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slipslidingaway

(21,210 posts)
21. I'm very sorry about your Dad ...
Sat Dec 7, 2013, 12:26 AM
Dec 2013

my Mom died in the late 80's when she showed no signs of cancer, but she had become weak due to the effects of chemo. This at time when her WBC had become dangerously low and they gave her a drug used to treat depression, it did boost her WBC, but ultimately did not help. Now they use Neupogen or Neulasta, I've given my husband the Neupogen shots at critical times. We threw away about 10K in Neupogen because we no longer needed it, the hospital ordered it just in case because they said it was easier to order more as the insurance company sometimes only pays for it to be delivered to home one time. Others could have used that drug

All we can do at this point is look at the odds and try to make the most informed decision we can, reading stuff on the net can scare anyone. Those who have had a negative effect are more vocal than those who have survived and moved on, unfortunately I think that is part of society

When I searched for bone marrow transplants on DU it was not encouraging, yes it is a very small segment of society and more so on DU, but still I was curious. We just try and make the most informed decision we can given the circumstances.

Wishing you peace.







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R.I.P. Sarah KamaAina Dec 2013 #1
Hey now Scairp Dec 2013 #34
I'm reluctant to weigh in on this one... brooklynite Dec 2013 #2
Everyone I know who's gone through Chemo maxsolomon Dec 2013 #4
Unless it kills you first. Xithras Dec 2013 #6
It happened to my Mom. It was the Chemo that "suffocated" her heart. chelsea0011 Dec 2013 #7
Sure but this girl's cancer isn't anywhere close to the same as lung cancer: Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2013 #9
I'm pretty sure dead people are infertile too... AtheistCrusader Dec 2013 #10
A high survival rate with treatment -- but not necessarily for everyone. pnwmom Dec 2013 #16
We know medical professionals think she needs treatment. Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2013 #19
Medical professionals thought my father needed treatment. pnwmom Dec 2013 #20
I'm very sorry about your Dad ... slipslidingaway Dec 2013 #21
Thank you! pnwmom Dec 2013 #22
You are most welcome, but I'm beginning to think I'm cursed tonight ... slipslidingaway Dec 2013 #24
You must be so proud of your daughter. pnwmom Dec 2013 #25
Thanks and yes we are ... slipslidingaway Dec 2013 #26
Chemo killed my father hack89 Dec 2013 #11
You have no idea what a "bad reaction" can be. Some people pnwmom Dec 2013 #15
my assumption is that they couldn't stand to see the child suffering maxsolomon Dec 2013 #35
They can't have gotten far by horse and buggy. maxsolomon Dec 2013 #3
A concern with future fertility seems highly inappropriate. burnsei sensei Dec 2013 #8
Personal Experience bpj62 Dec 2013 #5
Thanks for an inspiring story. My adult daughter was recently diagnosed w/ a non-Hodgkin lymphoma deurbano Dec 2013 #13
I am so happy about your son. I will tell you you something, pnwmom Dec 2013 #17
Happy to read your kids ok, dude. Inkfreak Dec 2013 #28
My 11-year-old daughter wants NOTHING to do with giving birth (herself). deurbano Dec 2013 #12
I would want this option for my kid perdita9 Dec 2013 #14
There is not enough information to give an opinion ... slipslidingaway Dec 2013 #18
Sad story. nt aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #23
I tend to side with the family Niceguy1 Dec 2013 #27
Another victory for 'religion'... CanSocDem Dec 2013 #29
You don't know that anasv Dec 2013 #30
Of course you're right. CanSocDem Dec 2013 #32
I don't think this was religion at all Yo_Mama Dec 2013 #31
The importance of "religion" in this story... CanSocDem Dec 2013 #33
Darwin at work. At least the genes won't be passed on. Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #36
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