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In reply to the discussion: Court: Tennessee can enforce Down syndrome abortion ban [View all]Algernon Moncrieff
(5,961 posts)12. An interesting read on the topic, generally
The Atlantic: The Last Children of Down Syndrome
We sat down at a café, and Grete gave her phone to Karl Emil to busy himself with while we spoke in English. He took selfies; his mother, sister, and I began to talk about Down syndrome and the countrys prenatal-screening program. At one point, Grete was reminded of a documentary that had sparked an outcry in Denmark. She reclaimed her phone to look up the title: Død Over Downs (Death to Down Syndrome). When Karl Emil read over her shoulder, his face crumpled. He curled into the corner and refused to look at us. He had understood, obviously, and the distress was plain on his face.
Grete looked up at me: He reacts because he can read.
He must be aware of the debate? I asked, which felt perverse to even say. So hes aware there are people who dont want people like him to be born? Yes, she said; her family has always been open with him. As a kid, he was proud of having Down syndrome. It was one of the things that made him uniquely Karl Emil. But as a teenager, he became annoyed and embarrassed. He could tell he was different. He actually asked me, at some point, if it was because of Down syndrome that he sometimes didnt understand things, Grete said. I just told him honestly: Yes. As hes gotten older, she said, hes made his peace with it. This arc felt familiar. Its the arc of growing up, in which our self-assuredness as young children gets upended in the storms of adolescence, but eventually, hopefully, we come to accept who we are.
The decisions parents make after prenatal testing are private and individual ones. But when the decisions so overwhelmingly swing one wayto abortit does seem to reflect something more: an entire societys judgment about the lives of people with Down syndrome. Thats what I saw reflected in Karl Emils face.
Grete looked up at me: He reacts because he can read.
He must be aware of the debate? I asked, which felt perverse to even say. So hes aware there are people who dont want people like him to be born? Yes, she said; her family has always been open with him. As a kid, he was proud of having Down syndrome. It was one of the things that made him uniquely Karl Emil. But as a teenager, he became annoyed and embarrassed. He could tell he was different. He actually asked me, at some point, if it was because of Down syndrome that he sometimes didnt understand things, Grete said. I just told him honestly: Yes. As hes gotten older, she said, hes made his peace with it. This arc felt familiar. Its the arc of growing up, in which our self-assuredness as young children gets upended in the storms of adolescence, but eventually, hopefully, we come to accept who we are.
The decisions parents make after prenatal testing are private and individual ones. But when the decisions so overwhelmingly swing one wayto abortit does seem to reflect something more: an entire societys judgment about the lives of people with Down syndrome. Thats what I saw reflected in Karl Emils face.
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Exactly. And then they don't want to provide funds for specialized health care and education. nt
iluvtennis
Nov 2020
#22
My guess is that they really only care about anything but the endgame, whittle away at Roe until
CTyankee
Nov 2020
#20
Me, too. It's only in the last month and in my case I suspect I've worn my mouse mouse out ...
marble falls
Nov 2020
#18
Did a little research on the Tenneessee HHS website, and this is what I came away with:
pazzyanne
Nov 2020
#15
And those families will need direct support (financial and otherwise) because in the
deurbano
Nov 2020
#21
Entirely agree, and the court is crazy to say Down's fetuses can't be aborted when your
Nay
Nov 2020
#36
These are the same people who vehemently refuse to wear masks because the gov't
Fla Dem
Nov 2020
#14