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Hassin Bin Sober

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22. My mom would have loved to live to 80.
Mon Jan 27, 2014, 02:12 PM
Jan 2014

The saddest part of the whole ordeal was trying to comfort her and not let her beat herself up for, in her words, "I should have never smoked those stupid things".

She died at the point the grandkids were old enough to start enjoying their grandma and I was at the point in my career were I (single, gay no kids) could treat them to nice things as a thank you for all they did for me. Instead she got spent the last two years of her life in and out of hospitals and gasping for breath. Dead at 70. Her mom lived to a relatively healthy 85.

I just watched the same thing happen to my partner's dad. An otherwise strong healthy man, gasping for breath like a fish out of water. A brand new grandchild who will never know him. He had two older grandkids he was able to enjoy from the older sister but one can just feel the sadness of the younger sister knowing her baby will never know grandpa.

Comments and cartoons like that are offensive to people who have been through this.

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Wow! I thot this guy died a long time ago... TheDebbieDee Jan 2014 #1
I also thought he died long ago. Nt newfie11 Jan 2014 #2
More than one character actor played smoking cowboys in those ads. onehandle Jan 2014 #4
Marlboro Man started in 54. Several people have played the role, 3 died from Bluenorthwest Jan 2014 #7
+1 meegbear Jan 2014 #8
I thought that, too: here is an article that mentions the others who also died. xocet Jan 2014 #15
Joe Camel, a Giant in Tobacco Marketing, Is Dead at 23 warrant46 Jan 2014 #3
Here's a fun trick for the entire family ... meegbear Jan 2014 #9
So he smoked almost 60 years and died at 72. Bonobo Jan 2014 #5
I guess we're lucky then it was merely a news report and not an attempt to scare off smokers... LanternWaste Jan 2014 #11
Maybe they should have included video of him wheezing and coughing geek tragedy Jan 2014 #17
With maybe two exceptions, my friends who smoked have systematically it seems died JDPriestly Jan 2014 #6
Smoking was the basis for retirement at 65 Demeter Jan 2014 #10
Cut down in his prime... JohnnyRingo Jan 2014 #12
+1000 Tom Ripley Jan 2014 #16
My mom would have loved to live to 80. Hassin Bin Sober Jan 2014 #22
Lost my mother when she was 53 JohnnyRingo Jan 2014 #25
Died doing what he loved to do KansDem Jan 2014 #13
Huh? He did anti-smoking commercials before he died. geek tragedy Jan 2014 #18
I was referring to his acting career... KansDem Jan 2014 #20
ahh, that's much different. sorry for misunderstanding you nt geek tragedy Jan 2014 #21
COPD - Killing masculine, rugged, red-blooded, manly American he-men Aristus Jan 2014 #14
COPD = slow-motion asphyxiation 1000words Jan 2014 #23
my father shanti Jan 2014 #19
Maybe A Good Thing I'm Not Smoking Marlboro's....Or Wait, bkanderson76 Jan 2014 #24
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