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11. There's no 5 second rule for leering. And the staffer is in her 30's, not a college student. nt

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Current Cuomo aide accuses him of sexual harassment, looking down her shirt, report says [View all] pnwmom Mar 2021 OP

"looking down her shirt?" OAITW r.2.0 Mar 2021 #1

Yeah, right. nt pnwmom Mar 2021 #2

When a powerful boss does it, it's a different ball game frazzled Mar 2021 #3

+1000. n/t pnwmom Mar 2021 #8

I agree totally. canuckledragger Mar 2021 #16

If the cleavage is there, I look. canuckledragger Mar 2021 #4

LOL, you had my nod up to the "walking home in the dark"..... OAITW r.2.0 Mar 2021 #5

Good lord, where do you work? A plunging neckline in an office? CTyankee Mar 2021 #6

That's a little different canuckledragger Mar 2021 #9

There's no 5 second rule for leering. And the staffer is in her 30's, not a college student. nt pnwmom Mar 2021 #11

I'm not defending anyone, just bringing up my own experiences canuckledragger Mar 2021 #14

You just said "every guy knows the 5 second rule." But there is no such rule for leering. nt pnwmom Mar 2021 #15

Sigh... canuckledragger Mar 2021 #17

Simple. Leering is looking too long. And even 5 secs is TOO LONG! oldsoftie Mar 2021 #22

I go to the nude beach Polybius Mar 2021 #36

Where does it say she was wearing a plunging neckline? Nowhere in the article. 50 Shades Of Blue Mar 2021 #7

I'm the one that brought up the neckline thing as an analogy canuckledragger Mar 2021 #13

An analogy to what? 50 Shades Of Blue Mar 2021 #18

Maybe example would have been a better word? canuckledragger Mar 2021 #19

An example of what? 50 Shades Of Blue Mar 2021 #20

LOL, you should have given up while you were still behind. OAITW r.2.0 Mar 2021 #24

That's the point I was trying to make, however mangled it came out. canuckledragger Mar 2021 #29

What I learned even in Junior High School is that some girls and women wear things to draw attention LT Barclay Mar 2021 #45

Nope. MrsCoffee Mar 2021 #55

Maybe not you. But it is there. We can't pretend that in the world where we are trying to LT Barclay Mar 2021 #67

It doesn't require a plunging neckline. It happens when a woman wearing a normal blouse pnwmom Mar 2021 #10

NEW ACCUSATIONS Who is Andrew Cuomo's aide Alyssa McGrath? Judi Lynn Mar 2021 #31

Ooops! Caught me! Midnight Writer Mar 2021 #49

Immediately thought of Seinfeld: betsuni Mar 2021 #21

Yep, there it is. George gets busted. He wasnt taking a glance! oldsoftie Mar 2021 #23

"You're only supposed to take a peek on a poke". Exactly. OAITW r.2.0 Mar 2021 #25

One of Denise Richards first major appearances. oldsoftie Mar 2021 #59

I can't imagine why I don't see anyone else so far who gets the problem here FBaggins Mar 2021 #40

Get your point. OAITW r.2.0 Mar 2021 #42

Lenny Bruce did a bit about this. Midnight Writer Mar 2021 #48

and they get fired for it iemanja Mar 2021 #50

It's it's it's a natural reaction. Kid Berwyn Mar 2021 #63

The coordination between Cuomo and his top staff is an interesting aspect madville Mar 2021 #12

Due process, no resignation orangecrush Mar 2021 #26

This!! PortTack Mar 2021 #34

Of course iemanja Mar 2021 #51

This message was self-deleted by its author ahoysrcsm Mar 2021 #27

Why did it take so long for this accusation? Nixie Mar 2021 #28

Sometimes, it takes someone else to come forward first Polybius Mar 2021 #35

The statute of limitations is generally 170 days, but NY has a 300 day limit, IIRC. Several of spooky3 Mar 2021 #39

Thank you for a great post! Actually, I was thinking along Nixie Mar 2021 #41

Thanks. It could be, and I'll be interested to see what Letitia James concludes. spooky3 Mar 2021 #44

Thanks for the assessment that a lot of things could be at Nixie Mar 2021 #54

There WERE several complaints prior to the media stories. spooky3 Mar 2021 #58

There were reports that the woman had requested a transfer Nixie Mar 2021 #62

Remember Kavenaugh ? How many years? oldsoftie Mar 2021 #60

Although the Kavanaugh revelations were about stopping his Supreme Court appointment MisterNiceKitty Mar 2021 #64

Sorry, but this one is just plain lame. We all know the governor is a jerk ashredux Mar 2021 #30

The NYT wrote a story saying they'd talked to dozens of women staffers who echoed pnwmom Mar 2021 #37

It's called a pattern of conduct iemanja Mar 2021 #53

With all due respect, your reference to EEOC guidelines is totally misguided. Beastly Boy Mar 2021 #32

Here. Cuomo and his team have already been making calls that staffers thought were intimidating. pnwmom Mar 2021 #38

Thank you. I did not know this. nt spooky3 Mar 2021 #47

What you cite as a guideline is not a guideline. Beastly Boy Mar 2021 #61

Cuomo is going to be held to a high standard ripcord Mar 2021 #33

that is not a high standard iemanja Mar 2021 #52

This is getting Snackshack Mar 2021 #43

+1, "telling the lady she was beautiful"...he said that in Nixie Mar 2021 #56

First: investigate. Second: You are not helping true victims Joinfortmill Mar 2021 #46

There are instances when more is less. This is one of them. Piling on is not Vinca Mar 2021 #57

I will take the jobs torius Mar 2021 #65

Yes, this is common. It's still illegal, and Cuomo himself signed a NY state law pnwmom Mar 2021 #66