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In reply to the discussion: NY case puts N-word use among blacks on trial [View all]enlightenment
(8,830 posts)apparently two trains passing . . . because I was talking about the incident. Sorry for the confusion.
Again, I don't disagree with you. I'm generally not bothered by words, myself, but I am sensitive to the fact that many are - for reasons both sound and, well, not so sound. I've found it easier when in public conversation to simply avoid using words that trigger people for whatever reason - which I admit is becoming increasingly difficult. Fortunately, the English language is chock full of words, so I can usually find my way around whatever minefield has been laid while I wasn't paying attention.
Because the language is so rich, I've never found it terribly necessary to resort to too many vulgarities - although certain topics can set me off on a tirade that would (as they used to say) make a longshoresman blush. My mouth is far from virginal in that regard.
I try not to do that in public, however - not because I think the words are magic, but because I know that some people do find them offensive. I see no reason to offend people. I don't feel like I live in a bubble of insularity where my actions have no impact on anyone but myself. I do believe that I am part of society and choose not to subscribe to the "I don't care what you think" mentality. And no, valerief - I am not suggesting that you do. I am just explaining my perspective . . . or trying to, anyway.