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In reply to the discussion: Police: Slain Baby, Mom Victims of Random Crime [View all]geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)39. A few points
1. You knew someone else had been arrested for the crime before you joined in on the victim-blaming.
2. It was known that the aunt turned them in on SATURDAY:
http://www.news4jax.com/news/Brunswick-mother-certain-suspect-shot-toddler/-/475880/19439744/-/item/1/-/8t4s9y/-/index.html
Published On: Mar 23 2013 03:29:01 PM EDT Updated On: Mar 24 2013 08:39:08 PM EDT
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Debra Obley says she never imagined she'd have two ties to the investigation into the murder of the toddler.
"I feel sad I'm being threatened, yeah I'm being threatened by people saying they are going to kill me or have people to kill me, because I'm a snitch," said Obley.
Obley's nephew is the 14-year-old accused of being an accomplice to the murder.
She tells Channel 4 that she gave Elkins a ride from her mother's house, not knowing who he was.
"When he got in the car, he laid down in the backseat," said Obley. "He kept looking around, peeping up and I said, 'Boy, what you doing? You skipping school?' You know, he said 'No ma'am.'"
When she started asking for more questions, Obley said Elkins cut the ride short.
"When he got out of the car, he had something hid up in his pants. It was a gun," said Obley.
Obley says she felt something wasn't right, so she asked her nephew about it.
"I said...if you've got something to do with this little baby, you can't talk to me. I'm your auntie," said Obley. "He said 'Auntie, I don't even know the boy. I don't have anything to do with that.'"
Even though he wouldn't talk to her, Obley decided to talk to police. While it's hard to see her nephew behind bars, Obley said she feels she did the right thing.
"It's wrong. That was a baby. That baby can't come back," said Obley. "That mama will never get that baby back. Whoever did it deserves to be behind bars."
"I feel sad I'm being threatened, yeah I'm being threatened by people saying they are going to kill me or have people to kill me, because I'm a snitch," said Obley.
Obley's nephew is the 14-year-old accused of being an accomplice to the murder.
She tells Channel 4 that she gave Elkins a ride from her mother's house, not knowing who he was.
"When he got in the car, he laid down in the backseat," said Obley. "He kept looking around, peeping up and I said, 'Boy, what you doing? You skipping school?' You know, he said 'No ma'am.'"
When she started asking for more questions, Obley said Elkins cut the ride short.
"When he got out of the car, he had something hid up in his pants. It was a gun," said Obley.
Obley says she felt something wasn't right, so she asked her nephew about it.
"I said...if you've got something to do with this little baby, you can't talk to me. I'm your auntie," said Obley. "He said 'Auntie, I don't even know the boy. I don't have anything to do with that.'"
Even though he wouldn't talk to her, Obley decided to talk to police. While it's hard to see her nephew behind bars, Obley said she feels she did the right thing.
"It's wrong. That was a baby. That baby can't come back," said Obley. "That mama will never get that baby back. Whoever did it deserves to be behind bars."
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To all the naysayers who were questioning if the mother was complicit in this heinous crime,
premium
Mar 2013
#1
A pond can hold more than one gun. They are testing the one that they found to verify whether it is
AnotherMcIntosh
Mar 2013
#102
No, the victim blaming began here within minutes of the story being broken
geek tragedy
Mar 2013
#15
Geek, I hadn't seen that and won't add to it. There was a take on her looks there:
freshwest
Mar 2013
#96
I'd imagine that as many as three people who voiced "concerns" were sincere
LanternWaste
Mar 2013
#42
Calling it "random" is a comforting myth to help people avoid thinking about what actually happened
slackmaster
Mar 2013
#114
By being aware of your surroundings, you are actively reducing your likelihood of becoming a victim
slackmaster
Mar 2013
#121