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slipslidingaway

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24. You are most welcome, but I'm beginning to think I'm cursed tonight ...

Sat Dec 7, 2013, 02:31 AM

Dec 2013

as I just lost my reply again.

You are right, it is an art as much as a science. Sometimes it will hurt and sometimes it will cure, finding those who can tolerate what treatment is still up in the air.

My/our journey has been insightful beginning with my Mom's cancer. My daughter was 3 or 4 years old at the time, I still remember the two of them singing songs in the hospital bed to her 'very cool sony cassette player.' Then onto my cancer diagnosis (somewhat insignificant) to my daughter's acceptance to Med school and my husband's diagnosis of MDS/AML and a bone marrow transplant. My daughter is now a third year resident and her current rotation is on the oncology unit at a VA hospital. She has attending docs that range from trying everything to those who know when it is time to let go.

I'm fairly aware of the art, science, payments for Med school, maximum out of pocket expenses for a great insurance policy that allowed us to seek the best treatment to having to sell our home to keep up with payments.

They are working on it, but it is still an art.

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