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Bettie

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43. (Warning: Ranty) Fat people being unhealthy is not universal any more than
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 04:41 PM
Dec 30

thin people being healthy is.

I am fat. According to those charts, I'm....dead, obviously, of the scourge of fat. Oh, and I have the beginnings of osteoarthritis in my joints, like all four of my grandparents and both my parents...thin and fat.

My only other health issue normally is slightly elevated cholesterol. I take a minimal dose of a statin and I'm good to go.

I was in a car accident on the 19th, so right now, not so healthy, because I am injured, but I am strong and, yes, fat. The PT people and nurses kept commenting on how strong my legs and core are....and yet, I am very fat. The kind of fat that most people here would look at and assume I wear a red hat and am not very bright.

The not very bright thing could be up for debate on any given day.

Most of the people who "look healthy'...which is based solely on the fact that they are thin, have many more health issues than I do.

Right now, I am having some walking trouble....because my right side got hit dead-on by another car. My right hip took a direct hit, so I'm having trouble with that. I'll get past it and I'll admit, I'm being a giant baby about it, but I'm hauling myself up (we do have a wheelchair, not because I can't do the walker, but because our bathroom is 55 feet from where I am sleeping and I can't do stairs yet...seems that a 100 foot round trip to the bathroom was not what PT envisioned when they sent me home). Sorry I digress, I'm not entirely myself right now.

Nearly everyone I know is on some form of GLP1. One of my friends (my best friend for over 40 years) was on one that mentions a specific kind of cancer in the perinium in the warnings on its ads. She's dead now...but she died thinner than she had been in her adult life, so I guess that's a win in terms of how our society functions. Personally, I don't trust them any more than I have trusted any of the weight loss "miracles" on the market.

Remember Phen Fen? Lost a friend to that one... Weight Watchers and all the other diet snake oil? Lose....body adjusts to fewer calories, makes it easier to gain it back and more, then, you end up with disordered eating. For years, I wouldn't eat a simple piece of toast, because of weight watchers...or I'd make a lovely meal and sip a cup of salt-free chicken broth while everyone else ate the delicious food I had prepared.

Weight loss surgery....of the many people I know who have had that, all have had some kind of complication afterward, the ones who got it the longest ago are the closest to their beginning weights again, several with major addiction issues, because when you can't eat food, alcohol makes you feel like you have something.

People are individuals and most of the drama around people's weight isn't about health.

You don't know what someone's health is like by looking at them from a distance...it's about aesthetics. I'm never going to meet those aesthetics. I'm tall, broad, big...I look like the women in my grandfather's family going back to the earliest pictures we have from the mid 19th Century. They were big women, tall, broad of shoulder, with large bellies once they had kids. Nothing dainty about my people.

But sure, my "max weight" by these tables is 165....never going to happen, unless I get some kind of terrible disease that wastes me away.

Sorry Old Crank....your post was where my thoughts bubbled up! Not directed at you personally!

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I'll stick with BMI thank you. 3 links in I can't find the definition underpants Dec 29 #1
Here's the links to the BRI and BMI calculators. sinkingfeeling Dec 29 #3
Okay. I stay at 220 for the BMI underpants Dec 29 #8
Starts with demographics. sinkingfeeling Dec 29 #15
Both of these say I'm fat. Kida sucks. n/t SpankMe Dec 29 #25
Uh huh. Why do smell the whiff of big pharma around the edges? I love when they do this. It's not the first time Vinca Dec 29 #2
Exactly. Maybe someday the focus can embrace lifestyle changes like nutrition, exercise and stress management. TheRickles Dec 29 #6
The Trump admin is all about the new weight loss drugs. yardwork Dec 29 #9
Has RFKjr seen Trump? NotHardly Dec 29 #10
I can't explain it either. yardwork Dec 29 #13
This has been known for years NickB79 Dec 29 #11
What that weird drug does to people really creeps me out. ananda Dec 29 #17
Some of the effects now being slightlv Dec 29 #21
Insurance companies Old Crank Dec 30 #35
Few of us meet the ever-changing standards, but here we are. Living and breathing. I'm about to turn 77. Vinca Dec 30 #36
75 in March Old Crank Dec 30 #38
(Warning: Ranty) Fat people being unhealthy is not universal any more than Bettie Dec 30 #43
In ten years most of us will be on ozempic diets thought crime Dec 31 #45
BMI is junk science angrychair Dec 29 #4
I agree. Americanme Dec 29 #12
sounds like you are doing great Skittles Dec 30 #44
The correlation between obesity and health issues is unquestionable NickB79 Dec 29 #14
i'm 6'2", 265 lbs and 14% body fat. According to BMI, I am obese. AZLD4Candidate Dec 29 #24
And they're also at risk of many of the same health problems NickB79 Dec 30 #41
Well, Just Change back to the old definition! raccoon Dec 29 #5
Move More OC375 Dec 29 #7
Move more and eat less FakeNoose Dec 29 #23
So with such statistics the logical approach would be for the gov to have a plan to combat it. twodogsbarking Dec 29 #16
Arnold in his is prime would have been morbidly obese according to doc03 Dec 29 #18
Stop the testing JoseBalow Dec 29 #19
6'-5" @ 219 lbs coming from a loudmouth soon yonder Dec 29 #20
BMI also isn't a very good health indicator for some ethnic groups fujiyamasan Dec 29 #22
Bingo. Visceral fat is the killer. Belly fat. LiberalArkie Dec 30 #32
so - you redefine 'obesity' to the point where it becomes an irrelevance - and people stopdiggin Dec 29 #26
Too much unhealthy, processed food is marketed at us everywhere we turn. Diamond_Dog Dec 29 #27
This is correct oswaldactedalone Dec 29 #28
This makes sense gristy Dec 30 #31
In a nutshell oswaldactedalone Dec 30 #39
Who is going to tell Chump BidenRocks Dec 29 #29
It just told me the old joke "One at a time on the scale". chouchou Dec 30 #30
I'm not fat. I'm what they call a "bear". QueerDuck Dec 30 #33
I'd be a stick figure if I followed the BRI debsy Dec 30 #34
BMI / Height for obesity has its flaws. Old Crank Dec 30 #37
I started intermittent fasting last May Tree Lady Dec 30 #40
Anyone with a gut is going to be obese under BRI. maxsolomon Dec 30 #42
The American diet doesn't help. Aussie105 Dec 31 #46
Restrict diet soda, skim milk, seed oils, salt, processed food, fruit juice, fake meat GreatGazoo Jan 1 #47
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