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ShazzieB

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32. The people I'm talking about are different from Melania.
Sun Jul 30, 2023, 05:34 PM
Jul 2023

She is what she is, and never pretended to be anything else. The people I'm taking about are fakes and impostors, pretending to be someone entirely different from who they are.

The con typically works something like this: You post a dating profile and up pops a promising match — good-looking, smart, funny and personable. Supposed suitors might also reach out on social media; more than a third of people who lost money to a romance scam in 2021 reported that it started on Facebook or Instagram, according to the FTC. They’ll use pictures of an attractive person, of course; check out Social Catfish’s list of the top 100 photos used for catfishing (using a fake identity to lure someone into a romantic relationship) in 2022.

This potential mate claims to live in another part of the country or to be abroad for business or a military deployment. But he or she seems smitten and eager to get to know you better, and suggests you move your relationship to a private channel like email or a chat app.

Over weeks or months, you feel yourself growing closer. You make plans to meet in person, but for your new love something always comes up. Then you get an urgent request. There’s an emergency (a medical problem, perhaps, or a business crisis) and your online companion needs you to send money fast, usually via gift cards, prepaid debit cards, cryptocurrency, or a bank or wire transfer.

They'll promise to pay it back, but that will never happen. Instead, they will keep asking for more until you realize it's a scam and cut them off.

https://www.aarp.org/money/scams-fraud/info-2019/romance.html


This is a whole different thing from someone like Melania using their own looks and personal attributes to land a rich guy.

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Some will be pumping her for info on how she did it... brush Jul 2023 #1
Post removed Post removed Jul 2023 #2
It never ceases to amaze me sarisataka Jul 2023 #12
Nothing funny about sexual assault in prison. PatrickforB Jul 2023 #15
Why is there no alert category for "prison rape joke" at this point is beyond me. eggplant Jul 2023 #16
Older folks get catfished all the time Snooper9 Jul 2023 #18
To me, this is where the law gets it wrong. This woman has changed the life of the victim, for the Escurumbele Jul 2023 #3
Yes, in prison for the "rest of her life."...That is it, and that is all!!! K and R your post.. Stuart G Jul 2023 #4
Never trust anyone named Peaches. nt leftyladyfrommo Jul 2023 #5
That is probably not her real name anyway DFW Jul 2023 #6
+1 orangecrush Jul 2023 #17
Inadequate sentence for this grave a crime tonekat Jul 2023 #7
I hope she gets time added for bad behavior. N/t DFW Jul 2023 #8
Maybe, just maybe, DENVERPOPS Jul 2023 #27
Movie - Papillon keithbvadu2 Jul 2023 #30
Awesome movie DENVERPOPS Jul 2023 #33
rotten "peaches" orleans Jul 2023 #9
I hope that the victim managed to recover some of his loss. question everything Jul 2023 #10
Unlikely. Women like Peaches are usually just fronting the whole thing Warpy Jul 2023 #14
A lot of those catfish ARE men. ShazzieB Jul 2023 #20
Not a lot unlike Melania DENVERPOPS Jul 2023 #28
The people I'm talking about are different from Melania. ShazzieB Jul 2023 #32
Thanks for the education Shazzie NC DENVERPOPS Jul 2023 #34
Nigeria and Ghana - Huge international, internet trade in romance and money scams. keithbvadu2 Jul 2023 #31
Payback for that Nigerian prince who turned out to be a fat old white guy Warpy Jul 2023 #35
I don't waaaaahna work! It's too haaaaaaard. Demobrat Jul 2023 #11
Shameful sarisataka Jul 2023 #13
Just Four Years DENVERPOPS Jul 2023 #19
I actually felt that it shows us just how small an amount... OldBaldy1701E Jul 2023 #21
4 Years isn't enough for ruining the rest of someone's life SouthernDem4ever Jul 2023 #25
Peaches Stergo, aka "Fraud Barbie." Jean Genie Jul 2023 #22
Its called elder abuse hydrolastic Jul 2023 #23
What was the name of the website? Was it Plenty of fish? Oppaloopa Jul 2023 #24
She must have been trained by the scammers in India SouthernDem4ever Jul 2023 #26
of all the shitty things that happen in the course of a day... bahboo Jul 2023 #29
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