't have that many to spare. AncientGeezer Aug 2018 #36
I can only wade into this long enough to say... truthisfreedom Aug 2018 #41
If a non-demented patient is up to bitching about the skin color of staff... moriah Aug 2018 #42
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