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JDPriestly

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19. It is a matter of self-confidence.
Mon Dec 16, 2013, 07:58 PM
Dec 2013

At one point, I taught a junior-high Sunday school class. I noticed that the children from more affluent families, the ones who attended private schools and traveled with their grandparents, etc. were a lot more confident about themselves than those who did not enjoy those advantages.

Note to parents. Require your children to perform well and then give them credit for what they achieve.

You would be surprised at the parents who, from the get-go, do nothing but impose their own lack of self-esteem on their children.

Nothing other than crimes or cheating or taking from others or hating, nothing, not race, not money, nothing makes one person more beautiful or worth more than another. We all have talents and inner beauty no matter what. We need to explain that to our children. It would do more to rid our schools of bullies than anything else.

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Read something similar many years ago, but mostly re: getting hired over others Roland99 Dec 2013 #1
What's interesting is it isn't necessarily something exploited ... 1000words Dec 2013 #2
And how much money did they waste to learn the OBVIOUSE ? penndragon69 Dec 2013 #3
Do you think that "the beatiful people" think they are beautiful? JDPriestly Dec 2013 #6
This is true for me as well Tumbulu Dec 2013 #9
It is a matter of self-confidence. JDPriestly Dec 2013 #19
I was the same way, thought I was plain, but looking back I was above average. tridim Dec 2013 #10
Same here CountAllVotes Dec 2013 #11
Yes. And girls with strict religious upbringings were taught not to think highly of JDPriestly Dec 2013 #18
It got very weird abt. 1970 or so CountAllVotes Dec 2013 #22
do they mean in type of jobs most people have ? because wealthy corporate types are rarely JI7 Dec 2013 #4
But what makes someone pretty or good-looking? JDPriestly Dec 2013 #5
Pretty sure it's physical....we are superficial. bowens43 Dec 2013 #8
I think it is more than that. I think it is a matter in part of confidence JDPriestly Dec 2013 #21
US and maybe the world is obsessed with beauty Kingofalldems Dec 2013 #7
Yikes! 1000words Dec 2013 #13
Not news to anyone who group up in the less attractive group Marrah_G Dec 2013 #12
I had a sociology professor at Berkeley deurbano Dec 2013 #14
In other research it is now conclusively proven cosmicone Dec 2013 #15
And the research which concluded that most studies, regardless of how esoteric, have a 77% chance... LanternWaste Dec 2013 #16
It is also proven cosmicone Dec 2013 #20
Candidate for this year's "You Call This NEWS?" awards rocktivity Dec 2013 #17
I've seen worse ... CountAllVotes Dec 2013 #23
Hi Redfairen, pinto Dec 2013 #24
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