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Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
66. Understood, and nicotine is one of the most powerful, more so even than heroin
Wed Jan 24, 2024, 08:12 PM
Jan 2024

But it can be done. Whether it takes more or less than a dozen times.

You did it.

Both my parents started in their teens, smoked for over 25 years, quit separately, and had 40+ smoke free years of life each. They were anomalies only in that they quit cold turkey and made it stick. Never went back to it. Statistically, the greatest indicator for success quitting is having tried to quit at least once before, but they beat the odds.

I'm not trying to be simplistic about it. Rather, I am trying to empower people. And I took care not to browbeat anyone over "willpower". But ultimately a person decides to quit and makes it stick, when they arrive at the point of wanting to make it stick. Nobody can do it for them.

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California voters banned it in California Nictuku Jan 2024 #1
It is within your power to quit at any time and stay quit Bernardo de La Paz Jan 2024 #3
There is a big difference between Nictuku Jan 2024 #12
They have not decided for you. You are addicted to nicotine, not menthol. Bernardo de La Paz Jan 2024 #14
You would lose that bet Nictuku Jan 2024 #19
If you can quit nicotine then, you can quit now. You are capable. Bernardo de La Paz Jan 2024 #21
That is right Nictuku Jan 2024 #31
I'm speaking here as a medical provider who has seen many beloved patients suffer from smoking-related diseases. Aristus Jan 2024 #41
:grouphug: !!! elleng Jan 2024 #52
Good for you Nictuku Jan 2024 #53
Physician Assistant, actually. Aristus Jan 2024 #55
Thank you... Think. Again. Jan 2024 #76
What is the process of upgrading from PA to MD? jmowreader Jan 2024 #94
I'm not interested in being a doctor. Aristus Jan 2024 #107
I know that you're settled in and proud of your profession jmowreader Jan 2024 #109
A PA in that situation would most likely get a remote practice certification and be assigned a supervising MD. Aristus Jan 2024 #112
Aristus...I want to thank you for trying and continuing to care about the future of people who sadly The_REAL_Ecumenist Jan 2024 #114
Thank you for your kind words. Aristus Jan 2024 #115
my libertarian streak agrees with you lapfog_1 Jan 2024 #102
Good Grief Nictuku Jan 2024 #111
I know that I gave up smoking only when I wanted something more than cigarettes... CTyankee Jan 2024 #105
I have an aunt who always nagged her husband about smoking. Mr.Bill Jan 2024 #60
There is a condition made better by nicotine Roy Rolling Jan 2024 #96
That falls under the 'MAY have some benefits' category. Aristus Jan 2024 #108
I'm gonna stick it to 'the man'... Mawspam2 Jan 2024 #62
Which man is that? Nictuku Jan 2024 #63
I am a realist nightwing1240 Jan 2024 #100
As an ex-smoker I gotta say...nope. progressoid Jan 2024 #47
If I were to have a child - I would have quit Nictuku Jan 2024 #57
That is what my daughter said. Sorry to say it did not come to pass. Hekate Jan 2024 #92
Understood, and nicotine is one of the most powerful, more so even than heroin Bernardo de La Paz Jan 2024 #66
You use that message on overweight people also? The Contrarian Jan 2024 #64
That's why I took care to empower rather than scold Bernardo de La Paz Jan 2024 #67
Single issue would mean a 45-voter instead? BumRushDaShow Jan 2024 #5
Not for me Nictuku Jan 2024 #13
I say this BumRushDaShow Jan 2024 #22
I empathize will you, but the intent is to prevent big tobacco from targeting/exploiting more hlthe2b Jan 2024 #8
Well then Nictuku Jan 2024 #16
No care or concern for others that can be addicted--regardless of age? Really? hlthe2b Jan 2024 #25
Good Grief Nictuku Jan 2024 #33
We don't-- except for your advocating for policies which harm others. hlthe2b Jan 2024 #35
Advocacy? Where? Nictuku Jan 2024 #37
The things people do in their personal lives are what bring them in to see me. Aristus Jan 2024 #44
I will never ever ever bring up this topic again Nictuku Jan 2024 #56
You are an adult Keepthesoulalive Jan 2024 #78
you'd think azureblue Jan 2024 #72
Smoke 'em if you got 'em, amigo! JoseBalow Jan 2024 #61
I miss my brother, who started smoking at 12 and died of COPD at 72. He could quit any time... Hekate Jan 2024 #75
No, it's not just "the children". The cigarettes are killing you too. And other consumers like you. muriel_volestrangler Jan 2024 #10
Oh, this is news to me. I had no idea Nictuku Jan 2024 #18
And the other addicts your age? muriel_volestrangler Jan 2024 #29
Now you want to cancel my medicare entitlement? Nictuku Jan 2024 #36
Leave you alone - well, that means cancelling your Medicare entitlement muriel_volestrangler Jan 2024 #38
I paid for it for over 40 years Nictuku Jan 2024 #42
And yet you want to prevent an urgently-needed public healthcare move, because you like the taste of menthol muriel_volestrangler Jan 2024 #45
Want to prevent? Nictuku Jan 2024 #49
From "this is the kind of thing that gets me thinking that too much regulation in our lives is bad" muriel_volestrangler Jan 2024 #58
If you don't like ppl and want to be left alone...why not just stop posting on the subject! PortTack Jan 2024 #46
That is the best suggestion yet. Nictuku Jan 2024 #50
Wow Chi67 Jan 2024 #65
Hello Nictuku. qwlauren35 Jan 2024 #68
qwlauren35 - Thank you - Thank you - THANK YOU Nictuku Jan 2024 #79
Thanks for sharing. qwlauren35 Jan 2024 #91
Here is a why you might want to think about. Your fellow citizens flashman13 Jan 2024 #73
You just ERASED the last 45 years of my life Nictuku Jan 2024 #80
You might have a closer solution . . . SarcasticSatyr Jan 2024 #87
Bingo!! Nictuku Jan 2024 #88
Yes, in CA . . . Actually, many of those location also have gas stations/convivence stores that sell cigarettes. SarcasticSatyr Jan 2024 #90
Good On California! Cha Jan 2024 #110
Test Ad dweller Jan 2024 #2
OMG BumRushDaShow Jan 2024 #9
OMFG! That is hideous! EYESORE 9001 Jan 2024 #20
I'm still digging around for the bleach BumRushDaShow Jan 2024 #23
MY EYES!!! niyad Jan 2024 #69
Bwahahaha! Blue Owl Jan 2024 #86
Geebus, I thought that was the Onion. I cannot imagine most black people in SC (and elsewhere) do not hlthe2b Jan 2024 #4
Thank you. I was wondering what in the f'n hell menthol cigarettes have to do niyad Jan 2024 #71
Will they have Tim Scott smoking them? LiberalFighter Jan 2024 #6
He would have Traildogbob Jan 2024 #28
And this is the fullest extent of GOP Minority Outreach: Torchlight Jan 2024 #7
The absolute contempt these people have for African Americans is truly bottomless Prairie Gates Jan 2024 #11
because cigarettes are SO MUCH more important than fascism Novara Jan 2024 #15
WTF? Chi67 Jan 2024 #17
They think we all act like "Diamond and Silk" BumRushDaShow Jan 2024 #24
... hlthe2b Jan 2024 #27
But it definitely mercuryblues Jan 2024 #30
"Biden planning to BAN Fried Chicken Restaurants" durablend Jan 2024 #104
Two words Traildogbob Jan 2024 #26
Herrman "999" Caine BumRushDaShow Jan 2024 #32
Don't forget MorbidButterflyTat Jan 2024 #34
Softly and tenderly, Herman is calling.... Blue Owl Jan 2024 #84
Actually, this may be somewhat effective. We shouldn't be so dismissive of this tactic. progressoid Jan 2024 #39
At this point in history BumRushDaShow Jan 2024 #54
Why not fried chicken and watermelon? Oy mio. Kennah Jan 2024 #40
Malt liquor? Thunderbird? TexasBushwhacker Jan 2024 #59
Menthol cigarettes. They aren't trying to flip some voters, they're looking to prove an old stereotype. marble falls Jan 2024 #43
Nailed it! PortTack Jan 2024 #48
GOP for big tobacco over minority health? That's the GOP message? Freethinker65 Jan 2024 #51
LOL - the GOP will make idiots of themselves again azureblue Jan 2024 #70
Yeah sure vote repuke and lose your health care and voting rights so you can keep smoking your menthol cigarettes kimbutgar Jan 2024 #74
Hopefully this will offend... Think. Again. Jan 2024 #77
Right wing jackals will do anything to get votes, including prostituting their own grandmothers. Martin68 Jan 2024 #81
The GQP has always been solidly moniss Jan 2024 #82
Any black person voting for Trump is voting to reinstate Jim Crow amd other horrors BlueNIndiana Jan 2024 #83
Vote tRump and feel alive with pleasure! Blue Owl Jan 2024 #85
I find it difficult to believe that this Bettie Jan 2024 #89
No grape soda, Colt 45, two zigzags, crunk, twekring, and kool aid commercials? Come on, Republiklans AZLD4Candidate Jan 2024 #93
I thought this was going to be from The Onion. Sigh. Merlot Jan 2024 #95
Un-fucking believable Roy Rolling Jan 2024 #97
Fried Chicken and watermelon.................................. Lovie777 Jan 2024 #101
Law and order GOP Old Crank Jan 2024 #98
Rollin down the street smoking menthol, sippin on gin and juice IronLionZion Jan 2024 #99
So, their fucking message is..... Aviation Pro Jan 2024 #103
Er thats their plan? Zincwarrior Jan 2024 #106
Menthol cigarettes... GenThePerservering Jan 2024 #113
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