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87. Pity you can't see the connection yourself. nt

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Parent: Topless photo of female student circulating among students at Northland middle school [View all] pstokely Mar 2013 OP

When you send something to others, you lose total control over what happens to it. liberal N proud Mar 2013 #1

Precisely Sherman A1 Mar 2013 #4

Thanks for the thread, pstokely... KansDem Mar 2013 #2

Same as you;.... ReRe Mar 2013 #9

Unfortunately, that cat is out of the bag ... Fantastic Anarchist Mar 2013 #3

And take away her cell phone marshall Mar 2013 #5

Hopefully, she learns from this. Fantastic Anarchist Mar 2013 #6

Any interest in the people who wronged her learning anything? Posteritatis Mar 2013 #50

Of course, but my first and foremost concern was how she deals with this. Fantastic Anarchist Mar 2013 #53

Thank god that internet wasn't what it is today when I was in grade school. Chakab Mar 2013 #7

Most likely this action could be a class A felony. alp227 Mar 2013 #24

Hopefully that won't happen... octothorpe Mar 2013 #56

The law linked in 34 says that for minors it's a class A misdemeanor punishable by a fine.... JVS Mar 2013 #61

It is probably not child pronography here. Spartacus Maximus XL Mar 2013 #76

Will the girl who sent the picture of herself be charged with anything? Orrex Mar 2013 #8

I say give her a Jitterbug... ReRe Mar 2013 #10

A couple things on this. timdog44 Mar 2013 #11

During adolescence most kids rebel to one extent or another. redqueen Mar 2013 #28

And I agree with that. timdog44 Mar 2013 #32

Mixed feellings about this.... groundloop Mar 2013 #12

Agree with you about the culture. bitchkitty Mar 2013 #14

If only her humiliation could be publicized nationally. bluedigger Mar 2013 #13

And, indeed, encouraged by most of the readers here. (nt) Posteritatis Mar 2013 #43

Again and again and again :( Catherina Mar 2013 #15

Horrible! blackspade Mar 2013 #17

The parents didn't know in time :( Catherina Mar 2013 #30

I meant the parents of the bullies. blackspade Mar 2013 #33

Most parents of bullies are either in denial or in favor. (nt) Posteritatis Mar 2013 #44

Damn. Poor girl. davidthegnome Mar 2013 #71

I think it says so much about our schools. Catherina Mar 2013 #77

As an adult I can handle it. davidthegnome Mar 2013 #78

That's just awful :( Catherina Mar 2013 #80

It goes back to the industrial revolution. davidthegnome Mar 2013 #82

I'm happy you're trying to make a difference and become an educator Catherina Mar 2013 #85

Hard to have any sympathy for her since she took it herself and shared it Blue_Tires Mar 2013 #16

Wow. Nasty. nt redqueen Mar 2013 #18

Maybe a little too harsh on my part, but what else can really be done? Blue_Tires Mar 2013 #20

Criticism for the victim and nothing to say about the piece of shit victimizers. redqueen Mar 2013 #21

I can criticize both Blue_Tires Mar 2013 #22

Yeah, but you didn't. redqueen Mar 2013 #23

Funny, I thought the person who chose to publicly humiliate her set things in motion. Posteritatis Mar 2013 #45

Oh come the hell on... Blue_Tires Mar 2013 #48

You're really invested in exonerating the victimizers, aren't you. (nt) Posteritatis Mar 2013 #49

Nope; just in pointing out the girl isn't totally blameless in this Blue_Tires Mar 2013 #79

I think everyone can agree the victimizers are beyond pieces of shit joeglow3 Mar 2013 #25

It's common sense that boys and men can't be trusted? redqueen Mar 2013 #27

That is fine joeglow3 Mar 2013 #37

I wouldn't trust a 12-year-old to do anything. jeff47 Mar 2013 #46

When it comes to teen boys and nude pics of women NickB79 Mar 2013 #83

And none of them will say its wrong, because rape culture. redqueen Mar 2013 #84

I knew it! oldhippie Mar 2013 #86

Pity you can't see the connection yourself. nt redqueen Mar 2013 #87

She's a kid Shivering Jemmy Mar 2013 #29

good point... Blue_Tires Mar 2013 #36

So, every single decision you made at age 13 Le Taz Hot Mar 2013 #62

In a decent society, perhaps... davidthegnome Mar 2013 #73

We need to do a lot more talking about rape culture. redqueen Mar 2013 #19

This ... ^^^ ... ! In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #26

Yeah, the unanimity of the victim-blaming in this thread is frankly frightening. Posteritatis Mar 2013 #42

They're 12-14 years old. jeff47 Mar 2013 #47

Newsflash to everyone. There is no privacy on the INTERNET. NOTHING that you wouldn't ladjf Mar 2013 #31

Parents really need to educate their children maddezmom Mar 2013 #34

How is possession defined? JVS Mar 2013 #60

What I'd like to know... Archae Mar 2013 #35

Yeah! Most 13 year olds are, like, geniuses who never make mistakes! redqueen Mar 2013 #38

I think you may answered your own question maddezmom Mar 2013 #39

What I'm Reading RobinA Mar 2013 #81

and this deserves to be LBN on DU because... lanlady Mar 2013 #40

The one reason maybe it was left is awareness of sexting laws maddezmom Mar 2013 #41

I told my kids COUNTLESS times, NEVER, NEVER benld74 Mar 2013 #51

In our schools, the kids are lectured on this with some regularity... DollarBillHines Mar 2013 #52

And it's GOING to happen Tien1985 Mar 2013 #54

I wonder what makes these kids think that it is OK to forward these pics? DollarBillHines Mar 2013 #55

I'm willing to bet they knew it was wrong octothorpe Mar 2013 #57

The part that objectifies women. redqueen Mar 2013 #63

This scares me olddots Mar 2013 #58

The student who made the photo should be charged with producing child pornography... JVS Mar 2013 #59

What if it was the student herself, taking a self portrait? Quantess Mar 2013 #64

The world needs more 13-year-olds receiving life prison sentences. JackRiddler Mar 2013 #67

Terrible idea. She's not a criminal. She's just a dumb kid. Dash87 Mar 2013 #68

Okay, so she was topless. Quantess Mar 2013 #65

"A parent" and "41 Action News" are creating a moral panic... JackRiddler Mar 2013 #66

I don't think people realize how common this is. Most times it doesn't make the news. redqueen Mar 2013 #70

Stories like this should never make the news. MineralMan Mar 2013 #69

I don't know what difference it would make davidthegnome Mar 2013 #72

It would make a huge difference. MineralMan Mar 2013 #74

Keep in mind--the girl herself is not the one complaining marshall Mar 2013 #75

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