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47. uriel1972

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Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:09 PM

Feb 2013

uriel1972

I do not think you have lost out of anything worth going to - even thought it is a little pleasure in saying NO to re-unions too.... And if you want, tell them why you do not want to be at the re-union.... But then again, it maybe makes them a little pleasure that you have not forgotten dem...

Well, we all have to try get past it, even if it is hard - difficult to go past it - as some of behavior you learned to have, to cope with school yard bulling still will be a part of you... And, at least at my experience, it often is like you will have a target on your head, who says "bully" me even at grown up age... It is my experience at least sometimes..

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You just bullied me! caseymoz Feb 2013 #27

Yes, I agree that my comment was rude and I apologize. rhett o rick Feb 2013 #30

Wow. We agree! caseymoz Feb 2013 #46

When one poster singles out another poster and calls them names rhett o rick Feb 2013 #22

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Really RobinA Feb 2013 #31

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Sorry, you don't get to impose your definition on the world magical thyme Feb 2013 #37

Sorry, you don't get to either. caseymoz Feb 2013 #39

I don't understand why you are standing up against the misuse of the term 'bully'. DaveJ Feb 2013 #44

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Yeah, and "Time heals all wounds." like hell it does. nt uriel1972 Feb 2013 #6

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Heh, I've never been invited to a reunion... uriel1972 Feb 2013 #42

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Know all about that. Joe Bacon Feb 2013 #54

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