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165. I do the same. Sad isnt it?

Thu Jan 3, 2013, 05:28 PM

Jan 2013

Dressing rooms... ugh... Especially dressing rooms. I rarely even try clothes on in the store anymore. Then theres the fear of going to the car in a dark "empty" parking lot. *check underneath* *look around the area* *have keys in hand before I get to the door* *check the back seat*...

When I was younger, over 20 years ago (I think I was 17), I was walking down the street on my way home from a store one night. A guy pulled over, the passenger opened the door, grabbed me & tried to pull me in the car. They were yelling at me in spanish. I fought like hell and got away. Three weeks later I had a gun pulled on me. Different person, same city. I could go on & on.

Its sad to think that the majority of us has probably had at least 1 such experience in our lives. Thats what I got for being small & "pretty"... so I was told.

Im so glad that you are a parent & have what Im sure are intelligent, caring sons. Women would have to live in fear if there were more Moms like you.

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Anonymous Leaks Horrifying Video of Steubenville High Schoolers Joking About Raping a Teenager �Dead [View all] RetroGamer1971 Jan 2013 OP

All glories to the Anons!! \O/ nt cecilfirefox Jan 2013 #1

^ lol- 666th post. nt cecilfirefox Jan 2013 #2

The guy on this blog is making me nuts Scairp Jan 2013 #185

I agree - just went to this guys blog... Pachamama Jan 2013 #258

Lookie what I found! Scairp Jan 2013 #224

CNN airing the story tomorrow night Scairp Jan 2013 #236

Every college they apply to should take great interest bluestateguy Jan 2013 #3

Once on-line, it's there forever Tempest Jan 2013 #4

too late. Michael Nodianos is apparently now a student at Ohio State University rollin74 Jan 2013 #144

Oh My Fucking God! That's where I went and got my Masters. Tempest Jan 2013 #155

I wonder if OSU would consider revoking his scholarship and kicking him out rollin74 Jan 2013 #158

i am thinking.... nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #161

Get enough alumni to commit to withholding donations Thav Jan 2013 #167

I did just that Tempest Jan 2013 #169

I just finish sending off an email to the alumi association Tempest Jan 2013 #168

good for you. that is the very best that we can do. that is standing strong as a whole to the ugly seabeyond Jan 2013 #179

Let us hope Scairp Jan 2013 #210

red rover, red rover, your rape crew is over. wow.... some face book page. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #215

good. I like it. people are also letting their feelings be known on OSU's facebook page rollin74 Jan 2013 #242

Every fricking one of them should go on a sex offenders list for life. Because that's what they are. freshwest Jan 2013 #19

Absolutely agree! nt historylovr Jan 2013 #27

Yes, they are. Every participant in this video just raped this girl again. mbperrin Jan 2013 #40

They should have their balls chopped off with a dull, rusty knife. Odin2005 Jan 2013 #48

Violence begets violence. That's not a good idea. MADem Jan 2013 #57

Normally I'd agree MynameisBlarney Jan 2013 #101

But not with a rusty knife, certainly... nt MADem Jan 2013 #133

Of course not. MynameisBlarney Jan 2013 #134

I prefer the lock and key, myself, as appropriate. MADem Jan 2013 #135

Go on a list? MynameisBlarney Jan 2013 #104

That too, obviously. historylovr Jan 2013 #118

I didn't say don't punish them. To get on the list, they are convicted of a crime. freshwest Jan 2013 #119

Good points MynameisBlarney Jan 2013 #121

It's cool. I'm quite touchy on it myself, knowing more than I want to know. freshwest Jan 2013 #153

Part of the punishment is being on the list. n/t Tempest Jan 2013 #170

Not to worry. jerseyjack Jan 2013 #44

Good, let them live with it too. bemildred Jan 2013 #5

This message was self-deleted by its author Ed Suspicious Jan 2013 #6

I hope not duhneece Jan 2013 #9

I agree. n/t Ed Suspicious Jan 2013 #15

No prison rape jokes. Codeine Jan 2013 #12

It was really more of a sad reality than a joke, but I take your point. Not appropriate. Should I Ed Suspicious Jan 2013 #14

Sorry, I guess I misread. Codeine Jan 2013 #16

No worries. I'll delete. I can see how it would come off that way. n/t Ed Suspicious Jan 2013 #20

Thank you very much for deleting your post. yardwork Jan 2013 #77

Post removed Post removed Jan 2013 #28

The jockocracy strikes again Kingofalldems Jan 2013 #7

I love that term! Taverner Jan 2013 #25

Sounds like this town was the inspiration for "Straw Dogs". Tempest Jan 2013 #8

Anonymous also threatening to release all information Tempest Jan 2013 #10

APOLOGY??? Sophiegirl Jan 2013 #17

I agree, but that's all they require Tempest Jan 2013 #21

Instead of saying "I apologize"... Sophiegirl Jan 2013 #23

So if a person was in no way involved, they get their information splashed all over the internet cherokeeprogressive Jan 2013 #29

Straw man Tempest Jan 2013 #34

Everyone in this video was certainly involved in enjoying the facts of the rape mbperrin Jan 2013 #41

Who specifically do you think is on that list that was not involved? Ash_F Jan 2013 #60

It's obvious they didn't think it through before posting. Tempest Jan 2013 #71

Yeah, it's not like they burped or failed to open a door for someone. It was gang rape. freshwest Jan 2013 #31

The leaking of the video I support. The blackmail I don't. randome Jan 2013 #33

Considering the henious crime Tempest Jan 2013 #35

It's one thing to blackmail only the guilty. It's another to punish those who aren't. randome Jan 2013 #63

No one not involved is being targeted Tempest Jan 2013 #70

And you're taking Anonymous' word for that? caseymoz Jan 2013 #79

This message was self-deleted by its author caseymoz Jan 2013 #81

"How careful are they being not to catch the innocent up in this?" mahatmakanejeeves Jan 2013 #94

Anonymous is nothing on a par with journalism. That's just laughable. randome Jan 2013 #91

yeah, because judges and juries do SO well for rape victims. BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2013 #106

Anonymous doesn't have a good track record, either. randome Jan 2013 #122

ok... but that doesnt nullify the difficulty in getting punishment for RAPISTS BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2013 #130

Don't agree. randome Jan 2013 #159

and many if not all KNOW. does it make them any more innocent staying quiet? nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #162

Of course not. I just dislike the idea of Anonymous determining who should be 'punished'. randome Jan 2013 #171

you kmow, i watched a video in india, a govt official went in a home at 2 AM and raped a woman. seabeyond Jan 2013 #180

This message was self-deleted by its author Tempest Jan 2013 #195

Not that shit again Tempest Jan 2013 #196

That's not what was posted last week or so. randome Jan 2013 #207

I've never seen anything else posted Tempest Jan 2013 #213

From last Tuesday. randome Jan 2013 #219

If Anonymous had not published this material, nobody would ever have been charged. yardwork Jan 2013 #222

this was an interesting read if you havent seen it. seabeyond Jan 2013 #225

A case with a conflict of interest so obvious should be moved to another county/district attorney's dflprincess Jan 2013 #229

But you see, my dear yardwork, the motivation behind Anti-Social Justice Movement propaganda is to Zorra Jan 2013 #263

hmmm BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2013 #252

I'm all for breaking a few rules -even laws- to get evidence on these guys. randome Jan 2013 #257

hrrm...yeah I see ur point. BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2013 #259

I don't have links. But they mis-identified someone as a molester earlier this year. randome Jan 2013 #261

Beside the point Scairp Jan 2013 #237

That appears to be true. randome Jan 2013 #244

Heh heh. "Anonymous" ain't foolin around here. . . DinahMoeHum Jan 2013 #11

Steubenville High School is a sick place Joey Liberal Jan 2013 #13

I feel sick after watching this.....pure evil....sociopaths.....no soul.... Pachamama Jan 2013 #18

+1,000. I didn't watch, but unfortunately I can imagine this. A lot of peoeple get away with it. freshwest Jan 2013 #32

Sad thing is, in many cases..... AverageJoe90 Jan 2013 #38

is it evil? or is it our new norm. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #51

Wow, whenever... awoke_in_2003 Jan 2013 #22

In heaven05 Jan 2013 #24

I seriously doubt "spoiling" is the problem(unless you mean something different than the norm?). AverageJoe90 Jan 2013 #36

no heaven05 Jan 2013 #43

Not sure that was the case here lolly Jan 2013 #84

That may be true. AverageJoe90 Jan 2013 #90

Actually, the mother of one of these creeps is prosecutor. amandabeech Jan 2013 #239

If this is indeed the case..... AverageJoe90 Jan 2013 #248

We are in agreement. I just want the bar to really go after one of their own bad eggs first. amandabeech Jan 2013 #256

Yet, you find conservative types constantly saying that we should go back to the values of...... LongTomH Jan 2013 #164

Sad but very true, Tom. AverageJoe90 Jan 2013 #173

God, some of the comments on Jezebel are awful dorkzilla Jan 2013 #26

Yes, I'm always amazed at how much scum comes out of the woodwork mbperrin Jan 2013 #42

these kids are future GOP DonCoquixote Jan 2013 #30

Obviously, the person who published this as "anonymous" was afraid of the social or physical JDPriestly Jan 2013 #37

When the justice system breaks down completely, there's little other recourse lolly Jan 2013 #85

I hope there's some serious reprecussions for these morons. AverageJoe90 Jan 2013 #39

Disgusting riverbendviewgal Jan 2013 #45

It's not American Character. xfundy Jan 2013 #49

My brother lives in NJ riverbendviewgal Jan 2013 #54

Post removed Post removed Jan 2013 #75

Something in your post made me suddenly remember a scene in Dirty Dancing... dorkzilla Jan 2013 #58

sounds like my brother riverbendviewgal Jan 2013 #78

Damned straight that's what they are, a buncha sociopaths shunned by good people. freshwest Jan 2013 #148

American? Beacool Jan 2013 #110

Which incident? aquart Jan 2013 #132

Both were appalling. Beacool Jan 2013 #137

Very true, every continent. Every country. No exceptions, just percentages. freshwest Jan 2013 #152

This kind of shit is reflective of GOP worldview. xfundy Jan 2013 #46

The GOP libertarian sees labor, thus people, as an expendable commodity. freshwest Jan 2013 #150

I hope these asshats are humiliated to Kingdom Come. Odin2005 Jan 2013 #47

Football builds character... zeemike Jan 2013 #50

This is what "boys will be boys" looks like. Do we really want our boys to look like this? Brickbat Jan 2013 #52

I hated those boys when I was a boy, and all that "be a man" " it'll make you a man" bullshit too arcane1 Jan 2013 #56

Stupidville ArcticFox Jan 2013 #53

Teenagers and alcohol shouldn't mix marshall Jan 2013 #55

A date rape drug was used. Can't blame it on alcohol. Ash_F Jan 2013 #61

I was talking about the assailants' use of alcohol marshall Jan 2013 #66

I know. Ash_F Jan 2013 #68

Poor character = teen alcohol use marshall Jan 2013 #103

Alcohol doesn't cause rape obamanut2012 Jan 2013 #111

That's true marshall Jan 2013 #113

details of what happened to the girl (graphic) Liberal_in_LA Jan 2013 #59

Regarding this horrible vile event, Anonymous, our society & what needs to be done: Pachamama Jan 2013 #260

Also, these rapists didn't just find an incapacitated girl. They drugged her and kidnapped her. yardwork Jan 2013 #264

I won't watch the video. Brigid Jan 2013 #62

Social media really lets you know who people really are. Initech Jan 2013 #64

I think he's part of the problem lolly Jan 2013 #86

The coach IS one of the problems in that town csziggy Jan 2013 #93

No law enforcement will touch this enabler, huh? He needs to be put on the net for the whole world. freshwest Jan 2013 #151

Apparently the mafia runs Steubenville, Ohio. The coach's threat was probably not just bluster. yardwork Jan 2013 #217

Then the more publicity the better csziggy Jan 2013 #226

Not the Mafia dflprincess Jan 2013 #231

Nice job Dj13Francis Jan 2013 #65

Nothing has changed chazunit Jan 2013 #67

That makes me double glad that I went to an all girl's school. Beacool Jan 2013 #108

I'll say it. America has lost her moral compass. Skip Intro Jan 2013 #69

That pretty much happened in 2004. Tempest Jan 2013 #72

absolutely. i agree. it is all becoming a norm. how can it be wrong, if it is a norm. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #74

yes, you are so right, seabeyond BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2013 #131

i was talking to my 70 yr old father last night about this, comments, and the other recent events. seabeyond Jan 2013 #147

We are rapidly turning into a "Mad Max" society. Brigid Jan 2013 #76

I disagree. I think, sadly, horrible shit has always happened. Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #89

I remember something similar portrayed in Ingmar Bergman's 'The Seventh Seal' years ago. freshwest Jan 2013 #156

This has always happened, and in every country obamanut2012 Jan 2013 #115

"reality" TV too Skittles Jan 2013 #139

I feel sick Claybrains Jan 2013 #73

Sick bastards ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2013 #80

I wanna say I'm shocked but... Solindsey Jan 2013 #82

I just can't bring myself to watch the video. But I did check the Cleveland Plain Dealer.... SunSeeker Jan 2013 #83

Thanks for that link...interestingly, scroll down and check what the #1 story of 2012 was... didact Jan 2013 #262

What a fucking dipshit. blackspade Jan 2013 #87

Throw the book at those guys. All of them, all the books. Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #88

Mandatory surgical castration for violent rapists johnfunk Jan 2013 #96

If I were there, I would just kick that fucker in the mouth. Prometheus Bound Jan 2013 #92

You realize talk like that is a big reason women do not report it bettyellen Jan 2013 #174

i watch this, and i am in the process of checking out colleges for son. new orleans university in seabeyond Jan 2013 #95

Some of those comments are almost as sick as the video.. bunnies Jan 2013 #97

they drug her, drag her around, abuse and rape her and HER reputation is ruined. seabeyond Jan 2013 #98

Hey... bunnies Jan 2013 #114

between this, india, passing laws to stop gang rape with no skirts and cell phone for girls. seabeyond Jan 2013 #116

"only simulated porn gang rape for men to get off on" bunnies Jan 2013 #124

i am sending son off to college, and to be in athletic dorms. just now, talking about this thread seabeyond Jan 2013 #146

I do the same. Sad isnt it? bunnies Jan 2013 #165

yep yep yep to all you are saying. seabeyond Jan 2013 #166

And all it takes is one good man to stand up and make it stop. bunnies Jan 2013 #176

again... you are right. seabeyond Jan 2013 #181

"This is just boys being stupid...." Rob H. Jan 2013 #100

What. The. Fuck. bunnies Jan 2013 #109

Nineteen coaches on the high school football team? NINETEEN??? amandabeech Jan 2013 #243

I've been over on Raw Story reading up on this MynameisBlarney Jan 2013 #99

Revenge rape, and we're supposed historylovr Jan 2013 #120

Nor will I. MynameisBlarney Jan 2013 #123

And there are at least three other victims? mainer Jan 2013 #140

I thought Anonymous was good before....now I think they are Heroes!!! Pachamama Jan 2013 #200

Is that little fucker in JAIL?! bunnies Jan 2013 #125

Indeed. MynameisBlarney Jan 2013 #126

That is fascinating. There is a pedophile at the center of it. yardwork Jan 2013 #127

i took note of that, too. taught the boys well. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #149

I grew up in the area. It was crazy corrupt. alphafemale Jan 2013 #198

stomach churning. just wow. bench scientist Jan 2013 #255

This could be another Penn State MynameisBlarney Jan 2013 #102

Someone taught them to act this way. progressoid Jan 2013 #105

The mother of one of the participants is the prosecuting attorney. yardwork Jan 2013 #141

Seems to me in that situation you have a conflict of interest, to put it mildly Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #145

She has since recused herself MynameisBlarney Jan 2013 #157

Apparently the rules are different in Steubenville, Ohio. yardwork Jan 2013 #212

What? progressoid Jan 2013 #178

What the hell kind of men are we raising??????????? Beacool Jan 2013 #107

this girl was drugged then dragged around party to party to be raped. seabeyond Jan 2013 #112

Oh boy, the story is even worse. Beacool Jan 2013 #117

It won't load for me. loudsue Jan 2013 #128

Is there any update on what is happening to these young sociopaths? Arugula Latte Jan 2013 #129

I'm still trying to figure out what happened. The Stranger Jan 2013 #136

Link to some of the documents here: yardwork Jan 2013 #142

That's unbelievable. The last sentence makes it sound like a bad movie script. The Stranger Jan 2013 #160

she has. after it became pubic. but, i am wondering what evidence is lost and who has been seabeyond Jan 2013 #163

Was her son the sick f*ck who stars in this video Anonymous posted? Pachamama Jan 2013 #172

i do not know what kid goes to what crime but watching last night, thinking of my 2 sons seabeyond Jan 2013 #182

Sea, I know that neither of my sons would do such a thing, ever. I doubt yours would either. yardwork Jan 2013 #218

ya. i am not concerned the boys would. seabeyond Jan 2013 #221

Micheal Nordiano is the "star" of the video. The prosecutor's son is Charles Keenan, also implicated riderinthestorm Jan 2013 #188

Wonder how Ohio State is feeling about this student Michael Nordiano right now? Pachamama Jan 2013 #197

From my understanding, it was the video(s) itself that was labeled "lost" by the sheriff LanternWaste Jan 2013 #175

another prosecutor to look at additional charges. seabeyond Jan 2013 #184

Once again it took the public to get law enforcement to do their jobs Tempest Jan 2013 #187

Apparently there was actual video of the rapes. That is what is "lost." yardwork Jan 2013 #220

It reads like something out of a John Grisham novel. Odin2005 Jan 2013 #223

extremely disturbing Skittles Jan 2013 #138

I couldn't watch the whole thing. subject Jan 2013 #143

God what a horrible story. polly7 Jan 2013 #154

I Just Could Not Watch That! In_The_Wind Jan 2013 #177

You're right. Not going to put that image of that person into my brain. He's banned. lonestarnot Jan 2013 #183

RESPONSE FROM OHIO STATE UNIVERSITY ALUMNI ASSOCIATION Tempest Jan 2013 #186

from the bottom of my heart, women everywhere, mothers raising sons..... thank you. your voice seabeyond Jan 2013 #190

I have five sisters Tempest Jan 2013 #191

thati s what i have in my life. seabeyond Jan 2013 #203

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. uppityperson Jan 2013 #227

Sorry, this isn't from a video game. cbrer Jan 2013 #189

I think the FBI should come in an investigate lovuian Jan 2013 #192

Prosecutor in town committed obstruction of justice Tempest Jan 2013 #194

Worse - her home was one of the crime scenes where the rape occurred!!!! Pachamama Jan 2013 #199

I'm still reading up on the details of the case Tempest Jan 2013 #201

Let us hope that is the case.... Pachamama Jan 2013 #202

Clearly she has the same sociopathic tendencies. Tempest Jan 2013 #205

She needs to be disbarred immediately RomneyLies Jan 2013 #206

This is getting all kinds of publicity Tempest Jan 2013 #193

. seabeyond Jan 2013 #204

they just covered this story on CNN IcyPeas Jan 2013 #208

Excellent Tempest Jan 2013 #214

Time to try treat the participants and those that Harmony Blue Jan 2013 #209

I hope they charge them with attempted murder as well. Kalidurga Jan 2013 #211

WE PETITION THE OBAMA ADMINISTRATION TO:Make all involved in the rape of the Steubenville scandal... seabeyond Jan 2013 #216

Signed. Tempest Jan 2013 #228

Unless this gets tried as a Federal civil rights violation dflprincess Jan 2013 #233

i like some clever prosecutor to try for kidnapping bench scientist Jan 2013 #254

Maybe it could be turned into a Federal kidnapping case dflprincess Jan 2013 #265

yes. bench scientist Jan 2013 #266

Done Claybrains Jan 2013 #238

High on LSD hexola Jan 2013 #230

My neice was drugged by some athletes at a party. So_Blue Jan 2013 #232

sad sad story. have a drug that wipes out memory. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #235

he was never her friend JI7 Jan 2013 #245

No...never her friend. So_Blue Jan 2013 #246

you have to talk about this shit. media, society, the net reinforces all this behavior. seabeyond Jan 2013 #247

That's my approach as well... So_Blue Jan 2013 #250

More than they probably want sometimes but I don't care. seabeyond Jan 2013 #251

it kind of reminds me of those people who "commit sin" and then ask God for forgiveness JI7 Jan 2013 #249

This is the broken stair analogy. KitSileya Jan 2013 #267

this is very good. and very true. we had a perfect example at the christmas table this year. seabeyond Jan 2013 #270

Oh Jesus! Odin2005 Jan 2013 #268

Sounds like the 1988 film, "The Accused" where Jodie Foster's character is gang rape. Claybrains Jan 2013 #234

Incredible. Glaug-Eldare Jan 2013 #240

"The Steubenville Files" Petrushka Jan 2013 #241

interesting tweet suggesting the kid at ohio university has been suspended. seabeyond Jan 2013 #253

Punks tawadi Jan 2013 #269