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JDPriestly

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6. Do you think that "the beatiful people" think they are beautiful?
Mon Dec 16, 2013, 05:14 PM
Dec 2013

I think that especially young women all think they are ugly.

I am older and when I look at my pictures when I was young and thought I was hopelessly ugly, I see a rather attractive young woman. It is shocking to me because I really thought I was very plain.

I had a friend about my age. I thought she was absolutely beautiful. One day I found an old picture of the two of us together. We looked very much alike. It would have been hard to say which of us was prettier.

I can't identify with what I looked like when I was young.

What a waste of your youth if you always think the others are more attractive than yourself. My advice is to think more about others than about yourself, and other people will find you attractive. That's what I think based on my experience.

Don't judge yourself too harshly. You are probably better looking than you think. I don't mean this personally in any derogatory way about you, penndragon69. I just mean that for everyone out there. Don't worry about whether you are as goodlooking as you need to be. Just care about others.

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Read something similar many years ago, but mostly re: getting hired over others Roland99 Dec 2013 #1
What's interesting is it isn't necessarily something exploited ... 1000words Dec 2013 #2
And how much money did they waste to learn the OBVIOUSE ? penndragon69 Dec 2013 #3
Do you think that "the beatiful people" think they are beautiful? JDPriestly Dec 2013 #6
This is true for me as well Tumbulu Dec 2013 #9
It is a matter of self-confidence. JDPriestly Dec 2013 #19
I was the same way, thought I was plain, but looking back I was above average. tridim Dec 2013 #10
Same here CountAllVotes Dec 2013 #11
Yes. And girls with strict religious upbringings were taught not to think highly of JDPriestly Dec 2013 #18
It got very weird abt. 1970 or so CountAllVotes Dec 2013 #22
do they mean in type of jobs most people have ? because wealthy corporate types are rarely JI7 Dec 2013 #4
But what makes someone pretty or good-looking? JDPriestly Dec 2013 #5
Pretty sure it's physical....we are superficial. bowens43 Dec 2013 #8
I think it is more than that. I think it is a matter in part of confidence JDPriestly Dec 2013 #21
US and maybe the world is obsessed with beauty Kingofalldems Dec 2013 #7
Yikes! 1000words Dec 2013 #13
Not news to anyone who group up in the less attractive group Marrah_G Dec 2013 #12
I had a sociology professor at Berkeley deurbano Dec 2013 #14
In other research it is now conclusively proven cosmicone Dec 2013 #15
And the research which concluded that most studies, regardless of how esoteric, have a 77% chance... LanternWaste Dec 2013 #16
It is also proven cosmicone Dec 2013 #20
Candidate for this year's "You Call This NEWS?" awards rocktivity Dec 2013 #17
I've seen worse ... CountAllVotes Dec 2013 #23
Hi Redfairen, pinto Dec 2013 #24
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