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In reply to the discussion: Father will be reunited with baby adopted without his knowledge, judge rules [View all]me b zola
(19,053 posts)60. Most adopted children were not unwanted by their bio family
I was adopted during the Baby Scoop Era (read error) when women didn't have a choice and were literally forced to give their children away. Poverty and horrible social standards that treated women as second class citizens.
What was the Baby Scoop Era?
The Baby Scoop Era was a period in United States history starting after the end of World War II and ending in approximately 1972, characterized by an increased rate of premarital pregnancies over the preceding period, along with a higher rate of newborn adoption. From approximately 1940 to 1970, it is estimated that up to 4 million mothers in the United States surrendered newborn babies to adoption; 2 million during the 1960s alone. Annual numbers for non-relative adoptions increased from an estimated 33,800 in 1951 to a peak of 89,200 in 1970, then quickly declined to an estimated 47,700 in 1975 (This does not include the number of infants adopted and raised by relatives. In contrast, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services estimates that only 14,000 infants were voluntarily surrendered in 2003.
~more @ link~
http://babyscoopera.com/home/what-was-the-baby-scoop-era/
Today its mostly poverty and tremendous power by the adoption industry to keep truths hidden and lies in abundance that tell women with an unplanned pregnancy that adoption is "a loving choice where the child will do better" with complete strangers.
The truth is that in even the best circumstances, with the most wonderful adoptive parents in the world, relinquishment & closed adoption causes the newborn harm that stays with them the rest of their lives. Newborns are not blank slates. We spent 9 months listening to our mothers heartbeat, her voice. Studies have shown that newborns can pick out their own mothers by smell. To take away someones history and story is cruel. I loved my adoptive parents, but their ancestors are not mine--not matter what lies the adoption industry tells adoptive parents.
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Father will be reunited with baby adopted without his knowledge, judge rules [View all]
closeupready
Dec 2012
OP
the Utah grubs who illegally adopted the kid think they have a god given to right to keep her nt
msongs
Dec 2012
#1
No, in THIS case I started with and continue to support the father's position,
Lionessa
Dec 2012
#39
Interesting. Ordinarily the adoptive parents would be as responsible as birth parents.
Chemisse
Dec 2012
#48
A whole bunch of that applies to fathers as well. Why is it so hard to respect
jtuck004
Dec 2012
#18
Leaving people out is as disrespectuful as dissing them. Ask the people who chose all the white
jtuck004
Dec 2012
#28
You are right, when I wrote my comments it was before the articles making this point were posted
Tumbulu
Dec 2012
#97
Wait one second, are you SERIOUSLY suggesting that an INDIVIDUALS legal rights be determined
kelly1mm
Dec 2012
#35
It's sad for the child, but the adoptive parents should not have fought it for two years
Chemisse
Dec 2012
#50
Men's rights when it comes to family courts, is the last great civil rights battle. nt
aaaaaa5a
Dec 2012
#23
I've known many young women who adopted children out. That's true for NONE of them.
Xithras
Dec 2012
#89
I think it's great that we live in a country where people can make that kind of choice
slackmaster
Dec 2012
#54